“Bend”ing Rules

“Bend”ing Rules

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“Bend”ing Rules episodes

  • BENDing Rules -- Today we break down the last 4-5 guest and look for patterns on what they had to share. Further, answer work-life-balance questions, like are entreps more happy than non-entreps?
    Intro: While it's great to have so many interviews with entrepreneurs, Eric and I thought it might be good to look back and summarize the last 4-5 guest on the podcast. Where do we see patterns? What's unique to each personality and/or journey? We are calling the "break-out" session and hope to do some of this reflecting/summarizing from time-to-time.
    2:00 -- Who should be included in the definition of an entrepreneur?
    4:17 -- Main takeaways from previous interviews
    11:16 -- Patterns and traits of successful entrepreneurs
    23:01 -- Why optimism matters
    31:52 -- Are entrepreneurs more happy that non-entrepreneurs (employees), generally speaking?
    36:25 -- A downside to entrepreneurship
    43:51 -- Balance of optimism vs rationality
    52:51 -- Role of craziness for entrepreneurs
    Next week: join guest and co-host, Chris Capdevila, who was a guest the other week, and, the gentlemen that sold his company to Oracle, as we dialogue with Ian Olsen, co-founder of a large restaurant chain, that was ultimately financed by Blackrock, a PE firm. Learn about his journey, as well as what he's up to now.
    Eric is off rafting for the week!
    1 hr 9 min
  • Bending Rules -- Entrepreneur Chris Capdevila joins to discuss his journey immigrating from Argentina to U.S. and then to the founding of a company that was later acquired by Oracle

    Chris Capdevila joins and shares his upbringing and journey into entrepreneurship and ultimate founding of a company that was acquired by Oracle. I felt like we only scratched the surface with Chris, and look forward to having him join another time.


    4:06 -- Role of failure


    8:56 -- Role of risk taking, what drove Chris to take a risk and start a company


    13:14 -- How upbringing & experience shaped Chris' mindset


    23:12 -- Foreshadowing the need for a solution and getting in front of the problem


    33:19 -- What happens when growth stalls? Finding new "pain" points in a customer's journey. How necessary is a "pain" point to success?


    46:42 -- Passion, experience & an all-in attitude


    50:22 -- Building strong customer relationships. Chris' Superpower?


    53:34 -- Value of domain expertise


    107:10 -- Chris' top traits for success


    It's a wrap. Join us next time to learn how an entrepreneur grew a nationwide restaurant chain, and his eventual decision to take on private equity investment.


    1 hr 11 min
  • "Bend"ing Rules -- Joined by John Kelly, former business owner, real estate investor, and world traveler shares his journey - lesson's learned

    Entrepreneur John Kelly joins Pete & Eric to share his path to financial independence and perspectives on running a small business, selling it, transitioning careers. In this casual conversation, I walked away with some nuggets of information that the younger me/entrepreneur would have benefited from -- one in particular was understanding the "motive" of everyone involved in a transaction and/or business deal. Had I had the mindset earlier, I would have avoided some pitfall. Enjoy.


    2:00 -- Is a "chip" on the shoulder necessary. Last week Bayard Fox shared that it was "not." I wanted to start out and test this assumption with our guest, John.


    8:40 -- Drive to work for oneself.


    22:!7 -- Develop a criteria of six (6) data points to invest in RE projects.


    28:17 --- Navigating cultural differences in business transactions.


    44:14 -- Power of risk-taking


    55:32 -- Embracing "change" for success. Likewise, some top book recommendations - Millionaire Next Door and The Alchemist.


    Join us May 8th, where guest, entrepreneur, Chris Capdevilla share his story of building and selling a company to Oracle

    1 hr 24 min
  • "Bend"ing Rules -- Bayard Fox owner of Cement Elegance joins Pete & Eric

    Intro: Bayard Fox owner of Cement Elegance joins Pete Ozolin & Eric Staley to talk about his entrepreneurial journey and the characteristics he fell back on to build a successful manufacturing company. Great story of perseverance.


    3:30 -- Role of "fear" in being an entrepreneur


    11:36 -- Business Partners, how an early failure with a business partner shaped his future decisions and success


    21:00 -- The story of risk, getting that initial client, etc.


    38:34 -- Story of Cement Elegance, buying a business with a potential for high margins in the middle of a recession (2008). Oh, and working for free.


    48:15 -- Perseverance and work ethic, Bayard's key traits for success.


    1:11 -- Role of a parent as a role model in journey and work, life balance and how it's important to delay gratification and keep financing your business until you are really confident that you have crossed the chasm to success.



    1 hr 22 min
  • "Bend"ing Rules -- Eric & Pete are joined by Jeff Megy, lifelong entrepreneur and owner of two real estate development companies employing 100s+.

