Becoming Wiser

Today's episode explores the essential process of cleaning up the messes we inadvertently create in our lives. Whether it’s a hasty word or a misjudged action, the path to resolution isn't through excuses but through genuine behavior change and making amends. Listeners will come away understanding that apologies are just the starting point and that true resolution requires time, effort, and a change in actions. This episode will not only help you learn how to effectively clean up life’s spills but also improve your relationships and personal integrity in the process.

Show Notes:

• Introduction to the importance of addressing and rectifying mistakes.
• Discussion on the concept of not being able to "cry over spilled milk" but being able to "clean it up before it spoils."
• Real-life example from Dr. Rohm's experience as a school principal and the advice he received during a challenging time.
• Exploration of the idea that actions speak louder than words, especially when attempting to rectify a situation.
• Emphasis on the importance of changing behavior as a key to resolving issues and improving relationships.
• Insights into personal growth through acknowledging mistakes and taking corrective actions.
• Practical advice on how to genuinely apologize and the significance of sincere behavior change over time.
• Closing thoughts on maintaining integrity and trust in personal and professional relationships.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

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In this episode of Becoming Wiser, we are joined by BK Simendic, who shares his incredible journey from being born on a pig farm in Serbia to thriving in America. BK reflects on the challenges he faced, including language barriers and financial struggles, and how he overcame them to achieve the American dream. Through his unwavering determination and the support of mentors like Dr. Robert A. Rohm, BK reveals the key principles that guided his path to success. From learning English to starting a business and embracing the power of faith, BK's story is an inspiring testament to the transformative impact of hard work, opportunity, and the pursuit of personal growth. Join us as we delve into BK's remarkable journey and the invaluable life lessons he has to offer.

Show Notes:

• Dr. Robert A. Rohm interviews BK Semendik, a Serbian immigrant who came to America with just $120.
• BK's journey from struggling in Serbia to thriving in America, including the challenges and opportunities he encountered.
• Insights on the importance of hard work, vision, and the right attitude in achieving the American dream.
• Discussion on the influence of Zig Ziglar and setting goals based on personality insights.
• BK’s transition from a lifeguard to a successful entrepreneur in cleaning and restoration, generating $12 million in annual revenue.
• Advice for listeners on starting strong, integrating faith, and making impactful life changes.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

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From quirky dinner traditions to deeper family bonds, I am going to highlight the beauty and complexity of family life and help you gain a fresh perspective on your own family experiences, understanding that while no family is perfect, each offers valuable lessons and unforgettable moments.

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Show Notes:

• Dr. Robert Rohm shares insights from his own unique family background and experiences.
• Discussion on the diversity of family structures and norms.
• Exploration of personal family stories, emphasizing differences in dining and parenting styles.
• Reflective thoughts on the importance of understanding and accepting one's family dynamics.
• Announcement of upcoming family training session and encouragement to participate.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

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In this episode, I talk about how important it is to be honest and admit when we're wrong. I tell stories from when I was a teacher to show why saying "I didn't do it" when we did can make things worse. I'll teach you about saying sorry and how it helps us grow and make better connections with others. This chat is all about learning from our mistakes and making them into chances to get better at life. Listening to this will give you tips on how to handle tough situations better and make your life more rewarding.

Show Notes:

• Dr. Robert Rohm discusses the significance of honesty and acknowledging one's mistakes.
• He shares a story from his teaching days, illustrating the negative impact of denial.
• Rohm reflects on an incident where a student denied pulling another student's hair, despite being witnessed.
• Emphasizes the concept of "Deny, deny, deny, till you die" and its flaws.
• Talks about the importance of being visible and involved as a school administrator.
• Highlights the value of apologizing and owning up to mistakes for personal growth.
• Shares a lesson on how admitting fault can lead to a more fulfilling life.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

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Join us as Dr. Marie Cosgrove shares her journey from facing a major setback to achieving a remarkable turnaround. Her story, from being unjustly fired to eventually owning the very company that dismissed her, offers hope and actionable insights for navigating life's challenges. This episode is packed with lessons on persistence, faith, and the power of believing in one's own value, designed to empower listeners to overcome obstacles and unlock new paths to success.

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Show Notes:

• Dr. Robert A. Rohm shares his own experience of being fired twice by the same company.
• Special guest Dr. Marie Cosgrove discusses her journey from being fired to buying the company.
• The theme revolves around resilience, determination, and overcoming challenges in business and personal growth.
• Dr. Cosgrove shares her struggle as a top sales performer who was unexpectedly fired, her journey as a single mother, and how she started her own successful company.
• The conversation touches on the importance of self-investment, team building, and offering employees ownership in the business.
• Insights on the mental and emotional aspects of facing job loss and adversity.
• The role of faith and personal values in overcoming obstacles and achieving success.
• Dr. Cosgrove emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's value, purpose, and unique talents.
• Discussion on avoiding comparison with others and focusing on personal strengths.
• Marie's experience of writing a book, "Greater Fortune," that provides lessons and strategies for resilience and success.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

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This Easter, I invite you to explore an episode that offers more than just reflection; it promises transformation. As we navigate the often touchy subject of religion, I assure you, this conversation doesn't demand anything from you but an open mind. Through a simple yet profound question, I aim to guide you towards understanding the true essence of salvation and the unparalleled gift of eternal life. It's not about what we've done or who we are; it's about embracing the grace freely offered to us. By the end of this episode, the goal is clear: to shift from uncertainty to a resounding confidence in your eternal destination, purely based on faith. Join me, and let's uncover the peace and assurance that this season truly represents.

Show Notes:

• Introduction to the concept of certainty in afterlife destination, using a 0-10 scale.
• Dr. Robert Rohm emphasizes Easter week's significance and the transformation of Jesus' perception in society from praise to condemnation.
• The podcast is positioned as non-religious and non-denominational, aiming purely to share impactful insights.
• Dr. Rohm shares his journey from youth director to educator, then to seminary student, highlighting his quest for deeper understanding.
• The core message revolves around the concept of grace and the gift of salvation through faith in Jesus, not through personal achievements or religious deeds.
• Dr. Rohm challenges listeners to reconsider their self-assessed 'number' concerning their afterlife certainty based on their actions versus faith.
• The sin of pride and the importance of recognizing salvation as a gift from God, not earned by personal merit.
• Testimonies and logical arguments are presented to support the uniqueness of Jesus' promise of salvation and eternal life.
• A call to faith in Jesus as the sole foundation for certainty of heaven, illustrated with the metaphor of a paid dinner.
• Encouragement to adopt a faith-based assurance of salvation, especially in the context of Easter.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

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Have you ever wondered why some days feel like a rollercoaster of emotions? In this podcast episode, we're peeling back the layers on the age-old question: Who really controls your mood? With a mix of personal stories and actionable tips, you’ll learn how to stand firm in your happiness, no matter the weather. Tune in for a refreshing take on maintaining joy and serenity in the hustle of life.

Show Notes:

• Introduction to understanding who controls your mood.
• Discussion on the impact of external factors on our mood, including interactions with others.
• Personal anecdote involving Dr. Rohm and his wife, April, to illustrate how easily one’s mood can be influenced by another's.
• Explanation of the misconception that others' moods should dictate our own.
• Strategies to maintain personal mood and attitude despite external influences.
• Emphasis on the importance of taking deep breaths to reset mood.
• The significance of separating your issues from others' to maintain a positive mood.
• Encouragement techniques for interacting with those in a bad mood.
• The importance of controlling your response to others' moods to remain positive.
• Dr. Rohm's personal commitment to being a positive, uplifting influence.
• Conclusion with advice on practicing mood independence for a happier life.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

Thinking correctly is not innate; it's a skill that we cultivate. In this episode, I'll share with you the secrets and strategies for mastering this skill, leading to unparalleled personal and professional growth. Discover how to navigate life's challenges with grace and achieve your dreams through thoughtful decision-making. This is an episode that promises not just to inform but to transform. Tune in now and start your journey toward a more thoughtful and prosperous life.

Show Notes:

• Importance of learning to think correctly to avoid poor choices.
• The unique human gift of thought and reasoning, differentiating us from animals.
• The necessity of learning as we grow, including reading, writing, and arithmetic.
• The power of education in opening opportunities and improving life skills.
• Ten practical tips for learning to think correctly:
  • Be early and stay late to open opportunities.
  • Carry a notepad and pen for capturing ideas.
  • Be respectful and kind, showing superior rights and kindness.
  • Be gentle, avoiding reactionary behaviors.
  • Be thoughtful, recognizing others through small gestures.
  • Choose your company wisely, seeking those who uplift and inspire.
  • Avoid sarcasm and talking behind people’s backs.
  • Be a balcony person, uplifting others.
  • Stay positive, focusing on the good.
  • Let go of the past and learn from it.
  
  

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

In this episode, we are joined by Chris and Melissa Rollins, founders of Rollins Performance Group and Executive Master Trainers in association with Personality Insights. With a passion for propelling leadership and sales teams towards unprecedented growth, Chris and Melissa share their groundbreaking 3C Model of High Performance. This model is not just a strategy but a transformative approach that champions effective communication, deep connection, and ethical conversion skills. Through their best-selling publications and captivating keynote presentations, they have fine-tuned the art of guiding teams to success by embracing the simplicity of high performance.

Show Notes:

• Key Focus: Importance of communication in leadership and connection with vision.
• Featured Guests: Chris and Melissa Rollins, experts in personal and professional development, share their journey and insights into enhancing business models with the DISC model of human behavior.
• Main Concepts Discussed:
  • The significance of positive communication and its impact on personal and business growth.
  • Introduction of the "3C Concepts" by Chris and Melissa Rollins: Communicate, Connect, and Convert.
  • The power of understanding and utilizing the DISC model for better interpersonal relationships and business strategies.
  • Ethical selling and the importance of building trust and genuine connections in sales and leadership.
  
  

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

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In this episode we're going to tackle the often misunderstood concepts of socialism and capitalism. It's more than just political ideologies; it's about understanding the stages of our lives where we lean on others and when others lean on us. This enlightening discussion will leave you with a newfound appreciation for the roles we all play in society's vast economic fabric. Listen to the very end to gain insights that could change the way you view your world and your place within it.

Show Notes:

• Exploration of socialism and capitalism, highlighting misconceptions and truths about both.
• Personal growth journey from dependency to independence, paralleled with socialism to capitalism transition.
• Real-life examples of caring for others and self-sufficiency.
• Discussion on the importance of compassion for those who cannot care for themselves.
• The significance of personal responsibility and self-care.
• Insights into the entrepreneurial journey and the challenges and rewards of starting your own business.
• Reflection on the cycle of life, from being cared for to caring for others and eventually needing care again.
• Encouragement to understand and embrace both socialism and capitalism as part of a balanced life.
• Call to be compassionate, responsible, and self-sufficient individuals who contribute positively to society.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com