One moment, Charlotte was living a normal life with her family and dogs…

…and days later, she found herself trapped in every dog owner’s worst nightmare:

dog theft, blackmail, threats, trauma — and a story that would completely change her life.

But this episode goes far deeper than just the dog theft story.

In this powerful conversation, Lucy & Hana sit down with Charlotte and Cat, co-founders of The Authentic Girls Club, to talk about identity, motherhood, confidence, resilience, entrepreneurship, healing, and what happens when you realise the life you built no longer feels aligned with who you truly are.

From feeling lost, stuck and disconnected…

to building a movement helping women rediscover themselves and turn their “silly little dreams” into reality — this episode is raw, emotional, inspiring and deeply relatable.

Together they discuss:

✨ The emotional impact of dog theft and blackmail

✨ Motherhood, identity shifts & feeling lost

✨ Building confidence after trauma

✨ Women supporting women

✨ Entrepreneurship & creating The Authentic Girls Club

✨ Processing emotions, anxiety & healing

✨ Turning fear into growth

✨ Why authenticity changes everything

This is an episode about survival, self-discovery, resilience and becoming the person you were always meant to be.

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✨ Charlotte & Cat have also kindly offered Becoming Lucy listeners a FREE pass to their Monday Morning Weekly Wake-Up call — designed to help women reconnect with themselves, build confidence and start the week feeling empowered.

Free access here:

https://theauthenticgirlsclub.com/wwupass

🎙️ Follow:

@authenticgirlsgroup - https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticgirlsclub?igsh=amZzcnJxbWFqNzU5

@becominglucy - https://www.instagram.com/becominglucy?igsh=dXdtNTdqbjB4MG5u

Charlotte - https://www.instagram.com/iamcharlotterobson?igsh=Znp6ZzNxNzc0bDl1

Cat - https://www.instagram.com/cat_houghton?igsh=MWpyZGprcW5ueDRsOQ==

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🎙️ CHAPTERS

00:00 – The Journey of Self-Discovery

04:34 – Overcoming Guilt & Embracing Change

07:34 – The Power of Community & Networking

10:24 – Identifying Universal Human Desires

13:39 – The Birth of The Authentic Girls Club

16:32 – Transformative Experiences & Personal Growth

19:34 – Navigating the Online Business World

24:25 – The Evolution of Dreams

27:15 – Navigating Guilt & Balance

28:38 – Finding Passion Beyond Motherhood

30:42 – From Virtual Connections to Real Partnerships

33:30 – Building The Authentic Girls Club

36:04 – The Dog Theft Incident

43:25 – Blackmail, Crime & Fear

46:20 – The Emotional Toll of Trauma

50:20 – Healing & Resilience

53:22 – The Impact of Dog Theft on Owners

56:20 – Choosing Positivity Amid Adversity

01:01:29 – Processing Emotions & Finding Joy

01:03:16 – Understanding Anxiety & Emotions

01:04:38 – Returning to Authenticity

01:06:59 – Turning Anxiety Into Excitement

01:10:53 – Self-Care & Community Support

01:13:37 – Defining Success

01:18:54 – Encouragement for Pursuing Dreams

01:20:17 – The Power of Partnership

01:24:02 – Dreams, Fear & Resilience

01:29:00 – Embracing the Journey of Self-Discovery

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⚠️ Podcast Disclaimer

• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

• No Liability: We are not liable for any actions taken based on this podcast.

• External Links: We are not responsible for content found on any external sites mentioned.

You built a £1.4M business…

then got told you had 2 days to live.

In this episode of Becoming Lucy, we sit down with Moonii — entrepreneur, cancer survivor, and someone who’s lived through life at its absolute extremes.

From building a successful business from the ground up…

to a life-threatening leukaemia diagnosis, chemotherapy, sepsis, and even a coma…

This isn’t just a story about survival.

