What if your limitations weren’t obstacles, but the very thing that unlocks your magic?

In this solo episode, Ebonie dives deep into Gate 60 (Acceptance & Limitation), her conscious Earth placement and the final gate before Human Design New Year. As someone who’s been living this energy intensely for the past five years during its Pluto transit, she shares raw, personal insights about what it really means to mutate through pressure, create magic from nothing, and surrender to the wisdom of constraint.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

✨ Why creativity thrives inside limitation (and how to use structure as fuel, not restriction)⏰ The power of patience and what it means to truly accept where you are🐇 How to pull rabbits out of hats when life gives you “nothing” to work with🔮 What happens when Pluto spends 5 years transforming your evolution point🌱 The difference between surrender and resignation—and why one creates magic💎 How pressure creates diamonds (and what’s mutating in YOU right now)

This episode is for you if:

* You’re feeling stuck or limited and need a new perspective

* You’re a creative who struggles with “too many options”

* You’re navigating a challenging period and need to find the gift in it

* You have Gate 60 in your chart (or want to work with this energy while the sun transits it)

* You’re ready to stop fighting your constraints and start creating with them

Key timestamps:

* 5:44 - Pluto’s 5-year transit through Gate 60 & what it taught about pressure

* 6:46 - Feeling the shift when Pluto moved into Gate 41 in December 2025

* 7:35 - What Gate 60 means: mutation through limitation, pressure, and waiting

* 9:12 - Noticing what happens when things aren’t moving

* 12:13 - How you can work with Gate 60 energy (whether you have it or not)

* 19:24 - The astrology & Gene Keys of Gate 60: shadow, gift, and siddhi

* 20:42 - Gate 60 in action: pressure to transcend limitation

* 22:57 - Light & shadow expressions of Gate 60

* 24:24 - Raising the frequency: discovering your creative containers

* 25:41 - Programming partners: Gate 56 & Gate 3 (the channel of mutation)

Resources mentioned:

* Ebonie’s Gate 60 card from her Kismet Codes deck

* The Value Filter

* Embody Your Design, Kismetflix,

* Free Charts + Reading Reports

Ready to work with Ebonie?

* Free Fundamentals Reports: Human Design, Astrology, Gene Keys basics

* Attributes Reports (£44): Deep dive into your unique design

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Connect with Ebonie:Website: www.ebonieallard.com Substack: Ebonie Allard Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eboniealchemy

Next week: A special guest joins to talk about Gate 41 and jumping timelines as we enter Human Design New Year on January 21st!

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What if everything you were told to hide about yourself; your intensity, your depth, your “too much-ness” is actually your greatest gift?

In this raw and resonant conversation, I sit down with my friend Dory Walker, a human alchemist with 30 years of experience in yoga, shamanic practices, and multidimensional healing. We dive deep into what it really means to become “full of yourself” not as vanity, but as a radical act of evolutionary healing.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why the “gaze” that fell upon us in adolescence made us perform instead of simply being • How to teach the next generation to stay full of themselves (without the wounds we carried)• The difference between self-concept and signature frequency—and why one matters more• Why being told you’re “intimidating” or “too much” is actually confirmation you’re on the right path• How to take ownership of everything in your field (even when it’s uncomfortable)• The art of holding your own gaze without apology• Why depth, not vanity, is the true measure of fullness

This conversation is for you if:

* You’ve ever been told to “tone it down” or that you’re “too intense”

* You’re tired of performing a smaller version of yourself

* You want to understand how to help young people stay connected to their wholeness

* You’re ready to stop avoiding the void and start owning your full range

GUEST BIO: Dory has been spiritual teacher for over 25 years. An alchemist of energetics and the human mind. She is a teacher, coach, mentor and mother. Leading trainings and retreats internationally, a nomad a heart she lives between India and Europe with her partner and 2 daughters.

