In this episode of Behind the Swipe, host Hoyt Prisock welcomes back Dr. Karin Luise to explore the process of healing from past emotional wounds stemming from relationships. Dr. Karin, an accomplished author and life coach, shares profound insights from both her professional expertise and personal experiences, offering listeners valuable guidance on navigating the journey of healing and self-discovery.

The conversation initially focuses on the significance of acknowledging one's emotional pain and the necessity of taking responsibility for one's healing journey. Dr. Karin emphasizes the empowerment that arises from moving beyond a victim mentality and facing one's past hurts with courage and openness.

Dr. Karin introduces the concept of emotions as energy that requires movement and expression. She encourages listeners to find healthy outlets to express and validate their emotions, highlighting the importance of releasing trapped energy to facilitate healing.

A pivotal point in the discussion revolves around the idea that we attract relationships that mirror our own inner state and development. Dr. Karin advocates for self-love and the cultivation of the qualities one seeks in a partner, suggesting that by embodying these qualities, one can attract healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Lastly, the episode touches on the crucial step of creating space for new beginnings by clearing out emotional remnants from past relationships. Dr. Karin illustrates how letting go of the past not only paves the way for new connections but also represents a significant step towards personal growth and self-actualization.

Throughout the episode, Dr. Karin weaves in her own journey of healing and transformation, offering listeners a relatable and authentic perspective. The conversation concludes on a hopeful note, with Dr. Karin leaving listeners with the message that through introspection, responsibility, and a willingness to change, it's possible to transcend past heartaches and embrace a future filled with love and possibility.

Listeners of Behind the Swipe will find this episode a beacon of hope and guidance, encouraging them to face their past, embrace their healing journey, and open their hearts to the endless possibilities that await.

In this episode of "Behind the Swipe," we delve into the transformative impact of AI on online dating, guided by the wisdom of Bill Gates who heralds AI as a pivotal breakthrough. We'll explore the nuances of generative AI, its role in enhancing dating profiles, and the ethical boundaries it tests. From the cinematic foresight of "Her" to practical applications like profile enhancement and communication aids, this episode unpacks the complex dance between technology and human connection. Join us as we ponder the future of AI in romance, balancing the marvels of tech with the timeless quest for genuine love. For a deep dive into the interplay of AI and the heart's desires, tune in.

Ever wondered why sparks fly with some while with others it's a fizzling dud? With therapist Michelle Morris's expertise, we embark on a captivating exploration of attachment styles in relationships, discovering the profound ways our earliest bonds influence our pursuit of love and connection. Together, we tackle the transition from childhood patterns to adult relationships, offering a roadmap to navigate the intricate maze of human bonds.

As we journey deeper, Michelle and I uncover the transformative power of Imago relationship therapy—how it illuminates the emotional blueprints that cause power struggles and the significance of healing childhood wounds within our adult partnerships. Our candid conversation touches on personal stories, including my own experiences with Imago therapy and how it impacted my decision to stay in Atlanta, as well as Michelle's insights from reentering the dating scene post-divorce. We highlight the necessity of effective communication and mutual understanding in cultivating the rich connections we all seek.

Wrapping up, we look beyond love, examining how attachment styles influence professional and everyday interactions. We offer strategies for those with anxious and avoidant tendencies, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and self-reliance for emotional fulfillment. Resources like the Attachment Project's quiz and the book "Attached" by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller are mentioned for anyone keen on further exploration. Join us for a conversation that promises to enrich your understanding of relationships and empower you in your pursuit of deeper, more empathetic connections.

Picture rediscovering intimacy after 40—does it spark anxiety or excitement within you? Together with the insightful Christine Baumgartner, we navigate the realms of sex and body confidence, tearing down the barriers of self-doubt and highlighting the universal quest for connection that transcends physical appearance. This candid conversation is an invitation to embrace vulnerability, understand the nuances of attraction, and appreciate the deeper layers of sexual energy that often go unnoticed after long-term relationships have ended.

Embarking on the path to fulfilling intimacy demands more than a physical connection; it requires a dance of communication and self-awareness. We unravel the mystery behind expressing sexual interest, the language of touch, and the controversial 'three-date rule' that has many scratching their heads. Christine and I offer a treasure trove of practical advice—from exploring Love Languages to the role of patience and honesty—equipping you with tools to enhance the connection and convey your desires authentically.

This episode doesn't shy away from the complex topics either; we tackle menopause and the evolving landscape of sexual health with compassion and understanding. Discover how boundaries, respect, and safety play pivotal roles in navigating new relationships and why maintaining an open dialogue about sexuality remains crucial at every stage of life. Tune in and be empowered, because honoring your sexual needs isn't just about satisfaction—it's a vital ingredient for happiness and well-being post-40.

In this special Valentine's episode "Be Your Own Damn Valentine," Hoyt and guest co-host Sadie Marie from "Divorced and Happy" delve into the essence of self-love and empowerment. They explore the rich history of Valentine's Day, tracing its origins from ancient traditions to its current status as a day of romance, and challenge listeners to redefine the holiday as a celebration of self. Sadie shares her inspiring journey of rediscovery and joy after divorce, highlighting the importance of finding happiness within. This episode is a call to embrace independence and cherish one's own company, illustrating that true contentment and allure come from living a life filled with passion and self-acceptance. It's a reminder that being your own valentine is not just an act of self-love, but a revolutionary step towards personal fulfillment and attractiveness.

