Becoming is Messy
Download on the App Store

Becoming is Messy episodes

  • From Inner Work to Real Life: When It Finally Lands

    You’ve done the work.

    The therapy. The journaling. The healing. The breakthroughs.

    So why doesn’t your life fully reflect it yet?

    In this episode of Becoming is Messy, Meghann sits down with Nicole Frolick—an advanced mystic, transformational healer, and intuitive coach known for her work in collapsing time around transformation and helping clients move from insight into real, embodied results.

    Through her frameworks like the Healing Exit Strategy and the Velocity Point Method, Nicole blends deep intuitive work with grounded strategy to help people shift not just how they think—but how they live.

    Together, they explore the moment so many people quietly find themselves in—the space between awareness and embodiment.

    The space where you’re no longer who you used to be… but you’re not fully living your next level yet.

    In this conversation, they unpack what it actually takes for inner work to land in real life:

    • Why awareness alone isn’t enough
    • The shift from doing the work to becoming the person
    • How identity—not effort—creates lasting change
    • Why expansion often feels like everything is falling apart
    • The difference between calling something in and being able to hold it

    This episode is an invitation to trust the in-between.

    Because that space?

    It’s not stuck. It’s where everything is recalibrating.

    And when it finally lands…nothing feels the same.

    🔗 Links & Resources

    ✨ Join the Messy community on Instagram: @BecomingIsMessy

    ✨ Follow Meghann for more real, raw, and messy wisdom: @MeghannDawson

    ✨ Explore coaching, workshops & more: www.meghanndawson.com (sign up for Meghann's Messy Middle email)

    ✨ Shop the Messy Collection: www.meghanndawson.com/shop

    🌿 Connect with Nicole Frolick:

    • https://nicolefrolick.com/

    💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a fellow Messy who needs to hear it!

    #BecomingIsMessy #ExamineYourChildhood #ImperfectLEVELUP #ConversationalAlchemy #EmbodiedTransformation #IdentityShift #ExpansionSeason #QuantumLeap #MindBodyConnection #MessyMiddle #HealingJourney #UnscriptedGrowth



    Get full access to The Unperfect Life at theunperfectlife.substack.com/subscribe
    1 hr 4 min
  • What Makes You Say That? The Power of Curiosity in Conflict

    What if one simple question could completely change the way you handle conflict?

    In this episode of Becoming is Messy, Meghann sits down with Elena Sophia Ruiz—human behavior expert, negotiator, and founder of multiple successful HR and leadership organizations—to explore how curiosity can transform the way we communicate, lead, and relate.

    At the center of this conversation is a deceptively simple question:

    “What makes you say that?”

    Instead of reacting, defending, or escalating, this question creates space—for understanding, clarity, and connection.

    Together, Meghann and Elena unpack:

    • Why most conflict isn’t about the moment—it’s about the pattern beneath it
    • How curiosity interrupts emotional reactivity
    • The danger of labels and the power of focusing on facts
    • How early conditioning shapes the way we communicate as adults
    • What it really means to respond instead of react

    This episode is an invitation to pause, get curious, and start seeing your interactions—and yourself—through a completely different lens.

    Because when you shift from reaction to curiosity, everything changes.

    🔗 Links & Resources

    ✨ Join the Messy community on Instagram: @BecomingIsMessy

    ✨ Follow Meghann for more real, raw, and messy wisdom: @MeghannDawson

    ✨ Explore coaching, workshops & more: www.meghanndawson.com (sign up for Meghann's Messy Middle email)

    ✨ Shop the Messy Collection: www.meghanndawson.com/shop

    🌿 Connect with Elena Sophia Ruiz:

    • https://www.intimateconversationswithmen.com/

    💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a fellow Messy who needs to hear it!

    #BecomingIsMessy #ExamineYourChildhood #ImperfectLEVELUP #ConversationalAlchemy #CuriosityOverReaction #HumanBehavior #ConsciousCommunication #EmotionalAwareness #PatternRecognition #MindBodyConnection #MessyMiddle #UnscriptedGrowth



    Get full access to The Unperfect Life at theunperfectlife.substack.com/subscribe
    1 hr 2 min
  • Messy but Mindful: How Hypnotherapy Helps Us Navigate Growth

    What if the transformation you’ve been searching for doesn’t require more effort, more fixing, or more explaining—but more listening?

    In this episode of Becoming is Messy, Meghann sits down with master hypnotherapist and teacher Steve Roehm for a grounded, eye-opening conversation about intuition, subconscious change, and the quiet power of presence. Together, they explore how many of our limits are shaped by unconscious beliefs formed long ago—and how real change can happen quickly when we learn to work with the mind instead of against it.

