MARRIAGE CONFERENCE“Real Communication”Proverbs 18:20-21 NKJV. “A man's stomach shall be satisfied from the fruit of his mouth; From the produce of his lips he shall be filled. (21) “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit.”James 3:5-6 NKJV. “Even so the tongue is a little member and boasts great things. See how great a forest a little fire kindles! 6 And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity. The tongue is so set among our members that it defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire by hell.”THERE ARE 2 KINDS OF COMMUNICATIONCorrupt Communication and Edifying CommunicationEphesian 4:29 NKJV. “Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.”CORRUPT COMMUNICATIONFour Things That Will Harden A Relationship1. Lying corrupts communication.Ephesians 4:25 NKJV. “Therefore, putting away lying, "Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor," for we are members of one another.”2. Anger corrupts communication.Ephesians NKJV “Be angry, and do not sin": do not let the sun go down on your wrath, 27 nor give place to the devil.”3. Bitterness corrupts communication.Ephesians 4:31 NKJV. “Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice.”4. Arguing corrupts communication.Ephesians 4:31 NKJV. “Put all clamoring away from you.”"EDIFYING COMMUNICATION"Four Areas of Edifying Communication1. Speak with grace.Colossians 4:6 NKJV“ Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.”2. Be kind to one another.Ephesians 4:32 NKJV. “And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another,even as God in Christ forgave you.”3. Be tenderhearted to each other.Ephesians 4:32 NKJV “And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.”4. Forgiving one another.Ephesians 4:32 NKJV “And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.”