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From the start of marriage everything is busy. Busy with work, busy with kids, busy with living life. Amidst all that busy you know making intentional time to invest in your relationship is important...but where and how exactly?

You can do a whole bunch of things but if you want high impact try these 6 touch points for better communication. They are essential to maintaining and growing your relationship with your beloved.

You want to be sure you are linking arm in arm as you chase heaven!

So even if your life is crazy busy, making time for these 6 touch points will create better communication and increase your connection with your spouse!

1. Daily prayer
2. Weekly date night
3. Weekly “what’s up” huddle
4. Monthly finance meeting
5. Monthly big conversations
6. Yearly planning and goal setting

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I don’t  know about you but, “Just go be more virtuous.” has been one of the most frustrating phases I’ve heard in my life.

My question was always...HOW?

The most advice I would ever get was to go pretend that you have that virtue and then soon you will have the virtue. 

It was just too vague to be helpful. I usually tired for a day or a week but then I was back at square one.

In this podcast we look at 5 tips to actually build virtue into your life. And we know that the more virtue we have the more free we are to love those around us...especially our spouse. 

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What is the key to happiness? Well, it's that age old topic of virtue. 

I don't like talking about virtue because I think building virtue is hard. 

It's hard to look ourselves in the face and say what we need to work on. But it is rooting out vice for virtue that makes us more happy. 

True virtue points us to our ultimate end - God Himself! 

As we move toward God we are able to love more in our relationships, especially in our intimate relationship of marriage. 

So the hard work of virtue allows you to have a happier marriage! 

🥂Here is to the hard work of virtue building and the wonderful gift of happy marriage. 

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Today on the Becoming Love podcast there are stories of pain, separation, substance abuse, and infidelity but the REAL story is how the powerful love and mercy of Jesus Christ can help a marriage heal, forgive, and ultimately thrive.  

Listen in as Lee and Jennifer Ovalle to share with you their real-life Catholic marriage story.

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“Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator made them male and female and said, For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh?  So they are no longer two, but one flesh.” Matthew 19:4-6

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1. No Secrets
2. Willingness to forgive 
3. Boundaries
4. No Name calling
5. Having a mission 
6. Not Holding grudges 
7. Making decisions together
8. Humility 

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Date night is a wonderful way to make sure you and your spouse are connecting positively and enjoying each other’s company on a regular basis. It doesn’t have to be expensive, elaborate or perfect, just intentional. But it’s going to take time, effort and planning. 

3  Tips for successful date nights:

1. Schedule them - it’s a non negotiable
2. Don’t make it a meeting
3. Take turns planning
4. Bonus tip: Make more date touch points. 

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Buckle up because you are in for a treat! This episode is filled with the amazing marriage story of Nathan and Monica. From dating to marriage to infertility to adoption to surrender. I know you'll love it! 

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Putting other things before your marriage can be a marriage killer. 

And I know how hard it can be to balance it all. The one thing I have found is that if my relationship with God and my spouse are in order everything else falls more easily into place. 

1. Your vocation is to marriage

2. You and your spouse are captains of the ship

3. Your relationship health is directly related to the health of your family and your children

4. Making it practical - Little things all the time 

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I love this time of year. Everything is new. It's exciting and it's a time for you and your spouse to get together, dream, and make those dreams come true. But first...goals! 

5 Steps to get you started

1. Independently brainstorm goals
2. Plan a time to meet and talk over goals
3. Refine goals
4. Display them where you can see them everyday
5. Accountability - Check in with your spouse often

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Want to add more intentional prayer into the day to day of your marriage? In this episode I give you 7 different ways you can build more prayer into your marriage. 

1. Pray together
2. Pray for each other
3. Work on your personal relationship with the Lord
4. Offer your sufferings 
5. Decorate your domestic church  
6. Ask the Blessed Mother for help 
7. Go on retreats together

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