CONNECT WITH DORY:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdorywalkerWebsite: https://www.dorywalker.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/iamdorywalker

TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - Introduction & Welcome00:35 - Meet Dory Walker: Human Alchemist04:20 - When the Gaze Fell: Navigating Adolescence08:20 - Empowerment & Reclamation13:20 - Growing Up Different in the 80s16:40 - The Paradigm Shift Happening Now20:00 - Teaching Self-Awareness to Our Kids25:00 - Personal Responsibility as Alchemy30:00 - Reclaiming Your Vastness35:00 - Identity vs. Signature Frequency38:20 - Final Wisdom & Where to Find Dory

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Watching back to edit this episode I was struck by the intersection between personal responsibility and collective worthiness. We are on a threshold; one that could be devastating or remarkable. I love how this episode feels like a soul song of hope and meaning, an invitation to us all to shift to fullness as a radical act of magic and mastery!

Being Full of Yourself is taking ownership for what’s in your field.

EBONIE: What does being full of yourself mean to you?

DORY: It means living unmasked from any survival strategies and in that way embodying freedom. being full of yourself to be being empty of past impressions, programs that have an individual looping in survival mechanisms. I am full of presence. I am full of space to listen to listen to life

EBONIE: What do you see as the most important or valuable shift or change you've made for yourself in your adult life?

DORY: It really is a deepening on a journey i have been on for the whole of my adult life. A commitment to truth a commitment o self unquiet to knowing thyself so I guess the commitment to he fascination to the cosmic order and the human condition.

EBONIE: Complete this sentence: “At my essence I am full of .....”

DORY: love

This is a conversation that inspires hope, excitement even, in what might otherwise feel like a scary or fearful time to be alive. This is a perspective altering episode, subtle but profound, like all personal alchemy - I hope that you enjoy it.

BIG love,

stay wild, stay true, be more you!

Ebonie

LINKS

Ebonie’s art is currently on sale: https://shop.ebonieallard.com/collections/ebonie-alchemy-limited-edition-art-prints

RESOURCES MENTIONED:• Human Design & Gene Keys

If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, share it with someone who needs permission to be full of themselves, and leave a review to help others find this work.

For more resources on living a fully fulfilled life, visit: www.ebonieallard.com

Until next time: be bold, be brave, be full of yourself. 🔥

As 2026 begins, I’m choosing not to build a long-term plan and in this episode, I explain why.

This conversation is about something quieter and more powerful than goal-setting. In this episode of Becoming Full of Yourself, I share why I’m focusing on short-term orientation instead of future mapping and how this approach supports clarity, capacity, and self-trust

Listen on for:

• How to work with your energy rather than overriding it

• What will help you to let go of pressure disguised as ambition

• The cost of future-fixation

• Why short-term focus can be more stabilising than long-range vision

• How to orient your year without burning yourself out

• What it means to lead yourself honestly

If you’re even subtly feeling pressure to have everything mapped out, this episode offers a different way.

This is a grounded, reflective episode for anyone feeling the weight of it all as a new year begins.

Check out the full post on Substack for visuals of what to focus on month by month. https://eboniealchemy.substack.com/

Links to things I mention in this episode:

We have our first community call of 2026 on the 6th of January at 4pm UK time. It’s free for you to attend.

https://www.ebonieallard.com/monthly-community-call

Get a unique, exclusive piece of art, or a love letter in the mail from me each month, for just $7

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Get your Human Design, Astrology or Gene Keys / Frequency Chart and Reports from me for free:

https://ebonieallard.com/get-chart

The True Self Trifecta

https://www.ebonieallard.com/trueself-trifecta

There comes a moment when you realise that the way you’ve been living no longer fits. Not wrong, but no longer true.

In this episode of Becoming Full of Yourself, I’m joined by Hannah Wilson for a grounded, intimate conversation about integrity, self-trust, and the quiet courage it takes to live in alignment with yourself. Even when it costs you approval, certainty, or belonging.

Hannah Wilson is a Business Mystic working with entrepreneurs at the intersection of energetics and mission-led strategy. Through her work with Quantum Wealth Codes, she is helping usher in a new era: mystics, leaders, and visionaries no longer working from sacrifice, but from overflow. Returning power and wealth to the hands of the women who are shaping the world with it.

