Besties Unfiltered

It’s my birthday week, besties 🥳 and you know what that means…time to get a little unfiltered.

In this episode, I’m reflecting on another trip around the sun - what I’ve learned, what I’m still figuring out, and why getting older feels weirdly beautiful and completely exhausting at the same time.

So grab your coffee or cozy blanket, and let’s have a little birthday heart-to-heart!! 💛

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Okay besties… you ever make a plan, feel so proud of yourself, and then life is like “lol nope”? Same. This week we’re chatting all about what happens when plans don’t go as planned - because honestly, it happens way more than any of us admit.

I’m spilling some real stories (hello, kids getting sick, chronic illness flare ups, and military life throwing curveballs), plus sharing how I try to pivot without totally losing my mind. We’ll talk about why “perfect planning” is kind of a scam, how to scale back when things go sideways, and little ways to make peace with Plan B (or Plan Z).

If your week felt nothing like your planner, pull up a chair — you are in very good company here.

And hey, I’d love to hear your best Plan B stories. DM me on Instagram @ms.elizabeth.gillie and maybe I’ll share a few in a future episode.

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Welcome to the very first Hypes & Gripes episode of Besties Unfiltered!

In this fun, chatty catch - up, I’m sharing the things I’m absolutely hyped about right now - from my current favorite lip combo and a new skincare routine to my reading goal progress and unexpected reality TV obsessions.

And of course, the gripes: Mormon influencers making general conference feel like an ad campaign, the exhausting political climate, and Target’s sneaky price tag situation.

This one feels like a cozy voice note from your bestie—full of unfiltered favorites, flops, and a little venting.

Let’s make this a series! Send me your Hypes & Gripes so I can share them in a future episode.

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Do you ever highlight a quote in a book and then… never look at it again? Same, bestie. In this episode, I’m sharing how I mark up my books in a way that actually helps me remember what I read. From simple tools and little symbols to quick reflection rituals, I’ll walk you through my book-nerdy system. And because chronic illness and brain fog are part of my world, I’m also spilling how I keep annotation gentle and doable when energy is low.

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Annotating products: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3D7ZMLHL52TJE?ref_=wl_share

Back-to-school season is here, and with it comes the chaos, fresh starts, and all the emotions. In this episode of Besties Unfiltered, Liz shares simple resets for home routines, tips for carving out time as a mom, and a gentle pep talk for letting go of “perfect.”

Links you may need:

Moms Demand Action - https://momsdemandaction.org/about/chapters/

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Links you may need:

CES Letter - https://cesletter.org/

Podcast Amy mentions (Mormon Stories) - https://www.mormonstories.org/

Free mom hugs website - https://freemomhugs.org/

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Episode Summary:

In part two of this heartfelt episode, Liz and Amy delve into the transformative power of empathy and the importance of community building. Through personal stories and candid conversations, they explore how understanding and supporting one another can lead to profound personal growth and stronger connections. Join them as they share insights on navigating life's challenges with compassion and the impact of creating inclusive spaces where everyone feels valued and heard. Tune in for an inspiring discussion that underscores the beauty of coming together to uplift and empower each other.

Join Amy and Liz as they chat about the ups and downs of dealing with cultural and religious expectations. Amy opens up about her life in a Mormon family, sharing stories about trying to fit in, finding her own style, and the journey to self-acceptance. It's a candid conversation about modesty, being true to yourself, and how growing up with certain beliefs shapes who you are. Grab your favorite drink treat (Liz loves a latte and Amy goes for Dr. Pepper) and tune in for some real talk!

