Being A Dad...On Purpose

Being A Dad...On Purpose

By Bobby BenavidesParentingKids & Family
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Being A Dad...On Purpose episodes

  • An Interview with Adam Cheeseman on Gun Violence and Supporting Our Teachers

    This episode I have a conversation with Adam Cheeseman, Superintendent for Doddridge County schools in West Virginia. We discuss trends in causes fro gun violence in schools, how school systems are addressing the issue, and how parents can be more supportive of our school staff. It does take a village and teachers are a part of that village. We need to care for everyone involved in the process of caring for our children. 

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    41 min
  • Leaving a Legacy of Character

    Quality character is essential when it comes to raising our children. We want our kids to grow up carrying our character not defending it. How are we treating others? How are we handling stress? How are we being honest? How are we treating the other parent? There's so much to consider, but if we are wise and work at it, we will have a character that our kids will carry at the end and they don't have to defend it.


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    Music: iEARN Fist (he's my cousin. Support his music)

    My Children's Book: Gregory's Big Move

    20 min
  • Gun Violence and Trauma: A Discussion with Ray Nelson

    This was an interview recorded on June 2nd. There has been some delays in getting this episode uploaded. It is still relevant and necessary.

    Gun violence is a major issue facing America. Our kids are learning how to hide from active shooters in schools, kids in the inner city are walking on different sides of the street to avoid altercations, and much more. Our children are victims even if they aren't near the shooter. They wonder if their school is next, their friend is next, or their family is next. It's traumatizing and unfair. So, how do we as parents address it? How do we bring comfort? How do we help them understand their value and the value they bring to others? 

    In this conversation, I am joined by Ray Nelson, Director of Outreach and Soul Care at The House D.C. in Washington, D.C. 

    This is a hard conversation, but necessary. I hope you can engage and listen to what is said. This is not political. This is just a focus on how to address the issue with our children and how to be a safe space. 


    MUSIC by iEarn FIST. Support indie music and check out his album. 

    Link to articles shared in the episode:

    Gun Violence Archive

    27 min
  • Saving For Education:A Conversation with Jim Uren-Financial Advisor

    In this current economic climate we want to be sure we are making wise decisions with our finances, especially when it comes to saving for our kid's education. Jim Uren, Financial Advisor for Phase 3 Advisory Services and Royal Alliance Services joins me to answer some questions about saving and specific funds to consider.


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    25 min
  • A Heavy Heart
    The tragedy in Uvalde,Texas is weighing heavy on this nation. It’s weighing heavy on my mind and heart. We cannot stay silent and sit back while things like this occur. As parents, dads, we have a responsibility to care for our kids. Those children were our children. My heart goes out to the families who will be looking at toys in the yard this Memorial Day weekend and not celebrating the way many other families will be. It’s hard and heavy. More conversations are coming.
    7 min
  • Alan Smyth Discussion on Human Trafficking and Authentic Masculinity

    On this episode I have a great discussion with Alan Smyth, Co-Author of Men! Fight For Me The Role of Authentic Masculinity in Ending Sexual Exploitation and Trafficking. We speak on the importance of standing up and fighting for those who need our voices. Dads have a role to play in speaking and standing up. 

    Alan shares the 4 pillars of "authentic" manhood:

    ○ Accepts responsibility; ○ Leads courageously; ○ Lives a life of service; ○ Understands who he is is more important than what he does.

    You can visit: fightforme.net and/or www.savinginnocence.org for more information.

    36 min
  • Rhythm Makers

    It is so good to be back! I am finally back into the rhythm of life! 

    In this episode I am talking about maintaining a healthy rhythm, and regaining a rhythm. 

    If you like what you hear, rate and subscribe! Leave a comment. I would love to connect!

    16 min

About Being A Dad...On Purpose

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This is a podcast for dads! Sure, there are way more podcasts out there for dads, but why not make another one, right?!