Getting comfortable with yourself and really knowing who you are, what you stand for and accepting you just the way you are can feel really uncomfortable if you are someone who has spent a long time of your life doubting yourself and your abilities. There comes a point in the healing journey where unlearning all the unhealthy  emotional habits you have picked up along the way will feel really uncomfortable, but if you can push through to the other side you will feel better, stronger and more wholesome.