In this powerful — and laugh-out-loud — episode of Becoming Lucy, Rob opens up about the journey that shaped him — from a joyful, expressive child dancing around the fire poker, to a teenager silenced by bullying, to the confident performer he is today, and eventually to the unapologetic drag persona Bobbi Pinns.

What begins as a conversation about growing up in Congleton quickly becomes a deeply honest exploration of identity, men’s mental health, and the masks we wear just to survive.

Rob shares how school life chipped away at his confidence, how humour became his shield, and how the performing arts became the one place he finally felt seen. He takes us through the moment he came out, the years of anxiety that followed, and how stepping into Bobbi helped him reclaim his power — all while keeping us laughing with quick-fire banter and the funny, human moments only real life can create.

This episode shines a light on the realities of men’s mental health, the importance of community, and the courage it takes to embrace your true self — even when the world tries to dull your shine.

Raw, funny, emotional, and beautifully human, Rob’s story is a reminder that:

✨ Authenticity is the bravest thing we can choose

✨ Vulnerability isn’t weakness — it’s strength

✨ And becoming yourself is a journey worth taking

Whether you’re navigating your own identity, healing from the past, or simply love a story of resilience, this episode will stay with you long after it ends.

Talking saves lives. Listening saves lives. And sometimes — laughing saves a little bit of you too. 🖤

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Self-Discovery and Authenticity

02:34 Rob's Early Years and Childhood Memories

05:33 Navigating School Life and Bullying

08:34 Finding Refuge in Music and Drama

11:41 The Role of Performance in Identity

14:41 The Mask of Humor and Its Impact

17:39 Community and Support in the Arts

20:33 Full Circle: Confronting the Past

24:04 The Power of Vulnerability in Mental Health

26:32 The Importance of Genuine Communication

28:18 Finding Balance in Supporting Others

28:47 Coping Mechanisms for Tough Days

34:16 The Emergence of Bobby: A New Persona

39:48 The Excitement of New Beginnings

41:13 The Journey to Performance

44:16 Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity

48:40 Challenging Misconceptions About Drag

50:43 Overcoming Mental Health Struggles

54:46 Becoming Unapologetically Yourself

55:31 Quickfire Round and Final Thoughts

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