This episode features special guest, Cassy Summers, from Canada!

In this conversation we look at "Gaslighting" behavior:

what it can show up as, why we become the target, and what else is possible to move beyond gaslighting.Find out more about Cassy: www.asifbymagic.space/Find Julie's events: www.julietutonenergy.com/event#relationship #breakupcoach #breakupedits #divorcecoaching #relationshipcoach #accessconsciousness

What if you could choose what works for you without having to justify your choices? This episode is with special guest, Pam Houghteling, who shares that nothing was "wrong" and yet she knew that separating would create more for everyone.

After a breakup, sometimes years later, when you suddenly remember the good parts of your relationship, or maybe your ex has found a new partner, what does that bring up for you? Do you go to doubting your choice? Do you have second thoughts about trying to make it work again?

Why do we keep choosing to go into relationships with people with Narcissistic personality disorder, and how can you move beyond it?

What is the space of Allowance?

When you take a fixed point of view you can't see other possibilities. Then we gather evidence to justify the rightness of our point of view. The way to be free is to have the ability to see all points of view, not just the ones we defend. This is what is called being in allowance.

Allowance is everything is an interesting point of view.

Begin to use the tool Interesting Point of View to create space of allowance for you... and everyone else!

Just like being a rock in the stream, where the rock is just there, and the stream washes around it... Listen to the episode for more!

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When you begin to realize that you have outgrown the container that holds you a relationship, what choices do you have?

Many think you have no choice, or that it must lead to a break up. But what else might be possible if you were to look at your choices, and really get clear on what you’d like your future to be?

Step 3 of my book Beauty in the Breakup illuminates how to gain clarity for yourself.

What choices can you make to move towards that future, whether it's together or apart?

Have a listen to the conversation with my next guest, Sylvia Puentes, on this topic!

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When Plan A doesn't work out, for whatever reasons, it is possible to choose again, often from a place of more awareness. What might be possible with this, instead of making it wrong, making yourself a failure, etc.?

This episode features my special guest Laleh Hancock, who speaks about being married twice and divorced twice, yet has a very different perspective and outlook. She sees both relationships as some of the greatest gifts of her life.

What if we looked at, "what did I gain from this?" and have gratitude, rather than the fight and feelings of failure?

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Where are you in your relationship? Contemplating a breakup is not something we tend to talk about. It starts with a foreboding sense deep within, which bubbles up more and more the longer you avoid it.

What if avoiding what you know, avoiding your inner voice, your knowing of what is true for you, makes the boat sink deeper, faster?

Avoiding what you know is the beginning of what is called "divorcing You"! In actuality, acknowledging that something needs to change begins to calm the waters.

This episode is a Quickie, with questions for you to ask yourself, and ponder the possibilities that you may not have considered.

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This episode features a special guest, founder and creator of the worldwide personal development system, Gary Douglas! Gary encouraged/asked/told me to write my book, Beauty in the Breakup, and I'm grateful for it has been a useful tool for many many people around the world, (including me!)

What if you're not wrong? And what if you're also not right? How to untangle from your judgments and points of view that are limiting your ability to choose...

Trying to choose what's right, and trying not to feel wrong, often leaves you in a place of no choice.

What if, instead of using the lens of judgment of right/wrong, you chose what felt light or expansive?

More about learning to navigate your life in Step 3 of my book, Beauty in the Breakup.

Find it online : https://www.amazon.com/Beauty-Breakup-Julie-Tuton/dp/1634931300

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