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Been There, Learned That | Life & Leadership Coach | Strategies For Personal Growth
By Dana Byers, ACC, ELI-MP, Christian Life Coaching for LeadersBusinessEntrepreneurshipReligion & SpiritualityChristianityCareers
Been There, Learned That | Life & Leadership Coach | Strategies For Personal Growth episodes
- Empowering Leadership in Christian Marriage
Empowering Leadership in Christian Marriage
A Candid Chat with Chris & Dana Byers
Dive into a heart-to-heart conversation with Dana and Chris Byers as they discuss life's risks, supporting each others' leadership roles, and the beauty of alignment in marriage.
Unpack their journey from a CEO shift to ministry moves, intentional parenting, and the nuggets of wisdom that have guided their path together since 1997.
Join us for an enriching episode that's sure to pique your interest and evoke a desire to focus on collective decision-making!
Key Points* Chris & Dana tackle the topic of women in leadership* The influence of being "spiritually unsettled"* Chris offers candid feedback on how Dana could have approached navigating motherhood and leadership in a different way
* Valuing decisiveness & collective decision-making* Dana's “tantrum” around money and generosity early in marriage as a learning curve* Embracing risks with faith guiding the wayEpisode Quotes
"Chris loves empowering everyone to lead, but I've especially personally benefited from his intentionality to support me in leadership." - Dana
"I mean, one thing that attracted me to you early on was your excitement about building a business, growing a business, being in business." - Chris
Please leave a 5 star rating and review!
Thanks,Dana
Instagram @danalbyers
Next Steps:
Download the FREE Stress Stopper: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/stress-stopper
Download the FREE How to Become An Empowered Woman 30-page guide: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/an-empowered-woman
Download the FREE Life Tolerations tool: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/life-tolerations
Take the Energy Leadership Index Assessment https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/energy-leadership-index-assessment
Ready to work with a Christian life coach online? Book a free consultation call here: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/getcoached
35 min - Green Flag Framework: Positive Paths in Decision Making
In this episode, I introduce my coaching tool for Christian women, exploring positive indicators in decisions. Ditch the red flags and pave your way to impactful choices, whether in business or personal growth.
Let's explore the Green Flag Framework, a tool I developed in pursuit of better supporting Christian working women. Unlike popular focus on red flags, this approach encourages us to identify and pursue the positive signs in our lives, instilling in us a fresh perspective on decision-making, relationship-building, and achieving success.
The Green Flag Framework consists of recognizing 'green flags' in different life situations and learning from them. Whether you're forming a new relationship, exploring career opportunities, or making everyday choices, this framework guides you to understand and embrace the 'gold' extracted from your experiences and strengths, thereby offering direction and confidence.
This framework highlights the significance of continuous learning and self-improvement. The process of enhancing your green flag recognition involves asking questions, experimenting, and constantly adapting - all of which foster self-awareness and a positive impact on your communities. Moreover, it reassures us that it's acceptable if the green flags for two individuals don't always coincide - the principal premise is to understand what's right for you and make the most of your unique journey.
Let's take a deep dive into the five-step framework that lays a solid foundation to move from being curious learners to passionate practitioners, and finally, inspiring models for others. While the journey is personal, the impact you make by pursuing your green flags extends to your community at large. It's not about building a perfect life, but about understanding what you profoundly value and shaping your life around it fearlessly.
Explore how you can utilize this notable tool for personal growth, expanding your positive impact, and confidently making meaningful decisions. Unearth the possibility of an enriching life anchored in your values - one green flag at a time.
Discover your 'yes' with the Green Flag Framework! In this episode, I introduce my coaching tool for Christian women, exploring positive indicators in decisions. Ditch the red flags and pave your way to impactful choices, whether in business or personal growth.
Key Points:
• Green Flag Framework unveiled• Red flags vs. green flags• Five steps to identify green flags• Telling others about green flags• Live out green flags passionatelyIt's entirely possible for you to feel empowered to align with your personal and community values for a fulfilling life's journey.
Please leave a 5 star rating and review on the podcast so more people have access to this free content! Thank you.