It’s about:

 • Losing everything

 • Facing death head-on

 • And rebuilding your life from nothing — mentally, physically, and spiritually

Moonii opens up about the darkest moments, the impact on his identity and confidence, and how his support network quite literally kept him alive.

But what makes this story different…

is what came after.

A new purpose.

A mission to give back.

And a completely different perspective on life.

This episode will change how you see resilience.

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🎯 IN THIS EPISODE:

 • Building a business to £1.4M

 • The moment everything changed

 • Living through chemotherapy, sepsis & a coma

 • The mental battle behind cancer

 • The power of support networks

 • Blood transfusions & the importance of donors

 • Rebuilding confidence after illness

 • Finding purpose after survival

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🔗 RESOURCES & CHARITIES

If this episode resonates, please consider supporting or learning more:

 • Blood Cancer UK

 • Anthony Nolan

 • DKMS

 • Leukaemia UK

 • Jazzy’s Gestures

 • NHS

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👤 FOLLOW MOONY

 • Instagram: Instagram → @moneymoonii - https://www.instagram.com/moneymoonii?igsh=MTQ5MGdqZGg0cHB3bA==

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⏱️ CHAPTERS 

00:00 Introduction: Resilience & Transformation

04:07 From Struggle to Success

07:02 Building a £1.4M Business

12:55 The Turning Point

16:00 Life-Changing Diagnosis

24:39 The Reality of Cancer

31:40 Coma & Survival

37:23 The Fight Begins

48:58 Darkest Moments

52:33 Facing Death

57:11 Recovery & Resilience

01:03:05 Support Systems That Saved Him

01:08:04 Blood Transplants & Donors

01:11:06 A Second Chance at Life

01:13:53 Rebuilding Confidence

01:19:53 Finding Purpose

01:25:54 Who Moonii Became

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⚠️ Podcast Disclaimer

• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

• No Liability: We are not liable for any actions taken based on this podcast.

• External Links: We are not responsible for content found on any external sites mentioned.

She knew something wasn’t right… but never imagined how serious it was about to become.

In this powerful episode of Becoming Lucy, Lucy and Hana sit down with Amy to hear the story that changed everything — from a seemingly minor moment to a life-threatening battle with cancer and sepsis.

What started as subtle symptoms quickly escalated into something far more serious. Amy shares the reality of being dismissed, the importance of trusting your instincts, and the moment she realised her body was trying to tell her something she couldn’t ignore.

This is a raw and emotional conversation about survival — not just physically, but mentally. From multiple surgeries and hospital stays to facing her own mortality, Amy opens up about the mindset that carried her through the darkest moments of her life.

We explore:

 • The warning signs so many people overlook

 • The shock of going from living your best life to survival mode in a matter of weeks

• A traumatic road to recovery including a condition that nearly killed

• How resilience is built when everything feels like it’s falling apart

 • The role of kindness, community, and perspective in healing

Now living her second chance at life, Amy’s story is unimaginable, and one of strength, growth, and purpose. Through her Rainbow Quote Boxes, she’s turning pain into something meaningful — reminding others that even in the hardest moments, there is still light.

If you’ve ever ignored your body, questioned yourself, or needed a reminder of your own strength… this episode is for you.

🎧 Real stories. Real people. Real change.

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⚠️ NOTE ON THIS EPISODE

You may notice a few technical glitches during this recording (including the occasional disappearing or upside-down Amy 🙃). Don’t worry — it’s not your device, it’s just us! We’ve kept it in to preserve the authenticity of this powerful conversation.