Connect with Hannah on Instagram: www.instagram.com/thehannahwilsonshow

This isn’t a conversation about reinventing yourself. It’s about remembering who you are underneath the adaptations, the roles, and the unspoken rules you learned to survive.

We explore:

* The subtle ways we betray ourselves to stay connected, safe, or liked

* Why integrity often requires disappointing others

* The difference between confidence and self-trust

* How to listen to your inner authority when it speaks quietly

* What it means to live in a way you can actually respect

This episode is for culture makers, creatives, leaders, and sensitives who are done performing versions of themselves that no longer feel honest.

If you’re standing at threshold, and lets be honest who isn't right now? If you're feeling the pull toward something truer, simpler, and more you… this conversation is for you!

✨ Subscribe if you’re ready to live with more integrity, emotional clarity, and self-permission.

Get your Human Design Chart from Ebonie at https://ebonieallard.com/get-chartFind out more about The True Self Trifecta: https://www.ebonieallard.com/trueself-trifecta

In a world obsessed with visibility, many of us are sharing more of ourselves than ever; yet still feel unheard, undervalued, and disconnected from our truth.

In this episode of Becoming Full of Yourself, I’m joined by Amy Irons, a visibility coach whose work cuts through performative confidence and gets to the real work underneath: self-trust, integrity, and embodied worth.

This is a grounded, honest conversation about what confidence actually is.

SEEN ISN'T ENOUGH

We explore the subtle but crucial difference between being visible for validation and being heard because your voice is rooted in something real.

In this episode, we talk about:

* Why confidence is not charisma, performance, or PR

* The difference between visibility and being truly heard

* How integrity is built through invisible, internal change

* Why mastery requires time, ownership, and humility

* The cost of performative success in business and life

* Curiosity as a more powerful force than certainty

* What it means to trust yourself in uncertainty and chaos

This conversation is for culture makers, creatives, leaders, and sensitive thinkers who are tired of chasing optics and ready to build something honest, sustainable, and true.

If you’ve ever felt the pressure to look confident while feeling disconnected inside, this episode will bring clarity, relief, and a powerful reframe.

Amy Irons is a certified life coach, EFT practitioner, and founder of Ameli Coaching, where she helps female entrepreneurs step out of the shadows and into their authentic frequency in life and business. She teaches women how to create impact beyond algorithms and vanity metrics by building authority, connection, and freedom through their true voice.

As the host of the Beyond Enough podcast, launched in 2025, Amy celebrates authentic female voices and shares the stories of women who are rewriting the rules of success in their business. With years of experience in the online business space, she has built a thriving community of women who are done with cookie-cutter strategies and are ready to lead with integrity, power, and authenticity.

Based in Scotland and a mother of three, Amy knows first-hand the challenges of leaving behind the 9–5 grind. She transitioned from careers in law and HR to create a business that serves her family and empowers women globally to build lives and businesses on their own terms. Amy’s mission is clear: your voice is your most powerful asset, and when you stop diluting it, you start truly living.

“Confidence isn’t performance. It’s self-trust when no one is watching.”

✨ Subscribe if you’re ready to stop performing and start embodying your truth.

Connect With Amy:

[email protected]

www.instagram.com/amelicoaching/

www.amelicoaching.co.uk

What if the most powerful force shaping your life isn’t your past, your beliefs, your circumstances, or your conditioning but the way you conceptualise yourself?

In this episode of Becoming Full of Yourself we explore what happens when you decide to define yourself on your own terms. Not by your childhood conditioning. Not by the expectations of others. Not by the roles you’ve played or the identities you’ve inherited. But by the truth that rises from your own lived experience.

This is a conversation about self concept, sovereignty, and the inner shift from who the world told you to be to who you actually are.

Joining me is Michelle Dale, a veteran in the online space, and someone who I have known for most of the 20 years since we both started our online businesses.

Founder of Virtual Miss Friday, Creator of 1nSourcing™ & Architect of Virtual CoWorking Space

Michelle specialises in showing virtual assistants and other online service professionals how to create functional and efficient online businesses, attract and secure high end clients and lead with sustainable profit-driven packages that can be scaled to 6+ figures through strategic experience-based training, results-driven coaching and diverse hands-on services.

