As a person who loves to make others feel good and comfortable in my presence, choosing me is not a common choice. Although I love to love others and I am happy to be the way that I am(very considerate), there is a downfall at times. Sometimes, when I don't choose me, I am allowing my boundaries to be crossed, I am allowing disrespect, and I am hurting my growth. So I decided that it was time to choose me and although its a shock to my nervous system and my empathy, it is also empowering and fulfilling. Cheers to a selfish year!