He had saved up a BUNCH of money for his daughter's wedding. She ended up eloping, so he used the money to buy a car and go on a vacation. She's upset and wanted the money instead to go to help her and her new husband buy a house. Is he the jerk here?
https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/mhgoq5/aita_for_spending_my_daughters_wedding_fund_on_a/