In this special pre-Valentine's Day episode, Mer talks through her step-by-step journey of how she got out of bad dating patterns, took radical ownership, and became the partner of her dreams, before calling in her actual partner, Spencer. Whether you're ready to call in the partner, community, or life of your dreams, this episode will help you get CLEAR on what you want, how to break free of negative cycles that keep you from getting it, and finally how to become what you're ready to attract.