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🔗 CONNECT WITH AMY

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chasingtherainbowsoflife?igsh=MTFiZXV3c240dHIxZw==

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💛 CHARITIES & SUPPORT MENTIONED

If Amy’s story resonated with you, or you’re looking for support, information, or ways to get involved, here are the organisations she mentioned:

• Sarcoma UK
• Support, awareness, and research funding for sarcoma (a rare form of cancer).
• 🔗 https://sarcoma.org.uk
• 📧 [email protected]
• 📞 0808 801 0401
• Cancer Research UK
• The world’s leading cancer charity dedicated to saving lives through research, information, and support.
• 🔗 https://www.cancerresearchuk.org
• 📞 0808 800 4040
• Bone Cancer Research Trust
• Focused on research, awareness, and support for those affected by primary bone cancer.
• 🔗 https://www.bcrt.org.uk
• 📧 [email protected]
• 📞 0113 258 5934
• Maggie’s Centres
• Free practical and emotional support for people with cancer and their families across the UK.
• 🔗 https://www.maggies.org

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⏱️ CHAPTERS

00:00 The Calm Before the Storm

04:16 The Incident at the Climbing Wall

06:00 The Diagnosis

06:46 The Emotional Impact

09:43 Navigating the Healthcare System

12:31 The Tumor Revelation

22:26 Navigating the Hospital Experience

24:19 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Diagnosis

27:49 Life Disrupted: The Impact of Cancer

30:41 Unexpected Setbacks: The Dog Incident

41:55 Understanding Chemotherapy

45:06 Emotional Resilience and Coping Strategies

48:48 Relearning to Walk: The Journey of Recovery

52:36 Technical Difficulties and Podcast Setup

52:39 Facing Fears: The Scaffolding Experience

53:29 Surviving Cancer: A Journey of Hope and Resilience

56:56 The Struggles of Illness and Family Support

01:02:37 Lessons Learned from Cancer and Sepsis

01:04:58 Embracing Life After Cancer

01:07:50 The Birth of the Rainbow Quote Boxes

01:12:09 Becoming a Beacon of Kindness

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⚠️ Podcast Disclaimer

• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

• No Liability: We are not liable for any actions taken based on this podcast.

• External Links: We are not responsible for content found on any external sites mentioned.

What if your mind became so overwhelming… it changed your body forever?

In this powerful episode of Becoming Lucy, Steph shares her raw and life-altering journey through mental health struggles, trauma, burnout, and recovery — revealing how an internal battle led to a suicide attempt and limb amputation.

This is more than a story about survival. It’s an honest, unfiltered conversation about how mental health and physical health are deeply connected, and what happens when we ignore the signs.

Steph opens up about the pressure of high achievement, the silent reality of burnout, and the moment everything changed. From hospital recovery to rediscovering purpose, she takes us through rebuilding her life — not just physically, but emotionally and mentally.

Together, we explore:

 • The hidden link between mental health and physical illness

 • What burnout, panic attacks, and emotional overwhelm really feel like

 • Why being “high-functioning” doesn’t mean you’re okay

 • The role of therapy, art, and mindset shifts in healing trauma

 • Learning to ask for help — even when it feels impossible

 • Redefining resilience, self-worth, and what it truly means to start again

Steph also challenges the idea of being called “inspirational,” opening up a deeper conversation about identity, disability, and societal expectations — and how she’s now stepping into life as an athlete and mental health advocate.

This episode is for anyone who has ever felt overwhelmed by their own mind, struggled in silence, or questioned their worth beyond what they achieve.

You are not alone — and this conversation might change how you see your mental health forever.

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Resources & Links:

Calm - Suicide Prevention and Mental Health Resources - https://www.calm.com/
Stephanies fundraiser for CALM - https://www.justgiving.com/page/steph-joy-calm?fbclid=PAVERFWARSv1RleHRuA2FlbQIxMABzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA8xMjQwMjQ1NzQyODc0MTQAAaczU7pjJOT_rSYe0eovLdycYLJibDJzBx0YEXgRgcXT2pF0CACJK4OaW5qndA_aem_iAViqlIlMIh_TfvN4kmFjA

Stephs Instagram Handle - https://www.instagram.com/steph.j0y?igsh=MXU4Ync3OHdpdnViag==

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Main Topics:

