Becoming Wilkinson

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Jamie Pierce is an Ovation Award-nominated actor and classically-trained dancer based in Los Angeles. He is well-known for his extensive stage credits, independent film work, and prominent television roles. 

Notable Credits
Television: Roles in BET/Netflix's The Family Business, ABC's The Con, and appearances at the 79th Annual Golden Globes. 

Film: Starred in the title role of the award-winning independent film Bill. 

Stage: Nominated for a 2019 Ovation Award for his performance in Priscilla, Queen of the Desert at the Celebration Theatre in Los Angeles. Other major theater credits include The Music Man, Dreamgirls, and Urinetown. 

Local/Recent Work: Played the dual role of the twin brothers John and James in Dezart Performs' production of Love! Valour! Compassion! in Palm Springs, CA.

Jamie's Insta:  https://www.instagram.com/ajamiepierce/

Photo credit:  Leah Huebner https://www.huebnerheadshots.com/

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My guest Gareth surprised me with a story about turning rejection into inspiration. After facing major pushback for his LGBTQ+ library display, he channeled the negativity into writing a wild, satirical novel.

Sometimes, the worst moments fuel the best stories—and even better growth.

It's a reminder that even tough experiences can lead us to new creative heights. Maybe it’s time to see rejection differently?

What’s one “bad” blow that pushed you to do something unexpected?
Drop your stories in the comments!

Drop a ❤️ if you've ever felt this way—you're not alone!

#LGBTQBooks #TurnRejectionIntoArt #OwnYourStory #CreativeResilience #memorablemoments

To connect with Gareth, check out his website, which includes a link for purchasing his book: http://www.GarethCarterAuthor.com

Copyright Becoming Wilkinson Podcast/2026

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In this engaging podcast episode, host Wilkinson reconnects with Rick McCarthy, who shares his journey of self-discovery as a gay man. From his childhood in Boston to navigating relationships and family dynamics, Rick discusses the challenges and triumphs of coming out. He reflects on the impact of the AIDS epidemic, his career evolution, and the importance of community involvement. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-love, personal growth, and the lessons learned throughout life's journey.

TAKEAWAYS
Rick shares his experience of growing up in a traditional family in Boston.
He discusses the process of coming out and the reactions from his family.
Rick emphasizes the importance of self-love and acceptance.
He reflects on the impact of the AIDS epidemic on his relationships.
Rick highlights the significance of community involvement and activism.
He encourages listeners to seek help and get involved in their communities.
Rick believes in the power of personal growth and self-discovery.
He shares insights on navigating relationships and the importance of communication.
Rick discusses the idea that relationships can be successful even if they end.
He concludes with a message of abundance and living life to the fullest.

Image: Copyright Wilkinson 2025

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CHAPTERS
00:00
Introduction to Murph and the Gay Men's Collective
02:43
Murph's Early Life and Self-Discovery
05:08
Coming Out and Understanding Identity
07:50
First Experiences and Relationships
10:07
Exploring Sexuality and Community
12:34
Uber Stories and Encounters
15:00
Bachelorette Parties and Observations
17:29
Reflections on Safe Spaces and Community Dynamics
22:33
Observations on Social Dynamics in Gay Bars
23:43
Navigating the New York City Gay Scene
27:09
The Transition from Acting to Retail Sales
32:35
Skills Transfer: From Performance to Sales Training
34:43
Future Aspirations and Retirement Plans
43:22
Life Lessons and Personal Insights

SUMMARY
In this engaging conversation, Murph shares his journey from his early life in Ireland to his experiences in the LGBTQ community, including coming out, navigating the AIDS epidemic, and his life in New York City. He discusses his time in the drag scene, memorable Uber stories, and the lessons he's learned throughout his life. The conversation highlights the importance of self-acceptance, the challenges faced by the LGBTQ community, and the joy of travel and personal connections.

TAKEAWAYS
Murph's early experiences shaped his understanding of his identity.
Coming out can be a complex journey influenced by societal perceptions.
The AIDS epidemic had a profound impact on the LGBTQ community during the 80s and 90s.
Personal relationships can be both innocent and transformative during adolescence.
Life in New York City offered Murph a vibrant LGBTQ culture and opportunities.
Memorable encounters while driving Uber reveal the diversity of experiences in Palm Springs.
Traveling can lead to self-discovery and deeper connections with others.
Lessons learned include the importance of taking chances and being true to oneself.
Respect is more important than being liked in personal relationships.
Finding joy in the small moments can reset one's perspective.

