Bear Crawl with Dads

In episode #31, we are honored to have Mickey, a fellow Houstonian whose story is both intriguing and inspiring. 

We delve into Mickey's relationship with his father, exploring the challenges and lessons learned from a childhood marked by frequent moves and emotional avoidance. 

Mickey opens up about his struggles with addiction, including a significant period of his life where he dealt with pornography and infidelity. He shares the profound impact this had on his marriage and family, and how he and his wife, Stephanie, have worked through these challenges. 

Throughout the episode, Mickey's story is a testament to resilience, recovery, and the ongoing journey of personal growth. 

 00:00:00 - Introduction and Welcome
 00:00:33 - Guest Introduction: Mickey
 00:01:23 - Mickey's Background and Early Life
 00:02:21 - Moving and Childhood Challenges
 00:03:56 - Settling in South Texas
 00:04:49 - Education and Career Path
 00:05:43 - Family and Current Life
 00:06:40 - Influence of Mexican Culture
 00:08:30 - Raising Bilingual Children
 00:11:14 - Relationship with Father
 00:12:07 - Emotional Avoidance in Family
 00:13:10 - Baseball Story and Emotional Suppression
 00:14:14 - Impact of Pornography
 00:15:47 - Double Life and Addiction
 00:17:07 - Father's Support in Recovery
 00:18:13 - Positive Aspects of Relationship with Father
 00:20:09 - Father's Work Ethic and Discipline
 00:22:27 - Bonding Through Activities
 00:24:45 - Father's Intentional Presence
 00:28:12 - Best Advice from Father
 00:30:51 - Perseverance and Not Quitting
 00:32:18 - Challenges as a Father
 00:33:17 - Affair and Its Impact
 00:37:00 - Encouragement for Struggling Fathers
 00:38:16 - Addiction and Seeking Help
 00:42:33 - Role of Spouse in Marital Issues
 00:46:29 - Recovery and Healing Process
 00:48:08 - Steph's Role in Recovery
  

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OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL ENJOY

01: Dads, Dogs, and Parenting with Lamar Smith

02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

07: Loss of a Mother, Legacy of Laugher, & the Power of Being Present with David Hamilton

In episode #30, we visit with Michael, a fellow dad sharing his journey in fatherhood. Michael talks about being a new dad with a daughter and a son, along with his wife of almost 10 years. The conversation touches on the joys and challenges of parenting, highlighting the continuous learning experience that comes with raising kids. Tune in for some heartfelt insights and relatable experiences from two dads navigating the world of fatherhood.

Join us for this episode of "Bear Crawl with Dads" as we navigate the rewarding path of fatherhood, learning and growing along the way.

00:00:48 - Guest Introduction: Michael

Ross introduces his guest, Michael, who shares a bit about his background, family, and his transition from oil and gas to co-founding a software company.

00:02:47 - Michael's Work Explained

Michael explains the nature of his work in ERP software for wholesale distributors and how it helps businesses operate more efficiently.

00:04:19 - Michael's Role in His Company

Discussion about Michael's role as COO in his startup, overseeing operations, development, and customer support.

00:05:24 - Balancing Fatherhood and Entrepreneurship

Ross and Michael discuss the challenges of balancing new fatherhood with starting and running a new business.

00:06:56 - Michael's Childhood and Influence of His Father

Michael shares memories of his father, their relationship, and how it shaped his approach to life and fatherhood.

00:11:54 - Parenting Styles and Communication

Ross and Michael delve into the importance of communication in parenting and how Michael's father used dialogue as a form of teaching and discipline.

00:13:35 - Connecting Through Activities

Discussion on how physical activities like playing catch were a medium for bonding and communication between Michael and his father.

00:17:16 - Reflecting on Parental Influence

Michael reflects on how his parents encouraged his natural talents and how that influenced his approach to parenting.

00:22:09 - Transitioning to Discuss Michael as a Dad

Shift in conversation to focus on Michael's experiences and challenges as a dad.

00:25:24 - Challenges of Fatherhood

Michael discusses the challenges he faces in balancing work commitments with being a present and engaged father.

00:28:55 - Importance of Community and Communication in Parenting

Michael emphasizes the importance of community support and open communication with his wife to maintain alignment in parenting.

00:32:04 - Strategies for Being a Present Parent

Michael shares his strategies for ensuring he remains an active and present parent despite a busy professional life.