Together, we explore:

* What shapes your self concept and how it can become either a prison or a portal

* Why women who appear strong, capable and high-functioning often feel insecure on the inside

* The emotional and energetic cost of being the “good girl” or the “reliable one”

* How redefining yourself changes what you tolerate, create, and allow

* Why belonging begins with the relationship you have with yourself

* The difference between performing confidence and embodying it

* The subtle shifts that help you feel more like you, and less like a role you’re playing

This episode is a masterclass in self identity for culture makers: the creators, leaders, facilitators, strategists, and sensitives who feel ready to stop self-abandoning and start living from a place of grounded, embodied truth.

If you’ve been feeling slightly off course, unsure who you are becoming, or longing to feel more like your real self, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.

✨ Subscribe if you’re ready to live more fully, love more honestly, and lead from your wholeness.

Michelle Dale is a Virtual Assistant thought leader, entrepreneur, and pioneer in location-independent living. She is the founder of Virtual Miss Friday, an online business consultancy and academy with built-in virtual assistant services, and the creator of 1nSourcing™, a service that supports six and seven-figure business owners with high-level operational and strategic support.

At 23, Michelle left the UK to pursue a life of true freedom. Since then, she has built a thriving online service and digital product business while travelling full-time, living abroad, and raising three children with her husband. She now mentors men and women around the world to cultivate their own professional independence, personal fulfilment, and digital freedom.

Connect with Michelle:https://www.facebook.com/VMFLtd/https://www.facebook.com/groups/241025172576709/https://www.instagram.com/vmfltdhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/virtualmissfriday/https://www.youtube.com/user/VirtualAssistantLive

A deep dive into vocation as devotion. An invitation to understand the energetic design beneath your work, creativity, and leadership so you can craft a life that is truly yours.

Becoming Full of Yourself

Episode 9. Vocation. Devotion. The Design of a Life that is Truly Yours

What does it mean to live a life that is not only aligned but devoted. In this solo episode I explore vocation as something deeper than work or purpose. It is the frequency that hums beneath everything you do. It is the thread that runs through your Human Design, your Gene Keys, your astrological blueprint, your somatic patterning, your shadows, and your lived experience.

I take you behind the scenes of my own vocation and how it has shaped the choices I make, the offerings I create, and the way I show up as a guide, facilitator, artist, and culture maker. You will hear how devotion has become the anchor for my business, my creativity, and my leadership, and why understanding your unconscious design can shift you out of resistance, half heartedness, and projection and into maturity, potency, and self trust.

We explore:• What vocation really is beyond career• Why devotion is an energetically resourcing stance• How your unconscious Mars and other generational planets influence your drive• Shadow states and how they distort your direction• The Kismet Codes as a navigational system for sovereignty and self mastery• The difference between fate and destiny as lived practice• Why embodying your design is essential if you want sustainable success• How to recognise when you are creating from conditioning rather than truth• What it takes to build offerings that are both aligned and alive• My own process of reworking offers, including Kismetflix, the Sovereign Community, and the evolution of my teachings

This episode is for midlife creatives, leaders, and culture makers who sense there is something deeper calling them forward. It will support you to reconnect with your sacred spark, honour your design, and move towards the life that feels like yours. A life that is crafted rather than inherited. A life lived in devotion.

If you are ready to understand your own vocational frequency more intimately, explore your Human Design in practice, or work with the Kismet Codes, you will find links to current offerings and resources below.

The Ultimate Soul Contract Cheat Codes Bundle

ebonieallard.com/get-chart

The Kismet Code Cards

What is your Vocation? How do you see it playing out in your life?

Work with me:

* The Value Filter

* Kismetflix

* Embody Your Design

In this episode, I’m joined by Adrienne Roach — a 1/3 Ego Manifestor and the visionary behind ManiSisters Global. Adrienne and I discuss the challenges of being unapologetic, how misunderstood the ego centre can be, the joys of being an ego-centered woman, and the privilege that comes with it.