• The connection between mental health challenges and physical health outcomes
• The journey of healing from suicide attempt and amputation
• How therapy, art, and mindset shift transform resilience
• Navigating pride, independence, and seeking help
• Building a new life as an athlete and advocate for mental health awareness

Key Insights:

• Steph’s experience with burnout, panic attacks, and feeling like a burden
• The role of therapy and art in understanding and managing emotions
• Insights into the impact of societal perceptions of disability and achievement
• Practical tools for reaching out during difficult times (emoji signals, honesty)
• Challenging the “inspirational” label and redefining empowerment
• Her inspiring journey back to cycling and competitive sports

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Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction and guest background

02:11 - The importance of discussing invisible battles

03:24 - Steph’s life before trauma and achievements

05:20 - The white noise in her mind and constant achievement mindset

06:34 - What a typical good and bad mental state looked like

07:35 - The adrenaline rush as a calming outlet

08:39 - How therapy and art helped understand emotions

12:02 - Shifting from goal obsession to enjoying the journey

15:20 - The panic attack at work and seeking help

16:40 - The silent struggle with burnout and emotional barriers

17:53 - The impact of pride and the barriers to opening up

20:16 - Reflection on supporting others and vulnerability

27:22 - The traumatic lead-up to the suicide attempt

28:58 - The aftermath in hospital and physical recovery

34:09 - The role of mental health in physical outcomes like limb loss

36:11 - Coping with hospital, health challenges, and emotional exhaustion

42:35 - The moment of perspective shift and second chances

45:00 - Using therapy tools and emotional awareness techniques

50:30 - Visualizing mental challenges as a “board table” of emotions

52:50 - Why Steph hates the “inspirational” label and what true empowerment means

55:37 - The societal expectations around disability and achievement

57:50 - Her next goals in cycling and advocacy

63:06 - The significance of the date of amputation and recovery

68:53 - The importance of community, connection, and vulnerability

73:09 - How sharing stories can reduce loneliness and promote healing

75:28 - Practical tools for mental health, reaching out, and self-compassion

77:13 - Closing thoughts and encouragement to seek help and share stories

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⚠️ Podcast Disclaimer

• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

• No Liability: We are not liable for any actions taken based on this podcast.

• External Links: We are not responsible for content found on any external sites mentioned.

In this episode, Lucy and Hana dive deep into the chaotic world of modern dating.

From blind dates, catfishing, ghosting, breadcrumbing and everything in between — this episode dives into the highs, lows, and ‘what the hell is going on’ moments of dating in your 30s.

Led by Lucy’s real-life dating experiences, this honest and unfiltered conversation breaks down how dating apps like Hinge, Bumble and social media have completely changed the way we connect, communicate and form relationships. Expect relatable stories, red flags to watch for, and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with navigating modern dating.

Whether you’re navigating dating apps in your 30s or just trying to make sense of modern dating culture — this episode unpacks the complexity, insecurities, and very real (and sometimes hilarious) mishaps that come with today’s dating life.

If you’ve ever questioned modern dating… this one’s for you.

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🔍 Key Topics Covered:

• The evolution of dating from traditional pubs to online apps
• The psychological impact of ghosting, breadcrumbing, and love bombing
• The role of social media in exposing lies and catfishing
• Personal stories of awkward, funny, and heartbreaking dates
• The importance of trusting your gut and setting boundaries
• Differences in dating expectations across generations
• The significance of attraction and genuine connection over superficial measures
• Tips for safer dating, including video calls before meeting
• The challenges of maintaining long-term relationships in a digital age

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💛 Follow & Connect:

Instagram: @becominglucy
https://www.instagram.com/becominglucy/

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⏱️ Timestamps:

Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Discussing the chaos of modern dating