00:36:19 - Aligning Family and Career Goals

Discussion on how Michael aligns his career goals with his priorities as a husband and father, emphasizing the importance of his faith in guiding his decisions.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Michael McCormack on LinkedIn

Follow 10X ERP on LinkedIn

Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters by Meg Meeker

Raising a Strong Daughter in a Toxic Culture by Meg Meeker

Raising Emotionally Strong Boys by David Thomas

Faithful Fathering Initiative by Rick Wertz

What Makes Love Last? By John Gottman/Nan Silver

Eight Dates by John Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, Doug Abrams, Rachel Abrams

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT: 

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In episode #29, we visit a with fellow Houstonian and Baylor Bear, Brian Smith. Brian shares his journey of becoming a better father and husband, drawing from the profound transformation he witnessed in his own father after a pivotal moment of faith. We explored the challenges and joys of parenting, particularly the unique experience of raising daughters. Brian's stories about his father's shift from a hardworking provider to a present and engaged parent were not only inspiring but also a testament to the power of personal change.

Brian's message of gratitude to his father for the life lessons imparted and his desire to pass on those values to his daughters was a powerful reminder of the enduring influence of a father's love and guidance.

Join us for this episode of "Bear Crawl with Dads" as we navigate the rewarding path of fatherhood, learning and growing along the way.

 
 00:02:54 - Brian and His Wife's Long-Distance Relationship
 00:03:42 - Brian's Houstonian Roots and Family Background
 00:04:16 - Favorite BBQ Spot
 00:05:07 - Daughters and Parenting Experience
 00:06:02 - Father's Influence and Leap of Faith
 00:07:10 - The Impact of Faith on Brian's Father
 00:09:10 - Brian's Reflection on His Father's Transformation
 00:11:12 - Father's Career Crisis and Faith Journey
 00:18:19 - Challenges as a Father
 00:20:04 - Realization of Fatherhood's Impact
 00:21:28 - Thoughts on Raising Two Girls
 00:22:13 - Advice from His Father
 00:24:57 - Reflections on His Father's Advice and Legacy
 00:25:41 - Parenting Philosophy and Challenges
 00:27:24 - Aspirations for His Daughters' Self-Esteem
 00:28:01 - Intentional Parenting Moments
 00:29:07 - Perspective on Empowering His Daughters
 00:33:06 - Transition from Guiding to Letting Go as a Parent
 00:34:10 - Gratitude for His Father's Example
 00:36:09 - Thoughts on Creating Family Traditions and Rites of Passage
 00:37:10 - Plans for Creating a Family Culture
 00:38:24 - Concerns About Social Media's Impact on His Daughters
 00:39:39 - Intention to Protect His Daughters in a Digital Age
 00:41:41 - Desire for Open Communication with His Daughters
 00:42:56 - Thoughts on Establishing Family Traditions
 00:44:10 - Family Culture of Community Service
 00:45:03 - Personal Rites of Passage and Family Traditions
 00:46:16 - Intention to Create Memorable Experiences with His Daughters
 00:49:49 - Gratitude and Understanding Toward His Father
 00:50:11 - Message to His Dad Now That He's a Father
 

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Baylor University

Memorial High School

Stephen F Austin State University

Independence, TX

Enchanted Rock

Mexia, TX

Goode Co. BBQ

 Demaris BBQ

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT: 

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OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL ENJOY

01: Dads, Dogs, and Parenting with Lamar Smith

02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

In episode #28, we had a heartwarming and insightful conversation with Hank, a father of three and a man juggling the responsibilities of managing auxiliary companies and a non-profit focused on land conservation and historical preservation in Houston and Virginia. We dove deep into the world of fatherhood, exploring the highs and lows that come with the journey. As a father, Hank opened up about the challenges of parenting at different stages of his children's lives and the lessons learned along the way. He emphasized the value of being comfortable with discomfort, a lesson he learned from his own father, who was a risk-taker and adventurer.

So, grab a cup of coffee, settle in, and join us for a conversation that is all about the adventure of fatherhood and the legacy we leave behind.