    Steve challenges common misconceptions about hypnosis, therapy, and personal growth, revealing how language, perception, and moment-to-moment awareness shape our reality. This conversation invites listeners to step out of rigid scripts, reconnect with their inner voice, and rediscover the freedom that comes from trusting themselves again.

    This episode is a powerful reminder that becoming isn’t about force—it’s about alignment, curiosity, and letting your inner wisdom lead.

    In this episode, you’ll discover:

    • How to embrace the messiness of personal growth and transformation instead of resisting it.
    • Ways to access wisdom and clarity beneath the daily noise and distractions of life.
    • The importance of presence and intuition as guiding forces during moments of change.
    • Why lasting transformation doesn’t require dramatic theatrics, but honest, unscripted curiosity and openness.
    • How listening to your inner voice can lead you toward the shifts and growth you’re truly seeking.
    • The role of hypnotherapy as a gentle tool for navigating internal chaos and fostering self-trust.
    • Encouragement to view life’s winding journey as a source of strength, wisdom, and ongoing self-discovery.

    🔗 Links & Resources

    ✨ Join the Messy community on Instagram: @BecomingIsMessy

    ✨ Follow Meghann for more real, raw, and messy wisdom: @MeghannDawson

    ✨ Explore coaching, workshops & more: www.meghanndawson.com (sign up for Meghann's Messy Middle email)

    ✨ Shop the Messy Collection: www.meghanndawson.com/shop

    🌿 Connect with Steve Roehm:

    • https://nashvillehypnosis.com/

    💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a fellow Messy who needs to hear it!

    #BecomingIsMessy #LetYourInnerVoiceLead #ImperfectLEVELUP #ConversationalAlchemy #SubconsciousChange #IntuitiveHealing #PersonalTransformation #TrustYourIntuition #MindBodyConnection #MessyMiddle #HealingJourney #UnscriptedGrowth



    Get full access to The Unperfect Life at theunperfectlife.substack.com/subscribe
    37 min
  • What If Your Cravings Were Clues, Not Flaws?

    Many of us live with sugar cravings, anxiety, chronic pain, poor sleep, or low mood — and quietly assume this is just who we are.

    In this episode of Becoming is Messy, Meghann sits down with Dr. Regina Gysel, a physician and global expert in brain biochemistry, to unpack a radically compassionate reframe: what if cravings, anxiety, and even pain aren’t character flaws or personality traits — but biochemical signals asking for support?

    Together, they explore how neurotransmitter imbalances shape sugar cravings, emotional regulation, anxiety, sleep, and pain perception. Dr. Regina explains how targeted amino acid therapy can help restore balance in the brain, reduce cravings without willpower, and calm the nervous system in ways many people have never experienced before.

    This conversation is especially powerful for anyone who has ever wondered: Is this my personality, my trauma response, or my brain chemistry?

    If you’re ready to lean into your unique healing needs, this episode will open a door you may not have known existed.

    In this episode, you’ll discover:

    • Sugar cravings are often driven by low serotonin and dopamine, not a lack of discipline or willpower.
    • Anxiety, poor sleep, irritability, and cravings frequently travel together because they share common biochemical roots.
    • Pain perception is deeply influenced by neurotransmitters like serotonin, GABA, and endorphins — restoring balance can reduce both physical and emotional pain.
    • Many people confuse biochemical depletion with personality traits (“I’m just anxious” or “I’ve always been like this”).
    • Amino acid therapy offers a personalized, symptom-based approach to supporting brain chemistry.
    • Chronic stress, trauma, and long-term pain can significantly deplete neurotransmitters over time.
    • Protein intake matters more than most people realize, especially for women.
    • Healing doesn’t have to rely on force, restriction, or shame — support often works better than willpower.

    🔗 Links & Resources

    ✨ Join the Messy community on Instagram: @BecomingIsMessy

    ✨ Follow Meghann for more real, raw, and messy wisdom: @MeghannDawson

    ✨ Explore coaching, workshops & more: www.meghanndawson.com (sign up for Meghann's Messy Middle email)

    ✨ Shop the Messy Collection: www.meghanndawson.com/shop

    🌿 Connect with Dr. Regina Gysel:

    • https://www.stopsugarcravings.ch/

    💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a fellow Messy who needs to hear it!