02:00 - The impact of modern technology on relationship building

04:13 - The addictive nature of dating apps and organic dating struggles

06:19 - How social media has changed the game of attraction and suspicion

09:34 - Understanding terminologies: ghosting, breadcrumbing, and love bombing

12:19 - Red flags and signs of disingenuous profiles

15:00 - The importance of genuine connection versus superficiality

18:19 - Deep conversations and attachment styles in dating

22:30 - Stories of ghosting, breadcrumbing, and emotional highs and lows

27:30 - Personal dating stories: from blind dates to social media discoveries

32:45 - Experiences with dating scams, catfishing, and long-distance relationships

37:30 - Navigating honesty and red flags in modern relationships

42:18 - The emotional roller coaster: dopamine hits, butterflies, and heartbreak

48:50 - Support systems and coping mechanisms in lonely times

52:54 - Spotting fake profiles and the rise of online scams

58:41 - Funny and awkward date mishaps to avoid

63:52 - Tips on choosing good first dates and activities that foster connection

71:56 - The truth about long-term relationship work and expectations

74:09 - Final advice: trust your instincts, set boundaries, and stay authentic

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⚠️ Podcast Disclaimer

• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

• No Liability: We are not liable for any actions taken based on this podcast.

• External Links: We are not responsible for content found on any external sites mentioned.

In this episode of Becoming Lucy, Lucy and Hana sit down with Megan — a mum whose journey into motherhood didn’t follow the path she expected.

After experiencing multiple miscarriages, Megan had already faced deep loss before becoming pregnant with Alana… finding out on the day of her dad’s funeral — a moment that, for her, felt like both a blessing and a gift — something she believes came from him.

During her pregnancy, there were moments of uncertainty. Scans raised concerns, but she was ultimately told everything was fine — so she held onto hope.

But when Alana was born, everything changed.

Alana lives with Börjeson-Forssman-Lehmann Syndrome (BFLS) — an extremely rare condition, with only around 100 known cases worldwide. It’s something most people will never come across.

This episode isn’t about having all the answers.

It’s about learning to live without them.

Megan shares the reality of navigating uncertainty about the future, raising a child with complex needs, and adapting to a life she never could have planned for. From public reactions to online judgement, she opens up about the harder moments — but also the strength she’s found along the way.

Because alongside all of that… is Alana.

Joyful. Full of life. Deeply loved.

And while there is negativity in the world, there is also a growing community of people who support, uplift, and follow their journey — as Megan continues to raise awareness and create meaningful memories for her daughter.

This is a conversation about resilience, perspective, and the kind of love that shows up — no matter what.

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✨ WHAT WE TALK ABOUT

 • Pregnancy after multiple miscarriages

 • Finding out she was pregnant on the day of her dad’s funeral — and what that meant to her

 • Scans, uncertainty, and being told everything was “fine”

 • A traumatic birth and the moments that followed

 • Living with BFLS (a condition with ~100 known cases worldwide)

 • Navigating uncertainty about the future and day-to-day life

 • Public reactions, online comments, and shifting perception

 • The power of community and social media in raising awareness

 • Creating memories, bucket lists, and making every moment count

 • What motherhood really looks like when life doesn’t go to plan

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💭 WHY THIS EPISODE MATTERS

Not every motherhood journey is straightforward.

Not every story fits into the version we’re used to seeing.

This episode brings you into the reality of what it means to adapt, to advocate, and to keep going — even when things feel uncertain.

And at the centre of it all… is love.

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🔗 FOLLOW ALANA’S JOURNEY

Want to follow their story and support their journey?