Dana
Instagram @danalbyers
Next Steps:
Download the FREE Stress Stopper: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/stress-stopper
Download the FREE How to Become An Empowered Woman 30-page guide: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/an-empowered-woman
Download the FREE Life Tolerations tool: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/life-tolerations
Take the Energy Leadership Index Assessment https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/energy-leadership-index-assessment
Ready to work with a Christian life coach online? Book a free consultation call here: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/getcoached
23 min - Faith: Journeying Beyond Fear and Debt
Sometimes we pursue a God-given dream but fear and debt can get in our way.
Are you struggling to obey God when you don't see a clear path ahead? You can choose the path less traveled. You don't have to take the easy route as long as you are willing to play the long game and stand your ground.
Dive into an intimate tale of faith, family, and audacity with me today. Discover how a spiritual commitment, coupled with unwavering resolve, led to a miraculous, debt-free adoption and life-changing adventures.
Sometimes we're clear on what we're supposed to do, but we don't see how God will provide for us if we step out in faith and obey.
I had a God-given dream of adopting a child at age 15 that didn't come to pass for another 12 years. While I waited, a few unexpected steps and requirements were added to the process that made it feel nearly impossible to me.
Along the way, I doubted God. I doubted myself. I struggled to manage the hurtful comments of people who meant well but were mis-informed about adoption.
Listen to my story of surprising provision and let it encourage you today.
Key Points:
- My struggles with God's financial path
- Our financial leap of faith that led to adoption
- The discomfort of sharing about our adoption journey openly
- Embracing help to persist in a calling
You've got this, and God's got you!
Please leave a 5 star rating and review on the podcast so more people have access to this free content! Thank you.
Coach DanaInstagram @danalbyersNext Steps:
Download the FREE Stress Stopper: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/stress-stopper
Download the FREE How to Become An Empowered Woman 30-page guide: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/an-empowered-woman
Download the FREE Life Tolerations tool: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/life-tolerations
Take the Energy Leadership Index Assessment https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/energy-leadership-index-assessment
Ready to work with a Christian life coach online? Book a free consultation call here: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/getcoached
17 min - 3 Beliefs to Supercharge Your Career & LifeCould you use an energy boost at work?Are you getting lackluster results in your job?After spending hundreds of hours coaching working Christian working women, I've noticed a theme among 3 common misbeliefs we carry.In this episode, I share those 3 beliefs to help you re-gain traction, and I explain how to start moving in the right direction.Let's embark in a transformative chat on three empowering beliefs that recharge careers and personal growth for ambitious women. Tune in for spiritual wisdom, familial love, and professional insights tailor-made for go-getters!Key Points:• "I am not alone"• "Others grow when I grow"• "People need what I offer"• Measure beliefs on a scale• Share your belief journeyHere comes your increase in confidence and enjoyment at work!DanaInstagram @danalbyers
Next Steps:
Download the FREE Stress Stopper: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/stress-stopper
Download the FREE How to Become An Empowered Woman 30-page guide: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/an-empowered-woman
Download the FREE Life Tolerations tool: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/life-tolerations
Take the Energy Leadership Index Assessment https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/energy-leadership-index-assessment
Ready to work with a Christian life coach online? Book a free consultation call here: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/getcoached
8 min - Overcoming Frustration: Managing Expectations and Embracing Self-CompassionLet's lighten your load today. I want us to tackle the pains of perceived failure together - with a twist!What if your frustrated ambitions are on the brink of blossoming? In this episode, challenge your doubts and embrace patience through some of my personal insights and empowering questions.Key Points:• Is "not working" just a "not yet"?• Data: Only part of your story• Unnecessary expectations vs. dreams• Powerful questions for personal growth• Infusing self-compassion into your journeyGive me 6 minutes of your time, and I'll give you some powerful coaching questions to provide you clarity.In this episode, I will also challenge the most frustrating situation you're facing.Why? Because unnecessary expectations can kill your dreams.Listen to this episode to increase your courage and show yourself a little compassion.DanaInstagram @danalbyers
Next Steps:
Download the FREE Stress Stopper: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/stress-stopper
Download the FREE How to Become An Empowered Woman 30-page guide: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/an-empowered-woman
Download the FREE Life Tolerations tool: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/life-tolerations
Take the Energy Leadership Index Assessment https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/energy-leadership-index-assessment
Ready to work with a Christian life coach online? Book a free consultation call here: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/getcoached
8 min - Turning Financial Ambitions into Impactful GenerosityThe topic of money can be controversial.In this episode, I share with you some of my life's experiences with money - years of lack, years of abundance, and years of in-between.It's been a heartfelt journey from scarcity to financial independence. Let's talk about how embracing abundance can fuel generosity. Discover the empowering connection between personal wealth, impactful giving, and living a purpose-driven life in this inspiring episode.Key Points:• Pursuing more financially• The intertwining of faith and finances• Responsible stewardship of wealth• Advocating for one's worth• The joy of impactful givingWe can struggle with the subject of money when we lack contentment or struggle with doubting God's provision.I've learned that money is a tool that can be of great benefit in the hands of people who are intentional about stewardship.Imagine a life where you understand your value enough to put yourself out there to earn more, but you don't over-value yourself so much that you try to keep all you earn.I'm inviting you to wrestle with the idea about how we can follow Jesus, pursue financial independence, and not make money the center of our lives.You might lack permission to pursue more financially, so here it is.DanaInstagram @danalbyers
Next Steps:
Download the FREE Stress Stopper: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/stress-stopper
Download the FREE How to Become An Empowered Woman 30-page guide: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/an-empowered-woman
Download the FREE Life Tolerations tool: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/life-tolerations
Take the Energy Leadership Index Assessment https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/energy-leadership-index-assessment
Ready to work with a Christian life coach online? Book a free consultation call here: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/getcoached
16 min - Harnessing Peace: Mastering Life TolerationsI can't wait for you to listen to this quick little episode that packs a punch!Get ready to learn a powerful way to get the clutter out of your brain and into a plan.I'm explaining how you can use the Life Tolerations coaching tool to calm down your life.Give yourself the mental space to identify which tasks to keep, delegate, or delete.Build authentic motivation to do what's in front of you.Learn to declutter your mind, manage overwhelm, and elevate your life with this empowering episode. Tune in for a serenity-boosting brain dump and grab your free printout today!Key Points:
* How to declutter and manage your mind
* Single-task focus for immediate action
* Introduction of the 'Life Tolerations' coaching tool
Get your free Life Tolerations download immediately by clicking here.Onwards and upwards!DanaInstagram @danalbyersNext Steps:
Download the FREE Stress Stopper: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/stress-stopper
Download the FREE How to Become An Empowered Woman 30-page guide: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/an-empowered-woman
Download the FREE Life Tolerations tool: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/life-tolerations
Take the Energy Leadership Index Assessment https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/energy-leadership-index-assessment
Ready to work with a Christian life coach online? Book a free consultation call here: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/getcoached
10 min - Dodging Coaching? Unveil the Truths Behind Women's AvoidanceI was nervous about hiring a coach the first time I did over 10 years ago. Like most people I know, I had 3 reasons I said I wasn't so sure it was a good idea.But now that I've hired several coaches and have been in hundreds of hours of coaching conversations with potential and paid clients, I have learned the 3 REAL reasons women avoid getting coached.In this episode, I share with you all the reasons women think we don't want to get coached and the 3 actual, deeper reasons we avoid coaching.I also share how I afforded to hire a coach for cash when I had a very tight budget.Listen up and see if you can identify yourself in the reasons I share with you. My intent in this episode is to bring greater awareness to any doubts you have and encourage you to consider what a little coaching could do for you.In this episode, I'll debunk 3 common myths about coaching. From busting time objections to tackling self-doubt, this episode is a goldmine for aspiring change-makers.Key Points• Time & money as coaching barriers• Status concerns deter coaching seekers• Overcoming skepticism in coaching value• The importance of a coach-client connections• Self-belief: The key to accepting coachingReady to conquer your coaching hesitations? Let's unravel the reasons you're holding back!Let's get growing!DanaInstagram @danalbyers
