In this episode of Become Your Own Dream Girl, I break down a pivotal moment from Bridgerton and what it reveals about fantasy, standards, and feminine initiation.

It’s easy to romanticize longing.
It’s easy to collapse into chemistry.
It’s easy to accept proximity instead of commitment.

But when a woman gives access before she is chosen — emotionally, physically, energetically — she abandons the position that would call a man higher.

In this episode of Become Your Own Dream Girl, we explore:

• Why longing can cloud your discernment
• The feminine mistake of giving before commitment
• How “almost” relationships erode your power
• Why standards initiate masculine leadership
• The difference between being desired and being devoted to

If you’ve ever romanticized potential…
If you’ve ever accepted less because it felt intoxicating…
If you’ve ever confused intensity with devotion…

This episode will make everything click

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In this episode, we’re talking about the uncomfortable truth no one wants to name: how women, from lower feminine patterns, unintentionally enable men to stay stuck—uninitiated, passive, and boyish—and then wonder why the King never arrives.

This isn’t about blaming women.
And it’s definitely not about fixing men.

It’s about power.
Energetic leadership.
And the subtle ways mothering, over-functioning, “being understanding,” and emotional management quietly destroy polarity.

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You can’t try to be feminine — that energy is rooted in control, not truth. In this episode, we unpack why performing femininity keeps you emotionally unavailable and blocks real intimacy.

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You’re too energetically refined for what dating apps create: chasing, proving, and performing.

This isn’t about deleting the apps — it’s about remembering who you are when you stop trying to get love and start being it.

Of course, some of you feel aligned with dating apps and that's great, this is for the woman that knows she's only on it because she thinks she needs to be.

In this video, I share how to attract your man in real life through alignment, aliveness, and feminine embodiment.

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Over-processing kills polarity. The less you bring him, the more he feels you — this episode explores why constant “issue-talking” pushes him away and how to embody feminine communication that actually creates connection.

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Settling is chasing — but most women don’t realize it.
In this episode, we’re breaking down what it really means to lower your standards and abandon your truth to stay in a relationship that doesn’t feel fully aligned.

If you’re done shrinking, over-functioning, or “waiting for him to be ready,” this is your wake-up call.

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You don’t attract what you want — you attract what you are.
If you’ve been attracting men who can’t meet you, can’t choose you, or keep you questioning your worth, it’s time to look at the boundaries you hold with yourself.

In this episode, I’m breaking down how your boundaries (or lack of them) show us how deeply you cherish and love yourself — and why they determine the kind of man you allow into your world.

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Listen to Jessie and I go deep and very real about our experience in love, healing and relationships.

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You need to be asking yourself these questions when you're dating.

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If you’ve ever found yourself trying to “be feminine” — soft voice, pretty outfits, leaned back energy — only to feel more disconnected from yourself and him… this episode is for you.

We’re talking about performative femininity vs. embodied truth, what real feminine magnetism actually feels like, and why your man doesn’t want a performance… he wants your codes.

Let’s stop playing the role — and start living the frequency.

UNION Unfiltered is hosted by Kelsey Gaudreault — relationship coach, feminine oracle, and founder of The House of UNION™.

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