Resistance to change is a natural human condition.  But if you are online dating in your forties, fifties or beyond, a change is exactly what you are looking for. In this episode,  with therapist Cindy Hopper, we uncover how adopting a beginner's mind and inviting discomfort into our lives can lead to profound growth. We're not just talking romance here; it's about smashing through the barriers that life tends to throw at us, with a good dose of humor and wisdom to keep things in perspective.

Embark on a journey that transcends the mere swiping left or right, as Cindy and I reveal the transformative nature of pushing beyond your comfort zone — in love, life, and all that's in between. We're sharing tales from the trenches of online dating post-40, discussing how vulnerability and resilience go hand in hand, and ultimately, how personal setbacks can be the greatest teachers. It's a candid exploration of the fears that tether us and the boundless possibilities that await when we dare to challenge them.

 Prepare to be inspired as we guide you through the art of remaking yourself and stepping into a life brimming with potential, no matter what chapter you may be on.

Have you ever stumbled upon a profile that seemed too good to be true? Well, buckle up, as Bradley Richardson from Advanced Adulting and I, Hoyt Prisock, expose the dark underbelly of online dating scams that's snaring singles over 50. This episode is a treasure trove of insights, weaving through personal tales and expert advice to shield you from the sophisticated traps of catfishers and romance scammers. We're tearing down the façade of false identities and revealing the emotional manipulation these con artists wield to exploit for financial gain. Prepare to be empowered with the knowledge and tools to navigate the treacherous waters of online romance with your heart—and wallet—intact.

Digging deeper, we share chilling first-hand accounts, Bradley's included, of how stolen images paint false narratives that lead to real-life heartache and financial ruin. The conversation segues into the psychology behind these scams, drawing unsettling parallels to the seductive power of romantic literature. But fear not, as we pivot towards proactive self-defense, spotlighting the telltale signs of suspicious profiles and emphasizing the importance of maintaining a delicate balance between openness and privacy when presenting yourself online.

Wrapping up, we illuminate strategies to spot and sidestep these digital deceptions. From reverse image searches to the critical importance of real-time interaction, we're arming you with practical tools and a mindset that values personal investment and caution. With laughter and candid stories, this session is designed to ensure your search for love remains both thrilling and secure. Don't let catfishers cast a shadow over your dating life—join us and become the savvy digital dater you're destined to be.

Christine Baumgartner, founder of The Perfect Catch, joins me this week to explore how online daters can dramatically improve their chances of finding that ideal romantic partner by focusing first on themselves, then  on the match they are hoping to find.  I call it reverse engineering online dating.  
Christine brings her profound expertise and practical wisdom to the conversation, helping us shatter common myths about online dating and showing us how to turn our search for love into a journey of self-discovery.

This episode takes a compassionate look at the daunting world of dating for widowed men. We unmask the unique insecurities that come with seeking love after loss and deliver some essential tips for navigating the dating world later in life. We also tackle the disparity in how men and women experience widowhood, adding a fresh layer of understanding to the conversation. This chat is brimming with motivation to abandon old beliefs and embrace new dating goals.

But that's not all. We also delve into the critical role of honesty, humor, and compatibility in relationships, with a special emphasis on the importance of self-confidence in dating. Learn how to tackle the fear of rejection head-on, and how to create an honest depiction of who you are and what you want in a relationship. With Christine's help, we also explore the importance of liking your partner beyond mere chemistry and how to foster meaningful conversations about differences.

How do you date when you are either painfully shy or just introverted?  This episode focuses on the evolution of the self-help sub-genre that helps some men learn to better communicate in prospective romantic relationships.
My guest today is Dale Valor.  He is the author of The Inner Game, a professional dating coach and wing man, AND a former rapper.  Dale's style isn't for everyone - but that's exactly his point.  He wants to help these challenged men regain confidence to find success in the modern dating world.

Have you ever questioned the concept of 'the perfect partner'? In many ways, we are all searching for that ideal person to share our lives with. Yet, we seldom pause to consider how our preconceived notions about perfection could be hindering our dating journey. Get ready to redefine your perception of dating as we firmly dispel the myth of the 'perfect partner', with the help of Karen Haddigan, author of 'Secrets of Dating After 50'. 

We move beyond the usual dating advice to confront the real issues: age and financial differences in relationships, the influence of online dating, and how to navigate the inherent glitches that come with dating. Hear first-hand accounts from real people like Lila, who recounts her experiences dating someone with a different financial stability. Karen also shares her insights on how dating changes as we age, and the importance of maintaining an open mind and realistic expectations. 

To cap it all, we delve deep into the world of online dating and how it shapes our relationships. Karen shares her wisdom on making the most of dating after 50, comparing online and traditional dating methods, and the power of perseverance. We conclude with a reminder that differences are not necessarily deal-breakers. Embrace them as opportunities for growth and understanding. This episode is packed with laughs, candid discussions, and perhaps, the nudge you need to step into the world of dating with a fresh perspective. Tune in!