    2:22 -- Jeff shares lessons in RE and buying first house for $28,000 on seller contract and how from there he built a successful real estate development firm. We couldn't possibly cover everything in an hour to encapsulate Jeff's 30+ real estate development career, but Jeff imparts several insights to help any entrepreneur making the proverbial leap of faith.


    7:38 -- Role of mentors and inflection points.


    10:26 -- The importance of an inquisitive mind.


    25:22 -- Family dynamics and impact on entrepreneurial journey.


    41:31 -- Importance of Mastery.


    46:09 -- Power of contracts in real estate.


    57:43 -- Impatience and inquisitiveness; two key entrepreneurial traits.


    1:08 -- Power of delayed gratification and success.



    1 hr 19 min
  • Bending Rules -- Entrepreneurs Pete & Eric talk about strategies to finance and importance of "seed" capital and various options to attain

    Probably one of the most difficult aspects of starting a company is financing, and depending on your options and choices will make or break your success. Pete & Eric took very different approaches to "seed" capital. In this episode they will explore the various trade-offs in doing so.


    2:00 -- Seed Capital Intro; value of $$, pitfalls, trade-offs with debt and equity. We'll open with Eric's story and how he build on his initial investment decision.


    7:08 -- Role of leverage and risk tolerance


    25:03 -- Challenge of raising seed capital. Why it's so difficult and what you can do to overcome hurdles.


    30:13 -- Importance of personal investment. How much is enough?


    40:34 -- Passion and bringing in outside investment


    57:35 -- Challenge of "self-assurance"


    1:05 -- Reflecting on past decisions, what would we change (from financing perspective)?


    1:19 -- Value of money in contributing to "joy" in life -- limitations, etc.

    1 hr 36 min
  • Eric S and Pete O, entrepreneurs sharing insights on burn-out, balance, the importance of having a "chip" on one's shoulder, etc.



    1:00: Discussion of David Goggins - Navy Seal, Ultra Runner. Extreme accomplishments and what can

    we learn? What to emulate, if anything?


    4:21: When does "balance" become a part of the

    entrepreneurial journey?


    7:06: The drive to prove something. How big should the

    "chip" on your shoulder be?


    25:25: Pattern Recognition and Burn-out


    38:59: When starting a company is like getting up behind

    a slow water ski-boat on one ski — It's going to happen, but you are likely to suffer along the way.


    45:02: Drive for financial freedom vs. being purpose

    driven and passionate. What's more important early on?


    NEXT WEEK: financing your business -- the trade-offs to

    "seed" capital, debt, etc. Also, looking back, "are there any
    short-cuts could have taken?"

     


    1 hr 4 min
  • BENDing Rules -- Eric Staley, Successful Real-Estate Entrepreneur Joins As Co-Host; We share our stories of how we found success and the choices and traits that were necessary for that to happen

    Eric and I have know each other for almost two decades, what started out as friendship built around our passion of "playing volleyball," transcended into discussions about our business interest (only about 10-15 years later) and life. While we both have achieved financial independence, we did so in different fields and careers. I have been talking with Eric about being a co-host on this podcast because in many ways his success represents the American Dream, which both of us believe is still attainable, however it is you define this dream.


    Eric and I decided to continue our bi-monthly cups of coffee in this podcast format. As we transition to a co-host effort, we are collaborating on including other guest and re-branding to better represent our collective mission. More on this later...


    Below is what Eric and I covered today. I have highlighted in bold, some of the key takeaways.


    2:14: How did Eric choose real estate as a career


    6:00: Importance of money


    10:35: Risk Tolerance and Confidence


    17:06: Seeing a few steps ahead


    30:09: Fear of being trapped in a career


    33:14: Importance of hating to fail


    38:04: Recovering from failure and how to start over


    42:59: Importance of frugality


    48:15: Changing dreams and priorities


    49:47: We each share 3 Traits for success (initiative, relentless....

    1 hr 14 min
  • LRM (Left Right Middle) -- Independent Voter Growth, Increasing taxes on the top 1%, NCAA proposal to pay athletes, Ivy Leagues and free speech

    037: The growing demographic of independent voters; prevailing trends


    7:16: Show we be taxing the top 1% more?

    - 13:30: 1% holdings by asses class (RE, Stocks, etc.)


    22:45: Republican Primary Debate (quick takes)


    27:16: Weekly All-In Dig


    30:01: NCAA considers paying athletes


    34:07: Ivy League an not so "free" speech


    40:52: Small Business: Top Challenges in 2023


    45:22: Economy and obscure facts

    49 min

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It is difficult to choose the entrepreneurial and risk-taking path. I made that decision, and after a lot of mistakes, I eventually found a balanced life that resulted in more time with family,…