This Becoming Gift segment explores solitude and cultivating the ability to be alone and present with God and self. It distinguishes between mere quiet and true silence, and loneliness versus solitude, highlighting the negative impact of societal noise on health and the healing properties of silence. The discussion also covers practical methods for integrating silence and solitude into daily life, including scheduling silence, eliminating sources of noise, and limiting information inputs.
Key Takeaways:
* Solitude vs. Loneliness, Silence vs. Quiet: Solitude is not just being alone but being present to oneself and God, while loneliness is merely not being around people. True silence is a "silence of the heart" that goes beyond just the absence of external noise.
* Health Benefits of Silence: Environmental noise is a significant burden on health, second only to air pollution amongst environmental insults, contributing to annoyance, stress and sleep disturbance, leading to an increased risk of cardiovascular disease. Conversely, spending just two hours in silence promotes neurogenesis, the creation of new neurons in the brain, indicating silence can promote healing.
* Solitude as a Prerequisite for Communion: The "communion of persons" can form only on the basis of a "double solitude," meaning true solitude is essential for genuine connection and communion with others, as highlighted by Pope St. John Paul II in his Theology of the Body.
* Practical Steps for Cultivating Silence: To build the habit of silence and solitude, one should make space for it by scheduling it, use device "quiet hours," eliminate background noise (like TV or music), limit information inputs, and engage in journaling to clear the mind. For parents, it's important to accept moments of silence as they are offered by the Lord rather than adhering to rigid expectations.
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