✨ Subscribe if you're ready to live more fully, love more deeply, and lead from your wholeness.

We explore what it really means to be ‘full of ego’ as someone with a defined Ego centre / an ego Manifestor. The misunderstandings around the Ego Centre, self-authority, power, and fulfilment.

Adrienne shares her personal experience of navigating life as an Ego Manifestor, the role of self-trust in Manifestor strategy, and how she’s building transformative spaces specifically designed for Manifestor women to reconnect to their innate leadership.

Together, we bust myths around ego, discuss the importance of creating permission within yourself, and explore the nuances of some of our 'tricker' parts.

If you’re a Manifestor, work with one, or are simply curious about the healthy expression of ego, this conversation is for you. If you have gate 45 defined, or 21, are a 5 Line, or a 1/3 - you'll get a lot from this episode.

We talk about:

→ The real meaning of being ‘full of ego’

→ Adrienne’s journey as a 1/3 Ego Manifestor

→ Self-trust and the power of the Will Centre

→ How Manifestors can build regenerative rather than extractive power structures

→ Why many Manifestors feel misunderstood or ‘too much’

→ The energetic signature of the Manifestor & how to work with it

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Connect with Adrienne Roach:

Find out more about ManiSisters Global: Master Peace - Free Course for Manifestors: https://manisisters.com

Follow Adrienne on Instagram: IG: @manisisters_tv

Connect with me, Ebonie Allard:

Website: https://ebonieallard.com/get-chart

Instagram: @eboniealchemy for daily updates @ebonieallard to shop The kismet Code Cards, Limited Edition Prints and Merch

If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review, subscribe, and share it with your Manifestor friends.

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If you’ve ever felt stuck, blocked, or like you’re in your own way 👉🏼 this episode flips the script and shows you why that’s exactly where your power is.

In this episode of the Becoming Full of Yourself Podcast, I am doing something that feels very scary and is totally off the cuff (even more so than usual) I am sharing my process from frustration to embodiment.

Listen in to watch me explore in real time the liberating truth that our obstacles aren't just detours — they ARE the path.

Join me as I unpack how resistance, frustration, and shadowy parts of ourself are actually portals to freedom, fulfilment, and sovereignty.

You’ll discover how to alchemise your challenges into catalysts for personal growth, with practical examples and reflections drawn from real life.

If you're ready to shift your perspective, stop fighting yourself, and integrate your shadows, this conversation is for you.

🎧 Listen to:

• Learn how your most persistent blocks are actually signals, not stop signs.

• Get practical guidance for moving through resistance without bypassing.

• Have aha's and insights on your own sovereignty, shadow integration, and true self-mastery.

• See what it looks like to navigate frustration and fatigue without self-abandonment.

• Leave with the inspiration to reclaim your personal power and rewrite your narrative.

👉 Subscribe for more conversations that awaken your agency and guide you home to yourself.

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Stop using spiritual tools to beat yourself up and start using them to set yourself free.

In this solo episode of Becoming Full of Yourself, I speak directly to the culture makers: the artists, strategists, producers, facilitators, and heart-led leaders who know they’re here to build something meaningful; but feel slightly off course.

I get real about the way spiritual tools like Human Design, Gene Keys, and astrology are often misused to limit rather than liberate. I share what your Karma, Dharma and Shadows really are, and are not. And, why they matter!

Listen to hear:

• What a soul contract actually is — and what it's not

• How karma, dharma, and destiny relate to your real-life creative expression

• Why so many culture makers end up burnt out or spiritually bored

• What your incarnation intentions are, and how they shape your lived experience

• Why shadow work is essential if you want to access your light and genius

And most importantly: how to stop outsourcing your authority and begin truly being the change you want to see.

This is a call to reconnect with your body, your rhythm, your wild and true nature

✨ Subscribe if you're ready to live more fully, love more deeply, and lead from your wholeness.

Find out more at www.ebonieallard.com/get-chart

Get your Soul Contract Audit: https://www.ebonieallard.com/audit