BIO
John "Murf" is Irish-born, New York-based, and living proof that wanderlust, wit, and a well-curated playlist can take you far.
He’s as happy glamping in the woods as he is lounging on a beach — ideally after museum-hopping and a three-course lunch. A Modigliani fan, Paris devotee, and certified foodie, he curates his life like his music: part 70s disco, part 90s nostalgia, all vibes.
Gay, glam, and occasionally grounded, John believes in good shoes, great stories, and never saying no to dessert — or a flight to somewhere fabulous.

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CHAPTERS
00:00
Navigating Technical Glitches and Film Discussions
02:39
Exploring Nuanced Acting in 'Say Yes' and 'Baby Steps'
05:24
The Collaborative Spirit of Indie Films
08:08
Intimacy and Comfort in Filming
10:51
Future Projects and Industry Insights
13:20
Reflections on Humanity and Personal Growth

SUMMARY
In this engaging conversation, Matt Pascua reflects on his experiences in the film industry, discussing his roles in 'Say Yes' and 'Baby Steps', the creative process behind 'Scrambled', and the importance of intimacy coordination in film. He shares insights on navigating current events, personal growth, and the significance of kindness in everyday life. The discussion highlights the collaborative nature of indie projects and the emotional impact of storytelling.

TAKEAWAYS
The importance of emotional connection in acting.
Indie projects foster a family-like atmosphere.
Intimacy coordinators enhance safety in film production.
The journey of filmmaking is as important as the final product.
Kindness can significantly impact someone's day.
Navigating the film industry requires adaptability and openness.
Creative collaboration leads to better storytelling.
Recognizing personal growth is essential for happiness.
Current events can challenge faith in humanity.
Art can reflect societal issues and provoke thought.

BIO
MATT PASCUA is an actor based in New York City. After studying at the Neighborhood Playhouse, he began working in commercials and on stage, including an earlier, regional production of Matthew Spangler's "The Kite Runner," an adaptation of Khaled Hosseini's best-selling novel of the same name. His television work includes appearances on "Grey's Anatomy," "Castle," "Rosewood," "Insecure," "Dynasty," "Fantasy Island," "Mayor of Kingstown," and "FBI: Most Wanted." Through 2024, Matt recurred as Ben Perez on "Walker," The CW's family drama-reboot of "Walker, Texas Ranger." On film, he can be seen in Jean-Marc Vallée's "Wild" and in Stewart Wade's "Say Yes" and "Baby Steps," amongst several other independent releases. In 2019, two projects he headlined, Lise Johnson's "Other Loving" and Anthony Meindl's "Where We Go From Here," screened at the Cannes Film Festival. Matt is also an alum of the ABC Discovers Talent Showcase, which takes pride in Chadwick Boseman, Lupita Nyong’o, and Gina Rodriguez, among many others, as some of its previously selected artists.

Matt's IG/:  https://www.instagram.com/pattmascua/

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THIS IS PART ONE.  PART TWO WILL BE RELEASED IN A FEW DAYS.

:00
Introduction and Background
02:47
Journey into Acting
05:37
Navigating the Acting Industry
08:28
Life in New York vs. LA
11:25
Travel and Personal Life
14:07
Finding Love and Relationships
16:54
Coming Out and Identity
19:39
Family Dynamics and Support
20:33
Exploring Sexuality and Identity
23:21
The Making of 'Say Yes'
27:53
Character Reflections and Personal Connections

SUMMARY
In this conversation, Matt Pascua shares his journey from a Midwest upbringing to becoming an actor in New York City. He discusses the challenges and joys of navigating the acting world, the competitive nature of LA and New York, and his experiences with love and identity. Matt reflects on his coming out journey, the support from his family, and how he relates to his character in the independent film 'Say Yes.' The conversation highlights themes of self-discovery, emotional honesty, and the importance of community.

TAKEAWAYS
Matt Pascua grew up outside of Chicago and didn't pursue acting until later in life.
He found his passion for acting while studying at Ithaca College.
Matt emphasizes the importance of emotional honesty in acting.
He believes there is no correct trajectory in an acting career.
Self-assessment is crucial for artists to ensure they find joy in their work.
Matt's journey of coming out was supported by his younger brother, who is also gay.
He values the growth and learning that comes with family dynamics.
Matt identified as bisexual and acknowledged his late exploration of this part of his identity. He now simply identifies as Queer.
He shares a positive experience of finding love through Grindr during the pandemic.
Matt relates deeply to his character Caden in 'Say Yes,' infusing personal experiences into his performance.

BIO
MATT PASCUA is an actor based in New York City. After studying at the Neighborhood Playhouse, he began working in commercials and on stage, including an earlier, regional production of Matthew Spangler's "The Kite Runner," an adaptation of Khaled Hosseini's best-selling novel of the same name. His television work includes appearances on "Grey's Anatomy," "Castle," "Rosewood," "Insecure," "Dynasty," "Fantasy Island," "Mayor of Kingstown," and "FBI: Most Wanted." Through 2024, Matt recurred as Ben Perez on "Walker," The CW's family drama-reboot of "Walker, Texas Ranger." On film, he can be seen in Jean-Marc Vallée's "Wild" and in Stewart Wade's "Say Yes" and "Baby Steps," amongst several other independent releases. In 2019, two projects he headlined, Lise Johnson's "Other Loving" and Anthony Meindl's "Where We Go From Here," screened at the Cannes Film Festival. Matt is also an alum of the ABC Discovers Talent Showcase, which takes pride in Chadwick Boseman, Lupita Nyong’o, and Gina Rodriguez, among many others, as some of its previously selected artists.

Matt's IG/:  https://www.instagram.com/pattmascua/

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CHAPTERS:
00:00
Introduction to Personal Growth Journey
09:25
Experiences at Awaken Your Highest Self Conference
18:39
Breathwork and Emotional Healing
27:29
Ancestral Connections and Healing
36:35
Transformative Breathwork and Financial Insights

DESCRIPTION:
In this conversation, Wilkinson shares his personal journey of self-discovery and healing through breathwork and spiritual practices. He reflects on his experiences at a mens retreat and also at a recent  "Awaken Your Higher Self" conference, discussing the emotional breakthroughs he encountered, particularly related to his family dynamics and his recent cancer diagnosis. The conversation emphasizes the importance of openness to experiences, the healing power of breathwork, and the ongoing journey of personal growth and understanding.

TAKEAWAYS
Wilkinson emphasizes the importance of being open to experiences.
Breathwork can trigger profound emotional releases and memories.
He recalls a significant breakthrough during a breathwork session.
Family dynamics play a crucial role in personal healing.
The concept of allowing others to have their own journey is vital.
Wilkinson's cancer diagnosis has prompted deep introspection.
He experienced a sense of connection with his ancestors during breathwork.
The healing process involves confronting past traumas and shame.
Wilkinson's journey reflects a shift towards love and kindness.
He remains hopeful about his health and the lessons it brings.

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Chapters:
00:00
Introduction to My Medical Journey
02:58
The Car Accident and Its Aftermath
05:48
Life Changes and New Beginnings
08:46
Couchsurfing and Unexpected Insights
12:05
Prostate Cancer Diagnosis and Treatment Decisions
17:46
Navigating Medical Challenges and Surgeries
23:48
Reflections on Health and Healing
30:04
Recent Developments and Future Outlook

Summary:
In this podcast, the host shares a deeply personal narrative about his medical journey, starting from a car accident in 1988 that led to chronic pain and a series of health challenges, including a life-threatening blood clot and a prostate cancer diagnosis. He reflects on significant life changes, including coming out as gay, hosting Couchsurfers, and navigating the complexities of the medical system. The conversation also touches on personal growth, resilience, and the importance of self-advocacy in healthcare. The host concludes with insights gained from a recent road trip and a commitment to continue sharing his journey.

Takeaways:
The importance of self-advocacy in healthcare.
Life can change dramatically due to unexpected events.
Couchsurfing provided valuable insights into human connection.
Prostate cancer can be slow-growing, requiring careful monitoring.
Navigating the medical system can be challenging and frustrating.
Personal growth often comes from facing adversity.
The mind-body connection plays a crucial role in healing.
Sharing personal stories can foster community and support.
Travel can be a powerful tool for self-discovery.
Maintaining a positive outlook is essential during health challenges.

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Note: This is story of my journey, from my perspective.  It's not medical advice.  For that, you need to contact your own medical professional.

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Chapters
00:00
Introduction to Laura Stearns
01:42
Exploring Trauma and Healing
04:03
The Impact of Childhood Experiences
06:09
The Role of Institutions in Abuse
08:28
Personal Stories of Assault
11:04
The Aftermath of Trauma
12:59
Marriage and Relationships Post-Trauma
15:06
Legislative Changes and Advocacy
17:43
Public Disclosure and Its Consequences
20:38
Understanding Trauma in the Arts
22:08
The Healing Journey and Self-Discovery
26:36
Navigating Identity and Relationships
30:48
The Impact of Trauma on Society
32:24
Current Projects and Future Aspirations
35:49
Living Authentically and Trusting Your Gut

Summary
In this conversation, Laura Stearns shares her journey as an actor, author, and advocate for trauma survivors. She discusses her experiences with childhood trauma, the impact of her time in the theater community, and her healing process. Laura emphasizes the importance of understanding trauma, the implications of the Child Victims Act, and the role of art in healing. She also shares insights from her memoir and her current projects, highlighting the need for community and support for survivors.

