In a conversation with a client recently, this question was brought up. What is the decision I would make if I already was the person that I desire to become? If you already had the relationship, the job, the joy, and freedom you're craving. If you were already in love with your life, what decisions would you make? Instead of deciding based on your current life, decide your life based on where you want to be. You must do something different if you want to create something different in you life. What would that person choose if they already had everything they desired?