Being You

You pick up your phone without ever deciding to. You put it down, and a few minutes later it's back in your hand. None of it feels like a big deal. It's just how the day goes.

But add those minutes up over years, and a harder question shows up: is the way I'm spending my life actually moving me toward why I'm here?

In this episode of Being You, Shayne sits down with his son Luke, back behind the mic, for an unscripted conversation about distraction, convenience, and passion, and what happens when all three collide.

Shayne has always taught that a distraction is an opportunity. It's just not yours. Luke pushes on that and adds something to it: the small timesync that look harmless and quietly take whatever is left. A job that isn't yours to do all day. An escape from it all evening. And before you know it, you're asking what your life has become.

“Convenience kills the desire for achievement”. This stopped Shayne in his tracks.

In this conversation:

• Why a distraction is an opportunity, just not yours
• What makes a real opportunity?
• The difference between escaping and legitimately stepping back to reflect and heal
• What Luke found when he took the apps off his phone
• Why the longer you stay in what isn't yours to do, the more you need to escape it
• The stress that drains you and the tension that strengthens you
• How we've built an artificial version of nearly every human experience, and settled for close enough
• Why the right opportunities call for all of you
• Luke's take on AI (it may ruffle a few feathers)

Fulfilling your purpose draws you toward the things that give you life. It puts you where you're doing the right thing, for the right reason, with the right people, at the right time.

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Ever feel like you're being pulled in a bunch of different directions, each one calling to a different part of you? Like you've got your job, your family, that cool hobby you're obsessed with, and you also want to make the world a better place—all at the same time?

Well, in this episode, "Do We Have More Than One Purpose?", we're going to chat about whether life is really about finding your true purpose that guides everything. Instead of having multiple purposes, maybe we have one main purpose, but a ton of different opportunities and specific callings that we're given along the way to help us live it out.

So, ditch the idea that you have to pick just one thing! We're going to explore how your career, your relationships, your creative urges, and how you help others can all be awesome ways you express that one central purpose. Tune in and let's figure out how to navigate all those exciting opportunities while staying true to your purpose!

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Feeling adrift or struggling with your mental well-being? Discover the powerful connection between living a life filled with purpose and experiencing better mental health. Welcome to "The Purpose Effect"!

Host, Shayne Wyler dives deep into how identifying and actively fulfilling your unique purpose can be a game-changer for your mental and emotional state. Learn why knowing your purpose doesn't just feel good – it actively contributes to lower stress levels, increased resilience against challenges, reduced feelings of anxiety and depression, and overall greater life satisfaction.

Shayne shares:

• What "Purpose" Really Means
• The Science-Backed Benefits: How purpose impacts your brain and mental health.
• Actionable Steps: Practical tips to help you clarify your purpose today.
• Real-Life Inspiration: Understanding how others have found meaning and transformed their well-being by knowing their purpose.

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All of us face a battle every day. A battle to be either who we really are or who we think we should be. The decisions we make can lead us towards living out the dream we are meant to live, or into a nightmare for us and everyone else. These decisions have real impact. These decisions shape our lives, our families, companies, communities and countries. It is so important to get clear on why you’re here and know the battle you’re in so that you can choose the dream and avoid the nightmare each and every time you step out to serve.

Join Shayne Wyler, as he shares from The Purpose Framework™ and transform all you need to fulfill your purpose.

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All of us have been taught the lie that marriage is a compromise. But marriage is not a compromise. When two people bring their true selves into the marriage, each authentic, yet together in purpose, they are able to have an intimate, beautiful and profound relationship.

How do you do that? Shayne and Shelley Wyler share how to live a life of purpose together and thrive in your marriage.

In this conversation, they:

1. Define Purpose and how it works in marriage
2. Define marriage
3. Define what gets in the way of marriage
4. Share some tools that have helped them avoid getting stuck in the 'MeWe' Trap just surviving.

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What is the dream you’ve been given and how does it help you fulfill your purpose so that you can serve everywhere you are called to serve? Let’s dig in to understand exactly what a dream is, what your dream is, what it can do for you and those you serve and how it can help you measure your success with anyone you are serving.

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No doubt about it, sales are hard. But they don't have to be. Sales become hard when we make them a game. Sales are not a game. When we make sales a game we lose, and the other person loses that we are trying to help. Join Shayne Wyler as he explores how sales are an incredible gift we've been given to be able to help serve each other and get real needs met.

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Many of us struggle simply because we have fallen for the traps of leadership. Join Shayne Wyler, creator of The Purpose Framework™ as he unpacks the traps of leadership and how to avoid them once and for all as you fulfill your purpose everywhere you are being called to serve at home, work, in your community and beyond.

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Are you lost? If we are honest, all of us are lost somewhere. Join Shayne Wyler, creator of the Purpose Framework™, as he unpacks how to get found and fulfill your purpose, heading in the right direction everywhere you go

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At the core of being you is understanding your purpose. Your purpose is why you're here, not what you do. Join Shayne Wyler, creator of the Purpose Framework™, as he shows you how to clarify your purpose and transform your life.

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Fulfill your purpose. Get the frameworks at servant.tools