 00:01:19 - Hank's Professional Background and Non-Profit Work
 00:01:56 - Hank's Involvement in Land Conservation and Historical Preservation
 00:03:02 - The Need for Historical Narratives and Land Preservation
 00:04:07 - The Non-Profit's Surprising Impact on Hank
 00:05:00 - Restoring Historical Structures and Acknowledging the Past
 00:05:44 - The Show's Focus on Fatherhood and Learning from Others
 00:06:10 - Hank's Family and Parenting Experience
 00:08:07 - Hank's Childhood and Family Business Background
 00:09:16 - Moving from San Francisco to Wisconsin: A Culture Shock
 00:10:18 - Hank's Relationship with His Father and Parenting Style
 00:13:09 - Hank's Father's Adventurous Spirit and Its Influence
 00:14:27 - The Challenges of Parenting Different Personalities
 00:15:28 - The Importance of Being Present and Intentional as a Father
 00:17:15 - Hank's Reflection on His Father's Advice and Example
 00:18:06 - Outdoor Adventures and Life Lessons from Hank's Father
 00:19:07 - The Significance of Being Comfortable with Discomfort
 00:20:06 - Passing on Outdoor Experiences to Hank's Children
 00:21:02 - The Impact of Outdoor Experiences on Personal Growth
 00:21:38 - The Role of Fathers in Providing and Setting Examples
 00:22:52 - The Importance of Acknowledging and Forgiving Parents
 00:23:23 - The Legacy of Fathers and the Impact on Future Generations
 00:25:04 - The Challenges of Balancing Discipline and Patience as a Dad
 00:26:02 - The Value of Partner Support in Parenting
 00:27:05 - The Dynamics of Parenting Styles Between Hank and His Wife
 00:28:01 - The Importance of Family Meals and One-on-One Time with Kids
 00:29:07 - The Impact of Intentional Parenting and Creating Memories
 00:30:12 - The Role of Fathers in Shaping the Next Generation
 00:31:15 - Hank's Greatest Challenge as a Father
 00:32:32 - The Balance of Discipline and Grace in Parenting
 00:33:00 - The Importance of Partner Support in Navigating Parenting Challenges
 00:34:10 - The Role of Fathers in Household Responsibilities and Chores
 00:35:05 - The Significance of Family Traditions and Individual Trips with Children
 00:36:53 - The Impact of Fathers on Children's Lives and Future Generations
 00:38:02 - The Importance of Fathers Being Present and Showing Love
 00:39:01 - The Challenges Fathers Face in Today's Society
 00:40:10 - The Importance of Fathers Understanding Their Impact on the Next Generation
 
 

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

National Outdoor Leadership School

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT: 

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OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL ENJOY

01: Dads, Dogs, and Parenting with Lamar Smith

02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

In episode #27, we visit with Miah who shares his unique upbringing, starting in Michigan and moving to Durban, South Africa, at the age of five. Through Miah’s story, we learn that fatherhood is a journey of continuous learning and growth. He reminds us that while we may not always meet our lofty parenting goals, it's the daily interactions and the environment we create for our children that truly define our success as dads. 

 00:01:19 - Miah's Background and Journey
 00:02:24 - Miah's Early Memories of Moving to South Africa
 00:03:43 - Discussing Michigan Roots and Family Connections
 00:05:31 - Miah's Childhood Transition to South Africa
 00:07:01 - Parental Influence and Framing Challenges as Adventures
 00:07:34 - The Role of Miah's Father in His Upbringing
 00:08:08 - Early Memories in South Africa and Family Dynamics
 00:09:12 - Cultural Experiences and Family Adventures
 00:11:19 - Learning About Father's Past During a Sermon
 00:12:05 - The Importance of Communication Between Father and Son
 00:13:19 - Miah Reflects on His Father's Approach to Parenting
 00:15:05 - Challenges of Fatherhood and Time Management
 00:16:16 - Family Traditions and Involving Kids in Decision Making
 00:17:31 - Establishing Family Rules and Boundaries
 00:18:49 - Intentionality in Parenting and Handling Sensitive Topics
 00:20:37 – Miah’s Approach to Discussing Technology and Freedom with Kids
 00:22:15 - Miah's Take on Family Traditions and Creating a Family Identity
 00:24:37 - The Value of Capturing Family Moments and Decision-Making Tools
 00:25:07 - Miah's Desire for More Guidance from His Father
 00:26:19 - The Significance of Small Parenting Moments
 00:29:37 - The Balance of Independence and Guidance in Parenting
 00:32:17 - The Influence of Miah's Grandfather on Family Traditions
 00:34:39 - The Challenge of Balancing Parental Expectations and Reality
 00:36:05 - Teaching Kids About Family Values and Responsibilities
 00:37:11 - Establishing and Explaining Family Rules to Children
 00:38:13 - The Importance of Being Intentional with Children
 00:39:53 - Creating a Safe Space for Open Communication with Kids
 00:41:19 - The Impact of Miah's Wife's Profession on Parenting
 00:42:53 - Discussing Sensitive Topics and Empowering Children
 00:44:43 - The Importance of Ongoing Conversations About Difficult Topics
 00:48:33 - The Importance of Addressing Taboo Topics with Children
 00:49:52 - The Approach to Discussing Body Autonomy and Boundaries
 00:51:09 - The Gradual Process of Discussing Sensitive Topics with Kids