👉 https://linktr.ee/meg_magee

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Chapters:

• (00:00) - Introduction: Megan’s story of perseverance and hope
• (03:42) - Megan’s early life, loss of father, and journey to motherhood
• (07:27) - Signs during pregnancy and initial worries
• (09:44) - Birth complications and early medical challenges
• (11:16) - Diagnosis of BFLS through genetic testing
• (15:10) - Megan’s experiences with seizures, blindness, and hospital stays
• (18:45) - Social media and the fight against online negativity
• (21:16) - Explaining BFLS and its impact on Alana
• (23:50) - Day in Megan’s life: caregiving routines and home modifications
• (26:23) - Family outings, public spaces, and the need for inclusive infrastructure
• (33:00) - Prognosis, hope, and the importance of not giving up
• (35:01) - Coping with societal attitudes and protecting mental health
• (39:21) - The power of community, social media, and continuous advocacy
• (45:00) - Addressing online hate and rethinking societal perceptions
• (50:24) - Challenges in public accessibility and the future of disability advocacy
• (55:16) - Personal growth, becoming a stronger advocate, and inspiring others
• (59:22) - Megan’s closing message of hope, love, and continuous fight for inclusion

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⚠️ Podcast Disclaimer

• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

• No Liability: We are not liable for any actions taken based on this podcast.

• External Links: We are not responsible for content found on any external sites mentioned.

Most people don’t realise how deeply childhood trauma and self-doubt shape our sense of belonging…

—and how that quietly impacts the life we go on to create.

In this episode of Becoming Lucy, we sit down with Lhea — HYROX athlete, ambassador, and coach — who shares how she transformed grief, fear, and disconnection into real strength.

Growing up around abuse and alcoholism, and losing her mum at just 21, Lhea’s early life was shaped by survival — not self-belief.

She opens up about the fear of being seen…

and how it kept her playing small, even when she had so much more to give.

But everything changed when she stopped avoiding the pain —

and started facing it.

We explore the powerful truth that the body holds onto trauma…

and how learning to feel, process, and rewire that pain can completely transform your life.

Lhea shares the exact mindset tools that helped her heal and perform at a higher level, including:

 • Visualisation techniques to shift identity and belief

 • Learning to sit with and process physical sensations in the body

 • Rewriting the internal stories around worth, capability, and belonging

In just 8 weeks, she shaved 8 minutes off her HYROX time —

not by training harder… but by changing her mental state.

This conversation is a masterclass in emotional resilience, self-leadership, and what’s possible when you stop running from your past.

We talk about why:

 • Ignoring your past can keep you stuck

 • Vulnerability is your greatest strength

 • Trauma can become your biggest advantage

If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, grief, or feeling like you don’t belong… this episode is for you.

Because your past doesn’t define you.....

but how you process it might just change everything.

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Takeaways

Trauma can be transformed into strength with the right mindset.
Addressing childhood trauma is crucial for personal growth.
Fitness can be a powerful tool for healing and empowerment.
Negative comments and societal expectations can hold us back, but we can overcome them.
Building resilience is a process that involves facing and overcoming adversity.
Safety and confidence are interconnected, and feeling safe allows for growth.
Grief can be a catalyst for positive change when processed healthily.
Empowering women through shared experiences fosters community and strength.

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Follow Lhea:  @lhea.terzaki   https://www.instagram.com/lhea.terzaki?igsh=MTl3ZW1oM243MWt3dQ==

Follow us: @becominglucy https://www.instagram.com/becominglucy/

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Grief and Identity

04:32 Lhea's Early Life and Challenges

07:19 The Impact of Family Dynamics

10:25 Navigating Relationships and Self-Identity

13:22 The Role of Sports in Leah's Life

16:23 Reflections on Motherhood and Loss

19:21 Overcoming Adversity and Finding Strength

22:47 The Impact of Self-Perception on Performance

29:36 Navigating Grief and Personal Transformation

38:10 Finding Strength Through Adversity

42:47 The Journey to Self-Acceptance and Empowerment

44:01 Navigating Personal Struggles and Professional Growth

46:17 The Impact of Injury on Athletic Performance

49:12 Transformative Experiences and Emotional Intelligence

52:20 Learning to Process Emotions Effectively

57:16 Rewriting the Narrative of Trauma

01:01:22 Integrating Mental Health into Coaching Practices

01:06:58 Embracing Change and Letting Go

01:12:01 The Power of Self-Prioritization

01:16:59 Setting Ambitious Goals

01:21:15 Overcoming Trauma and Building Resilience

01:24:22 Becoming Unapologetically Yourself

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⚠️ Podcast Disclaimer

• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

• No Liability: We are not liable for any actions taken based on this podcast.

• External Links: We are not responsible for content found on any external sites mentioned.

This is Part 2 of Lucy’s story.

If you heard Episode 1, “The Day My FOOT CAME OFF – The Accident that Changed Me,” this is the next chapter.

In this episode of Becoming Lucy, Lucy shares a raw and honest update following her latest surgery after a traumatic accident that left her facing potential limb loss.

After multiple surgeries, infections, and months of uncertainty, Lucy has now undergone another major operation — the first step toward a life-changing ankle fusion.

Together, Lucy and Hana unpack:

 • What’s happened since Episode 1

 • Why stem cell treatment was no longer an option

 • The reality of living with a serious injury

 • What ankle fusion surgery actually involves

 • The emotional toll of recovery and chronic pain

 • Navigating the NHS and healthcare system

 • The frustration of disability support and accessibility barriers

 • Losing independence — and fighting to get it back

 • Finding hope, resilience, and purpose through adversity

This episode is not just about physical recovery — it’s about identity, independence, and what it really means to rebuild your life after trauma.

Whether you’re navigating injury, chronic illness, disability, or simply need a reminder of the strength we carry through difficult times — this conversation is for you.

🎧 A powerful, honest update — and a reminder that healing isn’t linear, but it is possible.

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If you want the full backstory, go back and listen to Episode 1:

“The Day My FOOT CAME OFF – The Accident that Changed Me.”

If you’d like to see the photos mentioned in this episode, head to our Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/becominglucy?igsh=dXdtNTdqbjB4MG5u

⚠️ Podcast Disclaimer

• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

• No Liability: We are not liable for any actions taken based on this podcast.

• External Links: We are not responsible for content found on any external sites mentioned.

Miscarriage and IVF are conversations we don’t have enough — and this episode changes that.

In this deeply honest episode, Claire shares her experience of miscarriage, the emotional reality of IVF, and what it truly means to move forward when life doesn’t go to plan.

After losing her pregnancy at 14 weeks, Claire opens up about the heartbreak, the physical and emotional toll, and the moments that are often left out of the conversation. From hospital experiences to the reality of fertility treatment, this is a raw and unfiltered look at a journey so many women go through silently.

We talk about:

 • the real emotional and physical impact of miscarriage

 • what IVF is actually like behind the scenes

 • where support systems can fall short

 • the pressure, grief, and isolation that often go unspoken

 • and how Claire began to redefine her life and find a way forward

This episode isn’t just about loss — it’s about resilience, honesty, and learning to live fully, even when life looks different to what you imagined.

If you’ve experienced miscarriage, are going through IVF, or are supporting someone who is, this conversation will stay with you.

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⏱️ EPISODE CHAPTERS

00:00 The Journey to Parenthood: Expectations vs Reality

06:42 Claire’s Life Before IVF & Miscarriage

09:48 Finding Love: Claire & Robbo’s Story

13:55 The Joy of Pregnancy: Hope & Excitement

14:44 The Heartbreak of Miscarriage

20:58 Navigating Grief & Emotional Impact

26:53 Where Support Systems Fall Short

28:38 The Emotional & Physical Reality of Miscarriage

37:42 Why We Need to Talk About Miscarriage

47:32 Aftercare, Memory Boxes & Lasting Impact

54:27 The Decision to Try IVF

58:06 Fertility, Age & Societal Pressure

59:51 The Reality of IVF Treatment

01:08:16 Redefining Life Beyond Parenthood

01:17:49 Finding Peace & Moving Forward

01:20:52 Final Reflections

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🤍 SUPPORT, RESOURCES & CONTACT

If this episode brought anything up for you, please know you’re not alone. These organisations offer support, guidance, and safe spaces to talk:

 • NHS Miscarriage & IVF Support: https://www.nhs.uk

 • Women & Families Support Groups: https://www.womenandfamilies.org

 • Understanding IVF (Mayo Clinic): https://www.mayoclinic.org

 • Miscarriage Awareness (Myleene Klass Campaign): https://www.example.com/miscarriage-awareness

If you’d prefer to speak to someone directly, Claire has kindly opened herself up as a point of contact for anyone who may need a conversation or support following this episode.