    #BecomingIsMessy #ImperfectLevelUp #LeanIntoHealing #BrainBiochemistry #SugarCravings #AnxietyHealing #PainPerception #Neurotransmitters #PersonalizedMedicine #HolisticHealth #WomenAndWellness #HealingWithoutShame #MessyMiddle #NervousSystemSupport



    Get full access to The Unperfect Life at theunperfectlife.substack.com/subscribe
    35 min
  • From Chaos to Calm: Embracing Magic, Flow, and the Unseen Support Around Us

    What if calm isn’t something you earn after fixing everything — but something you access by shifting how you relate to yourself and the universe?

    In this episode of Becoming is Messy™, Meghann sits down with Christy Whitman, two-time New York Times bestselling author and transformational leader, for a grounded and expansive conversation about energy, alignment, and trusting the unseen support around us.

    Anchored in the Imperfect LEVEL UP™ letter E2 — Embrace the Magic of the Universe, this episode explores how chaos, trauma, and survival patterns shape our nervous system — and how subtle shifts in awareness, language, and self-compassion can guide us back to calm and flow.

    Christy shares powerful stories from her own life, including loss, intuition, healing, and resilience, while offering practical tools to release fear, move out of people-pleasing, and partner with the universe instead of fighting it. Together, Meghann and Christy unpack why so many of us are afraid to feel good, how neutrality can feel uncomfortable before it feels peaceful, and how noticing “the winks” can become a gateway back to alignment.

    This episode is an invitation to soften, breathe, and remember: even in the messiest seasons, you are supported — often in ways you can’t see yet.

    In this episode, you’ll discover:

    • Why calm doesn’t come from control — it comes from alignment
    • How chaos and survival patterns live in the nervous system
    • The surprising reason many people are afraid to feel happy or peaceful
    • Why neutrality can feel boring before it feels safe
    • The energetic cost of people-pleasing and over-rescuing
    • How watching your words instantly shifts your energy and frequency

    🔗 Links & Resources

    ✨ Join the Messy community on Instagram: @BecomingIsMessy

    ✨ Follow Meghann for more real, raw, and messy wisdom: @MeghannDawson

    ✨ Explore coaching, workshops & more: www.meghanndawson.com (sign up for Meghann's Messy Middle email)

    ✨ Shop the Messy Collection: www.meghanndawson.com/shop

    🌿 Connect with Christy Whitman:

    • http://www.watchyourwords.com/

    💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a fellow Messy who needs to hear it!

    #BecomingIsMessy #ImperfectLEVELUP #EmbraceMagic #Messies #FromChaosToCalm #EnergyAlignment #FlowState#UniversalLaws #Manifestation



    Get full access to The Unperfect Life at theunperfectlife.substack.com/subscribe
    55 min
  • Trusting the Signs, Synchronicities, and Your Inner Knowing

    There comes a moment in every becoming when logic alone stops being enough.

    You’ve done the work you can see. You’ve named what you can name. And suddenly, life begins nudging you toward something bigger.

    In this episode of Becoming Is Messy, Meghann welcomes Valeria Maritza — Quantum Energy Healer, intuitive artist, bestselling author, and host of Healing Through You — for a deeply human conversation about intuition, healing, trust, and the quiet magic of the universe.

    Anchored in E² of the Imperfect LEVEL UP framework: Embrace the Magic of the Universe, this conversation explores what it looks like to notice the signs, follow the whispers, and trust your inner knowing even when it doesn’t make logical sense yet.

    Valeria shares her messy, transformative journey through loss, spiritual awakening, creativity, and the courageous leap from a long teaching career into soul-aligned work. Together, Meghann and Valeria unpack how universal guidance shows up differently for each of us — through art, books, music, synchronicities, energy, and lived experience.

    This episode is for anyone who’s felt the nudge… and is learning how to listen.

    In this episode, you’ll discover:

    • What it truly means to embrace the magic of the universe without bypassing real life
    • How intuition often starts as a whisper before it becomes clarity
    • Why signs and synchronicities look different for everyone — and why that matters
    • The connection between alignment, energy, and feeling lighter in your body
    • Why following your soul’s path often brings energy instead of exhaustion
    • How to trust yourself before the results show up
    • Simple ways to notice universal guidance without overanalyzing it
    • Why creativity, curiosity, and healing are powerful doorways to intuition

    🔗 Links & Resources

    ✨ Join the Messy community on Instagram: @BecomingIsMessy

    ✨ Follow Meghann for more real, raw, and messy wisdom: @MeghannDawson

    ✨ Explore coaching, workshops & more: www.meghanndawson.com (sign up for Meghann's Messy Middle email)

    ✨ Shop the Messy Collection: www.meghanndawson.com/shop

    🌿 Connect with Valeria Maritza:

    • https://www.healingthroughyou.com/

    💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a fellow Messy who needs to hear it!