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Durban, South Africa

Youth for Christ

Apartheid, South Africa

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT: 

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OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL ENJOY

01: Dads, Dogs, and, Parenting with Lamar Smith

02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

Franklin Swann Notes

Episode Summary: The Power of Fatherhood and Vulnerability

In this heartfelt episode of "Bear Crawl with Dads," we had the pleasure of speaking with Franklin, a dedicated father and business owner from Tyler, Texas. Franklin shared his fatherhood journey, the challenges, and triumphs of running a family business, and the importance of being present and intentional as a dad.

Key Takeaways:

· Family Business Legacy: Franklin discussed his 128-year-old family business in furniture and interior design, highlighting the inherent pressures and his desire to contribute meaningfully rather than just taking over.
· Fatherhood Insights: We delved into Franklin's experiences as a father, his relationship with his dad, and the lessons he's learned along the way. He emphasized the value of patience, presence, and the power of apologizing to your children.
· Intentional Parenting: Franklin shared his daily practice of writing love notes to his wife and children, a simple yet profound act that strengthens his family bonds and ensures his loved ones know how much they are cherished.
· Vulnerability Among Men: Franklin opened up about his podcast, "The World Needs Men," which aims to provide a space for men to share their struggles and support each other in their roles as fathers and husbands.
· The Importance of Community: The episode highlighted the significance of men having a community where they can be vulnerable and honest about their challenges without fear of judgment.
· 
Reflections:

This episode was a powerful reminder of fathers' impact on their families and the importance of vulnerability and intentionality in parenting. Franklin's story and commitment to being the best dad he can be were genuinely inspiring. Creating a supportive community for fathers is beneficial and necessary for the well-being of families everywhere.

Remember, there is always time to reconnect with your children or your father. As we continue our journey to be better dads, let's take a page from Franklin's book and lead with humility, gratitude, and love.

00:00:03 - Introduction to the Podcast
00:00:14 - Welcoming Listeners to "Bear Crawl with Dads"
00:00:24 - Discussing the Spectrum of Fatherhood
00:00:34 - Introducing Guest Franklin from Texas
00:01:20 - Franklin's Background and Family Business
00:02:07 - Franklin's Age and Schooling
00:02:24 - Visiting All Saints School for Innovative Education
00:02:47 - Franklin's Experience with Texas Football
00:03:36 - The Legacy of Franklin's Family Business
00:03:57 - Expectations and Pressures in a Family Business
00:04:09 - Franklin's Decision to Join the Family Business
00:04:52 - The Challenges of Running a Family Business
00:05:56 - The Pressure of Continuing a Family Legacy
00:06:07 - Franklin's Faith and Personal Growth
00:06:45 - Franklin's Relationship with His Brother
00:07:04 - Franklin Reflects on His Father's Influence
00:08:01 - Franklin's Father's Intentional Parenting
00:09:33 - Franklin's Father as a Grandfather
00:10:08 - The Importance of Quality Time and Presence
00:10:50 - Franklin's Take on His Father's Parenting Style
00:11:29 - Franklin's Brother's Relationship with Their Father
00:12:12 - Franklin's Gratitude Towards His Father
00:13:01 - The Impact of Fathers and the Importance of Gratitude
00:13:54 - Franklin's Advice to Fathers and Sons
00:14:20 - Franklin Shares a Personal Story About His Father
00:15:36 - The Significance of Fathers Being Present
00:16:08 - Franklin's Challenges as a Father
00:16:59 - Franklin's Son Calls Him Out
00:17:10 - Learning from Parenting Mistakes
00:18:01 - The Power of Apologizing to Your Children
00:19:16 - The Legacy of Fathers and Sons
00:19:51 - The Importance of Intentionality in Fatherhood
00:20:47 - Franklin's Morning Routine for Family Connection
00:21:31 - The Impact of Writing Love Notes to Family
00:22:25 - Encouraging Fathers to Reconnect with Their Children
00:22:47 - Franklin's Passion for Helping Fathers
00:23:01 - The Launch of Franklin's Podcast for Men
00:24:18 - Franklin's Journey from a Dark Place to Helping Others
00:25:33 - The Importance of Men Sharing Their Struggles
00:26:27 - The Power of Vulnerability Among Fathers
00:27:22 - Franklin's Experience with Men Opening Up
00:28:02 - The Comfort of Knowing Other Fathers Share Similar Struggles
00:29:12 - Franklin's Greatest Challenge as a Father
00:29:56 - Franklin's Strategies for Staying Centered and Present
00:30:33 - The Impact of Franklin's Morning Routine
00:31:29 - Franklin's Daily Love Notes to His Family
00:32:46 - The Significance of Franklin's Love Notes Tradition
00:33:27 - The Power of Intentionality in Franklin's Life
00:34:01 - Franklin's Mission to Support Fathers Through His Podcast
00:35:20 - The Importance of Men's Vulnerability and Support
00:36:07 - Franklin's Podcast as a Platform for Men's Stories
00:37:15 - The Healing Power of Men Sharing Their Pain
00:38:10 - The Loneliness Men Face and the Need for Connection
00:39:35 - The Importance of Real Conversations Among Men
00:40:31 - The Impact of Vulnerability and Honesty in Male Friendships
00:41:33 - Franklin's Personal Experience with Men's Vulnerability
00:42:35 - The Need for Authenticity and Support in Fatherhood
00:43:27 - Franklin's Personal Transformation and Desire to Help Others
00:44:23 - The Launch of Franklin's Podcast and Its Reception
00:45:33 - The Power of Shared Struggles and Vulnerability Among Men
00:46:39 - Franklin's Experience with Men Opening Up on a Fishing Trip
00:47:49 - The Isolation of Men and the Importance of Sharing Burdens
00:48:42 - Franklin's Journey to Helping Men Through His Podcast
00:49:35 - The Importance of Men's Groups and Honest Conversations

RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Franklin Swann’s Podcast, “The World Needs Men”
Follow Franklin Swann on “The World Needs Men” on Instagram
Follow Franklin Swann on Facebook
Swann Furniture and Design, Tyler, TX
 
 
 
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For Episode #25 of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Joaull Bazil. Joaull is a husband, father, videographer, and photographer who grew up in the Virgin Islands. Joaull is a houseparent at a children's home in Texas who discusses his role and the dynamics of living with eight boys and his own three kids. He pays tribute to mentors that changed the trajectory of his life, and how that gave vision to his life calling. Joaull is in the trenches of making a difference in the lives of young men. You will be inspired by his story. 

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS: 

00:01:09 Working at a children's home.

00:06:54 Children's homes serve different purposes.

00:19:35 Family support is crucial.

00:23:08 Father's work ethic influenced him.

00:31:18 Finding stability and faith through adversity.

00:39:26 The power of positive male role models.

00:42:10 Father figures shape our lives.

00:57:38 Importance of mentorship and community.

01:13:09 Empathy and understanding for children.

01:19:20 Connecting with children takes intentional time.

01:31:47 Men struggle with vulnerability and seeking help.

01:36:15 Diverse communities can lead to growth.

01:46:22 Never too late to reconnect.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Joaull Bazil on Instagram

Joaull Bazil’s website

 St. Croix

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT: 

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 Are you following the podcast? If you are not, I want to encourage you to follow today so you don’t miss any future episodes! I have so many amazing guests and topics lined up; I would hate for you to miss a single one!  Click here to follow on Apple Podcasts. 

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OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL ENJOY

01: Dads, Dogs, and, Parenting with Lamar Smith

02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

07: Loss of a Mother, Legacy of Laugher, & the Power of Being Present with David Hamilton

08: Wrestling with Faith, Thoughts ...

For Episode #24 of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Jim Miller, entrepreneur, husband, and father who grew up on the banks of the Ohio River. Jim shares about his growing up in Portsmouth, Ohio, losing his father at 15, being a girl Dad, finding the good in everything, and so much more. You are going to want to know Jim as he is truly a one of a kind. 

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS: 

00:02:03 Podcast guest from small town.

00:06:03 No takeaway

00:14:25 Family traditions shape identity.

00:20:33 Father was best friend, instilled work ethic.

00:24:28 Importance of nurturing creativity.

00:33:01 Father's promise shaped son's life.

00:41:07 Intentional parenting shapes independent children.

00:46:04 Finding the positive in everything.

00:49:07 Finding good in everything.

00:55:10 Understanding and addressing children's behavior.

01:05:46 Empower children through advocacy.

01:07:14 Open lines of honest communication.