Takeaways
Laura's journey through trauma began in childhood.
The theater community can harbor hidden dangers.
Understanding false core beliefs is crucial for healing.
The Child Victims Act allows survivors to seek justice.
Art can be a powerful tool for healing and expression.
Community support is vital for trauma survivors.
Litigation can be a re-traumatizing experience.
Self-discovery is a key part of the healing process.
Sharing stories helps build connections and understanding.
Trusting one's gut is essential for personal growth.

Laura Stearns' Bio
Laura studied theater in Minneapolis, Minnesota, and has been working in professional theater since the age of thirteen. As a theater maker in the Twin Cities, which included twelve years on staff at the world-renowned Guthrie Theater, Laura has worked with some of the most talented artists from around the world, both on and off stage. Laura is an accomplished actor and director with a diverse skill set that has given her the opportunity to work in almost every department of theater production as a manager, technician, and designer. Now living in Southern California, she is the winner of the 2024 Desert Theatre League Award for Best Direction of The Woman in the Mirror. She also designed and fabricated the puppets for Avenue Q at Revolution Stage Company. Palm Springs audiences will recognize Laura from her performances this past season as Norma Baxter in Perfect Arrangement at The Bent, and Dr. Charlotte in Falsettos at Dezart Performs. She is also the author of Shattered: Exposing the Open Secret of the Children’s Theatre Scandal and Daring to Heal: Growing Beyond Trauma Through Awareness, Acceptance, and Action, co-author of The Minnesota Theater Standards for Safety and Accountability and co-founder of the Minnesota Theater Accountability Coalition. Her testimony at the state legislature supported the removal of the criminal Statute of Limitations for rape victims in the state of Minnesota. As a proud member of Actors Equity Association and an associate with the Stage Directors and Choreographers Society, Laura is a fierce advocate for safe spaces in theater production and education. 

Learn more about Laura at http://www.laurastearns.com

LAURA STEARNS
she/her/hers
Artist ~ Advocate ~ Consultant
Actor- SAG/AFTRA ~ AEA
Director- Associate, Stage Directors and Choreographers Society
Intimacy Direction - IDC Consent Forward Artist Certified

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"Once upon a time on June 14, 2025".

And one day in June, a broken, poor little boy stole money from his uncle and threw himself a big party and a parade. He lined up all his toy tanks and his toy soldiers. He pretended to be important as he stood behind his little glass-enclosed podium and watched as the festivities unfolded before him. 

He was surrounded by (those whom he had convinced himself were) his friends. But they all knew the truth. They weren't real friends. He had bought them with favors and gifts. Their friendships were nothing but transactions on paper with loyalty written in water. 

He was hidden behind the podium, but there were some who were sitting close to him who could see the truth. They remained silent as they observed that his small feet could not come close to filling the shoes he was wearing. His body, though chubby for his age, was overwhelmed by the oversized suit he was trying to wear.  

Simultaneously, in all the villages near and far, the true warriors gathered. They knew their secret power. They gathered in love, realized that they were united in brotherhood and they simply stood and let their light shine for all to see. The light from each village shot in beams overhead. 

The beams joined forces above, becoming a bright, white cosmic mass - shining into the darkness for the entire world to see.  The light began to affect the clouds overhead. The water began to pour out of the clouds. As the rain hit the people gathered in the villages, they began to smile and laugh and sing and dance. They were experiencing the joy of the real party.

But as the rain hit the small boy’s parade, it began to wash away and disintegrate his small toys as if they were made of paper. The street before him became a river.  The water overwhelmed the boy’s podium, turning it over and knocking him to the ground. He slipped out of his oversized suit. His big-boy shoes washed away.  Various folks who had come to observe his party and parade, (and his so-called friends) all dashed for cover, leaving him utterly alone.  

He stood up, with nothing left accept the cameras that he had placed to show off his pretend party to the world.  But the world finally saw the truth: Everyone looked down with pity and disgust at the broken, naked, friendless little poor boy with no clothes.

© Wilkinson/2025