Next Steps:
Download the FREE Stress Stopper: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/stress-stopper
Download the FREE How to Become An Empowered Woman 30-page guide: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/an-empowered-woman
Download the FREE Life Tolerations tool: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/life-tolerations
Take the Energy Leadership Index Assessment https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/energy-leadership-index-assessment
Ready to work with a Christian life coach online? Book a free consultation call here: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/getcoached
14 min - Unleash Your Inner Leader: Traits of Empowered WomenPeople who follow Jesus can get antsy when someone mentions empowering women.If you're tempted to jump to conclusions about this topic, take a chance and listen to today's episode. We're talking about what it looks like to be a godly, empowered woman.Consider exploring the essence of an empowered woman through the lens of a seasoned life coach. Join me for a blend of heartfelt storytelling, boundary-setting wisdom, and actionable tips to shape the leader in you.We'll discuss what empowerment is, and what it isn't.Let’s unpick the threads of confidence, resilience, and grace that weave the fabric of a truly empowered woman.I'm sharing 3 traits that have helped me increase my sense of empowerment in life over the years.You'll also learn how to get access to a free, 30 page guide of coaching resources to help you grow on your journey towards empowerment.Key Points:• Traits of an empowered woman• The power of getting unstuck• Mastery of setting boundaries• Processing emotions effectively• Elevating others by staying trueHere's to your growth!DanaInstagram @danalbyers
Next Steps:
Download the FREE Stress Stopper: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/stress-stopper
Download the FREE How to Become An Empowered Woman 30-page guide: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/an-empowered-woman
Download the FREE Life Tolerations tool: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/life-tolerations
Take the Energy Leadership Index Assessment https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/energy-leadership-index-assessment
Ready to work with a Christian life coach online? Book a free consultation call here: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/getcoached
22 min - Conquering Fears: Risks, Wins, and Raw TruthsLet's be honest - you and I face common fears regularly.But what happens when the fears actually come true?In this episode, I'm sharing three personal fears that turned into life lessons—and introduces a new challenge I'M taking head-on with my business, Dana Byers Coaching. Get inspired by some candid tales of risk-taking and the raw, authentic lessons derived from facing fears in life and work.Key Points:• Fear is a chance for growth• Writing a book that didn't sell• Blogging success led to a tough choice• Embracing an end of a beloved chapter• New fears in maintaining a venture• Podcasting with honesty and frugality• Offer yourself up; God gives ideas
If you loved this episode, please give it 5 stars and leave a review so others can find this podcast.
Take care,DanaInstagram @danalbyersNext Steps:
Download the FREE Stress Stopper: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/stress-stopper
Download the FREE How to Become An Empowered Woman 30-page guide: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/an-empowered-woman
Download the FREE Life Tolerations tool: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/life-tolerations
Take the Energy Leadership Index Assessment https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/energy-leadership-index-assessment
Ready to work with a Christian life coach online? Book a free consultation call here: https://www.danabyerscoaching.com/getcoached
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About Been There, Learned That | Life & Leadership Coach | Strategies For Personal Growth
From the publisher's feed
Welcome! This is the podcast for women devoted to Jesus, their families, and the pursuit of meaningful work and ministry.
These episodes were recorded during my years as a full-time life and leadership coach, and the wisdom shared here is just as relevant today as when it was first spoken. Since then, my work has grown and expanded into something new. In 2025, I launched Kind Birdie, a faith-centered brand for women who are ready to plan with intention, rest without guilt, and live anchored in purpose rather than driven by hustle.
At Kind Birdie, we create planners, journals, and coaching tools designed to help you show up fully for your faith, your people, and your calling. We believe a light heart and an anchored soul aren't just possible; they're what you were made for.
Whether you found this podcast through a search or you've been here from the beginning, I'm glad you're here. These conversations are a reflection of the same heart behind everything I do: helping women lead from the inside out.
Ready to explore what's next? Visit KindBirdie.com to discover our resources and coaching offerings.