01:13:08 Open communication with children is key.

01:23:06 Promote independence and open communication.

01:24:43 Family traditions and bonding.

01:37:09 Identity crisis for modern dads.

01:37:52 Men need examples and support.

01:43:27 Connect through shared interests and activities.

01:51:30 Importance of father figures.

01:55:37 Importance of asking questions.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Portsmouth, Ohio 

Aristotle

Duchesne Academy of The Sacred Heart

Baylor University

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT: 

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OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL ENJOY

01: Dads, Dogs, and, Parenting with Lamar Smith

02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

07: Loss of a Mother, Legacy of Laugher, & the Power of Being Present with David Hamilton

For Episode #23 of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Dr. Christopher Jones, principal at a regional high school in Massachusetts, husband, father to two boys, and author. Dr. Jones shares about how being a high principal to practicing what you preach in modeling behavior to the power of connection with his truck talks. Dr. Jones is a positive force of nature that everyone needs to know!  

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS: 

05:40 Toughest job, but worth it

06:01 Importance of positive feedback

12:31 Importance of being a present father

22:53 Father's vulnerability brings reconciliation 

24:14 Importance of forgiveness in relationships

29:10 Teach empathy and self-awareness

35:17 Modeling behavior for children

39:04 Modeling love and acceptance matters

44:10 Honesty builds strong relationships

53:14 Importance of quality family time

54:11 Honesty and openness build trust

1:02:38 Time flies, be intentional

1:08:10 Dads need role clarity

1:15:43 Stand up for respect and accountability

1:20:42 Support, engage, and empower teachers

1:24:26 Embrace change, empower teachers 

1:29:43 Finding purpose in education

1:39:19 Building a strong family team

1:40:02 Importance of teamwork and gratitude

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Dr. Jones on LinkedIn

Follow Dr. Jones’ on Twitter

Dr. Jones’ website

SEEing to Lead Podcast

SEEing to Lead Book  

Whitman-Hanson Regional High School 

Follow Dr. Jones’ on Facebook

Bridgewater State University

Dunkin’ Donuts

Jeff Corwin – BSU Alum 

Robert Stack – BSU Alum 

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT: 

Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Instagram

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Connect with Bear Crawl with Dads on Facebook

Follow Ross Purdy on LinkedIn

Bear Crawl with Dad’s website

For Episode #22 of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Mike Yates, an agitator in education, hails from Houston, Texas, and is a husband and father to four children ranging from ages four to nine. Mike shares the power of male role models in his life, a tribute to his mom, raising the bar of respect, and he shares his views on the current state of education. Mike’s story is powerful and empowering, so please sit back, relax, and enjoy! 

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS: 

00:05:58 Name children after cities.

00:11:47 Flexibility to try new things.

00:14:59 Mom's love and grace is invaluable.

00:18:37 Inspiring male role models.

00:29:37 Women can achieve greatness.

00:35:02 Make a difference in one child.

00:37:57 Take risks and persevere.

00:47:44 Dreams can come true.

00:53:44 Struggle builds strength.

00:54:08 Intentional family time is key.

01:00:14 Raise the bar of respect.

01:10:54 Be present for your kids.

01:15:28 Fathers are essential for children.

01:23:04 Homeschooling is important.

01:25:02 More education options available.

01:34:33 Empowering middle schoolers.

01:35:14 Learn new trades on a farm.

RESOURCES MENTIONED: 

Follow Mike Yates on LinkedIn

Follow Mike Yates on Twitter

Mike Yates’s website

Schoolish Podcast

The Reinvention Lab at Teach for America LinkedIn

Teach for America

Westside High School (Houston, TX)

Veritas Academy (Austin, TX)

Pershing Middle School (Houston, TX)

Hidden Figures 20th Century Fox movie

Katherine Johnson

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT: 

Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Instagram

Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Twitter

Connect with Bear Crawl with Dads on Facebook

Follow Ross Purdy on LinkedIn

Bear Crawl with Dad’s website

FOLLOW & REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS

 Are you following the podcast? If you are not, I want to encourage you to follow today so you don’t miss any future episodes! I have so many amazing guests and topics lined up; I would hate for you to miss a single one!  Click here to follow on Apple Podcasts. 

Could I ask a big favor? If you are loving the show, I would LOVE it if you would leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. I read each and every one!  

Wondering how to leave a review? Click here to review, then select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review”.  So easy and so appreciated! 

OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL ENJOY

01: Dads, Dogs, and, Parenting with Lamar Smith

02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins