bedtime stories with best believe...

So…should we apologize to someone for how they made us feel? No, never. 

But at the end of it all, once the dust settles, if you are grown enough to see how you brought on your own dose of hurt, because of the way you handled yours, then find it in your heart to apologize for that.

XoXoXo #best_believe 

In this episode, I finally get it all off my chest.  I acknowledge the breakup, the need to reshuffle priorities and continue to push forward. 

...after being MIA in September I am back!

In this episode, we will talk about my upcoming birthday, my challenging love life, and we will take a little stroll down reflections road.  We will once again tango with HoHio due to a recent copycat and tsunami of all those issues crashing back into my reality again but in the end, we will just learn to adjust to life as a "Single Gal in So Cal. "

In this episode, we visit the importance of a man being able to feel and express those feelings.  We discuss the ways "WE" as women can help our men feel safe and willing to open up and communicate their feelings without feeling like they are losing a piece of their manhood.  

"an enemy of my enemy is my friend thus, a friend of my enemy is my enemy"   

Once upon a time, it was Quality versus Quantity but Loyalty today is not what it once was and it seems that society has added loyalty to a list of accepted currency.   

In this episode, we talk about how Social Media Groups are infested with those who would trade loyalty for a retweet just as fast as they would trade some ass for a pair of Jordans.   We talk about the Bro/Hoe code and how there are entitled catty, cunty, bitches everywhere.  

How much is your soul worth for a seat at the top of the social media party?

People tend to be wary of the unknown; they go on the defense or attack when they can't understand something such as Mental Health Illness. They themselves become a second battle because we are already battling our mental health.

Your partner proposes a "free pass weekend" where you both have the freedom to go out with anyone, and nothing is off-limits. The challenge is to see if the love you have for one another is strong enough to keep you from crossing any sexual boundaries.

Do you take the leap and see if what you have is really what you want, knowing the risk is that your person could potentially no longer want you?