In this episode of Becoming Chick and Pop, we take a trip down memory lane, reflecting on our early years of marriage—what we wish we had known, the pressures we faced, and the lessons we've learned. From navigating unrealistic expectations and learning to say "no" to unnecessary commitments to the importance of setting boundaries and embracing "no pressure" days, we share the wisdom we've gained over 31 years of marriage. We also talk about how hard conversations, choosing how we show up for each other, and prioritizing our relationship over outside obligations helped shape the marriage we have today. Whether you're newly married, thinking about marriage, or just love hearing real-life relationship reflections, this episode is for you!