    #BecomingIsMessy #ImperfectLEVELUP #EmbraceTheMagic #QuantumHealing #IntuitiveLiving #CreativeHealing #MindBodySpirit #PodcastConversations #WomenWhoHeal #SpiritualAwakening #SoulAligned



    Get full access to The Unperfect Life at theunperfectlife.substack.com/subscribe
    55 min
  • Pass It On: The Quiet Power of Human Connection

    The smallest acts of connection carry immense power.

    In this episode of Becoming is Messy, Meghann sits down with author and speaker Amy Weinland Daughters for a deeply human conversation about estrangement, reconciliation, and the transformative impact of reaching out—especially when silence feels safer.

    Through stories of handwritten letters, revisiting childhood with compassion, and trusting the quiet nudges of our inner voice, this episode reminds us that healing doesn’t always come from grand gestures or perfect words. Sometimes, it comes from a few honest sentences, a mailed envelope, or the simple decision to see another person as fully human.

    Rooted in the P — Pass It On pillar of Meghann's Imperfect LEVEL UP™ framework, this conversation highlights how connection builds community, how community restores hope, and how the smallest acts of care can ripple further than we ever imagine.

    Because becoming yourself doesn’t always mean moving forward. Sometimes, it means reaching back—and reaching out.

    In this episode, you’ll discover:

    • Why human-to-human connection matters more than ever in a divided, fast-paced world
    • How small acts—like a short handwritten note—can have a lasting emotional impact
    • The difference between reconciliation, repair, and honoring boundaries with integrity
    • How revisiting childhood as an observer can soften blame and expand compassion
    • Why passing it on isn’t about fixing others—it’s about freeing yourself
    • How trusting your inner voice, even when the idea feels “ridiculous,” can change your life
    • The power of community built through presence, not performance

    🔗 Links & Resources

    ✨ Join the Messy community on Instagram: @BecomingIsMessy

    ✨ Follow Meghann for more real, raw, and messy wisdom: @MeghannDawson

    ✨ Explore coaching, workshops & more: www.meghanndawson.com (sign up for Meghann's Messy Middle email)

    ✨ Shop the Messy Collection: www.meghanndawson.com/shop

    🌿 Connect with Amy Weinland Daughters:

    • www.amydaughters.com (Amy has space on her website to send her a personal note)

    💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a fellow Messy who needs to hear it!

    #BecomingIsMessy #PassItOn#HumanConnection #CommunityMatters #TheLittleThings #HandwrittenHealing #InnerVoice #CourageOverComfort #MessyMagic #ConnectionOverPerfection #LEVELUPFramework

    Hide



    Get full access to The Unperfect Life at theunperfectlife.substack.com/subscribe
    43 min
  • Becoming the Guide You’ve Been Seeking

    Meghann sits down with healer, astrologer, artist, and author Jessica Shepherd for a conversation that invites you back to the truest, clearest version of yourself.

    Jessica has spent decades helping people reconnect to their own inner wisdom — not through prediction or external answers, but through embodiment, sensitivity, and the quiet clarity of intuition. Today, she shares how she moved from chronic illness and empathic overwhelm into a life rooted in peace, presence, and deep self-trust.

    Together, Meghann and Jessica explore what happens when you stop outsourcing your knowing and start becoming your own guide: the one who listens, the one who leads, and the one who already understands what you need.

    Jessica opens up about leaving a 20-year career, navigating a massive intuitive awakening, and following the inner nudge that eventually led her and her husband to a new life in Hawaii. She talks about sensitivity as a gift, the body as a compass, and the freedom that comes when you finally trust yourself.

    In this episode, you’ll discover:

    • How to reconnect with the part of you that already knows
    • Why sensitivity is often the doorway to purpose
    • Jessica’s journey from burnout to embodied clarity
    • The difference between intuition and mental noise
    • A simple daily practice to feel grounded, centered, and present

    🔗 Links & Resources

    ✨ Join the Messy community on Instagram: @BecomingIsMessy

    ✨ Follow Meghann for more real, raw, and messy wisdom: @MeghannDawson

    ✨ Explore coaching, workshops & more: www.meghanndawson.com (sign up for Meghann's Messy Middle email)

    ✨ Shop the Messy Collection: www.meghanndawson.com/shop

    🌿 Connect with Jessica Shepherd:

    • Moonkissd — writings, offerings, and intuitive guidance: https://www.moonkissd.com
    • Butterflies & Coffee — art, poetry, and creative inspiration: https://www.butterfliesandcoffee.com
    • Soft Human Words — Jessica’s Substack newsletter & podcast: https://jessicashepherd.substack.com

    💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a fellow Messy who needs to hear it!

