Belonging Together

This episode features Do For One relationships Sarah & Ivy, Ben & Devon, Cindy & Maegan.

Narrated and produced by Andrew Oliver 

When reflecting on the parable of the Good Samaritan, we invite you to both imagine yourself in the shoes of the samaritan who sees the wounded person and responds, we also invite you to see yourself in the shoes of the wounded person receiving the help. In other words, in relationships across societal barriers, we recognize that we need each other.

Do For One was adapted from a well-established practice called Citizen Advocacy. In 1966, an academic researcher named Dr. Wolf Wolfensberger attended a national conference on protective services for the handicapped. It was there he became aware of how impersonal, rigid and limited the current system of human services was. Parents asked, "What happens to my handicapped child when I'm gone?"

Moved by these needs, Dr. Wolfensberger conceived of Citizen Advocacy, a community based human services organization, and establishing the first office in Lincoln, Nebraska in 1970. In years since, offices have been created in Canada, Australia, New Zealand and elsewhere in the United States.

Tom Doody worked with Dr. Wolfensberger and was inspired to start a Citizen Advocacy program over 30 years ago. We invited Tom to spend a day with our leaders and staff late last year to share his experiences leading North Quabin Citizen Advocacy. 

Written, Narrated, and Produced by Andrew Oliver.

Devon Ray Hillary is the author his autobiography titled, “Life Experiences with Autism and Mild Intellectual Disability.” He has his Bachelor’s Degree in Music at Nyack College. He plays the piano, organ, and keyboard. Featured in this episode is Devon Ray Hillary himself playing piano and organ from his YouTube Channel. 

Mentioned in this Episode: Three ideas. Three Contradictions. Or not 

Written, Narrated, and Produced by Andrew Oliver.

In this episode you'll hear from Alexa, Jane, and Lenny as they share stories of transformation through relationships. As promised, see below for the words of Lenny's poem and Jean Vanier book recommendations. 

Do For One was invited to take part in an event hosted by Agora and Redeemer West Side titled, “Turning Toward Love.” It was a conversation between Amy Julia Becker and Andy Crouch. 

It was a conversation that invites us to respond to privilege with generosity, humility, and hope, and opens us up to questions we are afraid to ask, so that we can walk further from fear and closer to love, in all its fragile and mysterious possibilities.  

People Run 100 Miles & Everywhere They Can To Be in a Relationship With Anybody They Want To Be With & Share Their Love With.

New York City can be such a drag. In my group home, people go to programs during the day and don’t hang out with friends that much. 

I don’t know if many people feel that way, being lonely. Do you feel that way? Like you’re stuck on an island?

Relationships Need To Settle The Score Without Hate Inside Your Own Skin & It Only Takes Two People Or A Few People To Confess & Be Truthful.

I have been such a wonderful guy who is always looking for ways to come across and meet new people.

When I met Jesse, it was at the Do For One party and was the middle of Fall, before Halloween. We just talked about different things that we liked…Pokémon, rollercoasters, pizza and so on. He works at Columbia University. We share a lot of laughs.

On my birthday, we went to Harlem Tavern and I ate a hamburger and french fries and that was so good.

I remember when we played Super Mario Party with his roommates Kyle and Conner and his girlfriend Sarabeth (she sucks at video games). That was really fun!

When  I think of my friendship with Jesse, words I think of are wonderful, laughable, and togetherness. We kinda stick together like glue. 

I’m excited to see the Pokémon movie together.

Relationships Are An Everlasting Love & It Lasts Forever from Sundown Until The Break Of Dawn.

People Need To Come Together As A Family, Find Peace & Work Together So They Can Bring Justice Around The World. What would justice look like in New York City, or in my home? What do you think?

"The Key would not fit in one of these doors. Why? Because that was the key that took me out of Willowbrook." - Jerry

What was the real "key" that got Jerry out of Willowbrook? This episode offers us a lesson on the power of social roles when facing the many negative perceptions of disability. Our friend Jerry shares his story.  

Credits: 

Written, Narrated, and Produced by Andrew Oliver.

Email: [email protected] 

Guest voices include Nicki and Jerry Robinson

Mentioned in this episode: https://wolfwolfensberger.com/

Music: 

https://www.ottobotte.co/

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Visit www.DoForOne.org/belongingtogether for more info. 

De-institutionalization is underway as Tony and Jack continue their journey, making a better way of living possible for us all. 

Credits: 

Written, Narrated, and Produced by Andrew Oliver.

Email: [email protected] 

Guest voices include Jack Callaghan, Tony Brooks, Willie Mae Goodman, Ali Oliver, and Carol Oliver. 

Contact Jack: [email protected]

Visit www.DoForOne.org/belongingtogether for more info. 

Tony is separated from his family and placed in Willowbrook State School, one of the world's largest Mental Institutions. Jack meets Tony and through friendship, they find hope. 

Credits: 

Written, Narrated, and Produced by Andrew Oliver.

Email: [email protected] 

Guest voices include Jack Callaghan, Tony Brooks, Willie Mae Goodman, and Ali Oliver. 

Contact Jack: [email protected]

Visit DoForOne.org/belongingtogether for more info. 

A podcast about disability and relationship-building. It's an orientation to Do For One's work, guided by stories. 

Show notes: 

Written, produced, and narrated by Andrew Oliver. In this trailer you hear the voice of Devon Ray Hillary. 

www.DoForOne.org/belongingtogether