when being selfish benefits everyone else & tea with your turkey — my first heartbreak and toxic relationship story

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things mentioned:

a little life - hanya yanagihara

the subtle art of not giving a f*ck podcast

01:44 - meeting you guys!!

03:15 - work (again) in 2025

04:52 - this book and this author..

07:07 - i'm asking you to be selfish08:35 - set your boundaries!!!

09:33 - being passive aggressive and talking sh*t

12:58 - tell people what you NEED

17:10 - what happens when you aren't selfish (break up story)

21:31 - the vulnerable i've ever been in my life

30:15 - why you need to pursue your passions and do what you love

34:47 - why being selfish is good