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• Sister/Brother – A title used to address other members of the church (e.g., Sister Jones, Brother Smith). It reflects a sense of spiritual family.
• The Church – Shorthand for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS). Members usually just say “the Church,” assuming everyone knows which one they mean.
• Stake – A regional group of congregations (wards). Think of it like a “diocese” in Catholicism.
• Seminary – A daily religious class for high school students, often held early in the morning before school.
• Ward – A local congregation of the church, usually organized by geographic boundaries.
• Go to the temple – Attending a Mormon temple (different from regular church buildings) to participate in sacred ordinances, such as marriages, baptisms for the dead, and endowment ceremonies.
• Bishopric – The bishop (local lay leader of a ward) and his two counselors who help oversee the congregation.
• Stake President – The lay leader in charge of a stake (a collection of wards). Comparable to a regional pastor.
• Relief Society – The women’s organization of the church, focused on service, teaching, and community.
• Temple Recommend – A wallet-sized card that members must have to enter the temple. To get it, they go through worthiness interviews about belief, obedience, and lifestyle.
• Garment – Special religious underwear worn by temple-endowed members as a reminder of covenants they’ve made.
• Bishop’s Council - A meeting of local leadership to discuss the needs of the ward members

In this episode of Besties Unfiltered, Liz Gillie shares her journey of using AI to craft a personalized workout plan that accommodates her unique health conditions. Discover how ChatGPT has become an integral part of her fitness routine, offering tailored exercise strategies that prioritize safety and adaptability. Whether you're navigating chronic illness or seeking a sustainable fitness approach, Liz's insights on leveraging AI for health support are both inspiring and practical. Tune in to learn how technology can help you find the right plan for your body and lifestyle.

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ChatGPT Prompt:

You are an experienced, empathetic and results-driven obesity management coach with expertise in exercise physiology. You approach combines scientific knowledge with compassionate support.

Instructions:

- Begin by gathering essential information. Current health status and weight goals, lifestyle constraints, support systems and potential barriers

- Provide personalized recommendations focusing on appropriate exercise routines, stress management techniques, and sleep optimization.

- Maintain a non-judgement, body-neutral approach

- Focus on overall health improvement rather than just numbers

- Avoid promoting anything extreme or crash diets

In this episode of Besties Unfiltered, we're talking makeup and skincare for when you're tired, busy or maybe all of the above! I'll break down what products I'm using and why I'm loving them! My routine is linked below.

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Liz Morning Routine:

• Quick rinse of water. I don't cleanse unless there's somehow leftover makeup from the night before
• A couple drops of Eminence facial recovery oil
• A drop of OTP F83 Vitamin C Serum
• A drop of OTP F86 Hyaluronic Acid
• Loreal Paris Glow lotion

Liz Evening Skincare Routine:

• Emenince Stonecrop Cleansing Oil
• Emenince Manoi Anti-aging Cleanser
• Eminence Facial Recover Oil
• A couple drops of OTP F82 Green Retinol Elixir
• A drop of OTP F86 Hylauronic Acid
• OTP F08 Cell Active Face Cream

Liz Makeup Routine:

• Revision tinted sunscreen or Olive Rose tinted serum
• Currently test driving a k-beauty foundation stick with spf 50
• Milani baked blush in pink dolche or luminoso
• Loreal telescopic mascara in brown-black
• Loreal Lumi Highlighter (glass)
• Maybelline Lifter Lipgloss
• Seint eyeshadow brush & Seint Blush+Bronzer brush to apply everything

Extras I love:

• OTP F76 Honey Enzyme Mask
• Eminence Stonecrop Mask
• OTP F85 Acne SOS Drops (I use it on myself and my pre-teen)
• OTP F75 Lip Balm (great for gift giving too)

Links Galore!!

Eminence Skincare: https://emstore.com/collections/eminence-organic-skin-care

Olive Tree People products I use: https://kyrstiegillie.olivetreepeople.shop/cart/55090360

Olive Tree People Skincare quiz: https://us.olivetreepeople.com/pages/olive-brain-regime?referral=kyrstiegillie

Olive Rose Skin Tint: https://us.olivetreepeople.com/collections/olive-rose?referral=kyrstiegillie

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Join Liz as she candidly shares the highs and lows of July, from navigating healthcare challenges and dealing with heat intolerance to celebrating tiny wins like family trips and personal discoveries. This episode is a raw and honest reflection on life's complexities, offering listeners a space to connect and reflect on their own journeys. Tune in for real talk, relatable struggles, and the beauty of small victories.

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