    #BecomingTheGuide #BecomingIsMessy #JessicaShepherd #IntuitiveLiving #InnerKnowing #EmbodiedWisdom #SelfTrust #AstrologyHealing #EnergySensitivity #SoulAlignment #Moonkissd #ButterfliesAndCoffee #HealingJourney #LEVELUP #FeminineWisdom #BecomingPodcast #MessyMiddle #SpiritualAwakening



    Get full access to The Unperfect Life at theunperfectlife.substack.com/subscribe
    1 hr 5 min
  • We Were All Carrying Something

    Sometimes life brings people back around just when we’re ready to understand each other in a new way.

    In this conversation, Meghann reconnects with her high school friend Rachel Sessions, now a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, to talk about the unseen stories so many of us carried growing up—and how those experiences quietly shaped who we became.

    Rachel shares her journey from teacher to counselor, the impact of her own trauma, and the lessons she’s learned working with young adults finding their footing. Together, they explore what it means to give ourselves grace, to stop pretending we’re fine, and to finally speak the truths we once kept silent.

    It’s an honest, full-circle conversation about growing up, healing, and realizing that we were never as alone as we thought we were.

    Key Highlights:

    • Reconnecting years later and realizing how much we shared beneath the surface
    • What happens when we finally say out loud what we went through
    • How our early experiences shape the kind of adults—and parents—we become
    • The power of grace, humor, and perspective in healing
    • Why acknowledging the past helps us move forward with more compassion

    🔗 Links & Resources

    ✨ Join the Messy community on Instagram: @BecomingIsMessy

    ✨ Follow Meghann for more real, raw, and messy wisdom: @MeghannDawson

    ✨ Explore coaching, workshops & more: www.meghanndawson.com (sign up for Meghann's Messy Middle email)

    ✨ Shop the Messy Collection: www.meghanndawson.com/shop

    🌿 Connect with Rachel Sessions @ [email protected]

    💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a fellow Messy who needs to hear it!

    #BecomingIsMessy #WeWereAllCarryingSomething #HealingTogether #FullCircleStories #GrowthAndGrace #AuthenticConversations #TraumaAndHealing #MessyMiddle #RealTalk #Resilience



    Get full access to The Unperfect Life at theunperfectlife.substack.com/subscribe
    36 min
  • The Soulpreneur Path: Aligning Passion, Purpose & Profit

    In this conversation, Meghann sits down with Jess Parvin, a Madison-based holistic business coach, Soul Purpose guide, and branding expert who helps women design purpose-aligned businesses that actually feel like them.

    Together, they explore how entrepreneurship becomes a portal for spiritual growth — and what it really looks like to trust your design, your intuition, and your messy process.

    In this episode, you’ll hear:

    • How Jess evolved from freelance designer to soulpreneur
    • What it means to “Let Your Inner Voice Lead” in business and life
    • How Human Design can clarify your purpose and work style
    • The bridge between passion, purpose, and profit
    • Why alignment begins with experimentation — not perfection
    • Daily practices to stay grounded while growing your business
    • Why your work is your medicine — and how to embody that truth

    “Alignment isn’t found in someone else’s strategy — it’s in the courage to be yourself, fully.”

    🔗 Links & Resources

    ✨ Join the Messy community on Instagram: @BecomingIsMessy

    ✨ Follow Meghann for more real, raw, and messy wisdom: @MeghannDawson

    ✨ Explore coaching, workshops & more: www.meghanndawson.com (sign up for Meghann's Messy Middle email)

    ✨ Shop the Messy Collection: www.meghanndawson.com/shop

    🌿 Connect with Jess Parvin @ https://jessparvin.com/

    https://www.instagram.com/holisticbizgrowth/

    💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a fellow Messy who needs to hear it!

    #BecomingIsMessy #PurposeAlignedBusiness #HumanDesign #Soulpreneur #HolisticBusinessGrowth #AlignmentOverHustle #WomenInBusiness #Entrepreneurship #JessParvin #LetYourInnerVoiceLead #SpiritualEntrepreneur #AuthenticBranding



    Get full access to The Unperfect Life at theunperfectlife.substack.com/subscribe
    37 min

About Becoming is Messy

From the publisher's feed

Let’s be real—life isn’t a perfectly curated highlight reel. It’s raw, chaotic, and messy as hell. But that’s where the magic happens. Welcome to Becoming is Messy, the podcast where we ditch the…