Alongside her personal journey, Claire has recently founded her own business, using over 30 years of global supply chain and logistics experience to support entrepreneurs and founders in growing their retail brands.

You can connect with Claire here:

 • LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/claire-pearson-orchard-retail-group-uk-6095a811

 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/claire_orguk?igsh=OHFkZzFkc3QzcXhv

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🎧 ABOUT THE PODCAST

Real stories. Real people. Real conversations that actually matter.

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You can also find us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/becominglucy?igsh=dXdtNTdqbjB4MG5u

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⚠️ Podcast Disclaimer

• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

• No Liability: We are not liable for any actions taken based on this podcast.

• External Links: We are not responsible for content found on any external sites mentioned.

What happens to the people left behind after suicide — and how do families learn to live again?

In this powerful episode, we explore suicide awareness, grief, mental health, family loss, and the conversations that could help save lives.

Liz shares her deeply personal experience of the day her partner Andy lost his daughter, Sinead, to suicide — and the ripple effect that moment had on their entire family.

Speaking from the perspective of a partner and stepmum, Liz reflects on the shock of that life-changing phone call, the complicated grief that followed, and the difficult position of supporting someone you love through unimaginable loss while navigating your own emotions.

Liz also shares the unique challenges of grief in a blended family — including guilt, fear, silence, and the feeling that there is no handbook for how to move forward.

Nearly five years on, Liz speaks openly about the lessons she has learned about love, resilience, and the importance of talking about suicide more openly.

This conversation also explores something many families struggle with:

how to have the difficult conversations that could help prevent suicide in the first place.

Liz shares the simple but powerful approach she now encourages people to take when someone might be struggling — ask again, and if something still doesn’t feel right, ask a third time.

Because sometimes the conversations we avoid are the ones that matter most.

It might feel uncomfortable. You might worry about saying the wrong thing, or even feel guilty for bringing it up.

But what if that conversation meant they were still here?

This episode offers a perspective we rarely hear — the partner and step-parent trying to hold a family together while navigating the unimaginable.

It’s a conversation about grief, love, awareness, and learning how to show up for the people we care about — especially the younger generation.

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In this episode we explore

• The ripple effect suicide has on families

• Grief from a partner and step-parent perspective

• Navigating loss in a blended family

• The guilt and silence many families experience after suicide

• Supporting a partner through devastating loss

• Why we need to talk about suicide more openly

• How asking the right questions can help start life-saving conversations

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Guest

Liz Finneron

If Liz’s story resonated with you and you’d like to connect or follow her journey, you can find her on Instagram:

@liz_leadershipcaoch

https://www.instagram.com/liz_leadershipcoach?igsh=a2JxZWxxdjR0NTd1

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Support Resources

If this episode has brought up difficult feelings, support is available.

🇬🇧 Samaritans – 116 123 (24/7)

🧡 PAPYRUS Prevention of Young Suicide – HOPELINEUK: 0800 068 4141

💬 YoungMinds Parent Helpline – 0808 802 5544

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If you listen to this episode, we hope you’ll remember one thing: ask again.

If this episode resonated with you, consider saving or sharing it. Conversations like this can help people feel less alone — and sometimes they’re the ones that matter most.

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⚠️ Podcast Disclaimer

• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

• No Liability: We are not liable for any actions taken based on this podcast.

• External Links: We are not responsible for content found on any external sites mentioned.