Being Chloe Barksdale

I will not mention any names, but the two words High Value, have been tossed around a lot lately. But, as we all know, everyone’s classification will never be the same. Some are deeply rooted in appearances and material. What determines as being valuable for each individual is quite subjective though honestly, many seem to believe their opinions, which we are all entitled to, are golden.

That being said, I’ve come up with 5 traits, I consider necessary, for a man to qualify as being High Value. 

They are his being consistent, considerate, a good communicator, showing sincere confidence and yes, I am saying it, he has his own.

Of course, there are so many other traits that can be named, but for this episode, we will begin with these five. Make sure to subscribe and share, and if you have anything you'd like to discuss, leave a message or send me a message on IG @iamchloebarksdale. 

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Cancel Culture is a "thing" often associated with a company, brand or even a celebrity. Usually something is found out or someone says something and suddenly like a raging wild fire, word spreads that it or them, needs to be......"cancelled"! Whatever it is needs to not be purchased because of the company is thought of a trash, or the well known person has said, done or supported something that causes them to be ousted from the "cool kids".

But one thing we don't seem to think about when it comes to being cancelled, is - Friendships and Relationships. Especially now with social media, there tends to be a labyrinth of entanglements, if you will, that once a relationship or friendship goes left - lines are drawn in the sand, and all too often, friends are stuck in the middle.  Then it comes down to, who gets who the same as who gets what, in a divorce.  And if you are still cool with them both, it turns into who gets invited to what? Who attends what for fear of one running into the other? Or, the biggest one - who can no longer come sit with us - the cool kids.

And then sometimes, friends don't have a choice in the matter because unbeknownst to them, one makes the decision for themselves, to CANCEL you without your even knowing it, or their reason why.

Nowadays, it's quite easy to separate sex from intimacy. For many, sex is simply a recreational activity used to exert energy. It gives off a quick high that is good for the few moments it takes place, but as soon as it is over, the memory of it does not linger on. 

However, true intimacy is a constantly changing fluid emotion that brings about anticipation in such a euphoric mass of energy, that you can feel the person's presence before, during, and after - often times before you even physically lay eyes on them or touch. It leaves you with a yearning for more - well let me say that it leaves me with a longing for more, long after we have parted ways. 

You can have sex with anyone but true intimacy is felt only when the mental and spirituals align. And this - this is my Random Thoughts of a Tainted Scorpion Mind - because it takes more than sex for you to TRULY get IN2ME(You)See! 

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