What is the difference between being a good man and being good at being a man?

I scratch the surface on character traits and foundations that we are losing in todays coddled society. My old man sure did pass on important values and principles along the way. I also had to pick up a few more and learn from other men-tors that I'm constantly working on to being good at being a man. How will you show up? What are the missing ingredient's that moulds us into the men who we are today? What does strength, courage, honour and mastery mean to you?