Culture tells us sex should be spontaneous, boundary-less, and consequence-free—but what does God's Word actually say?

Continuing our series through the Book of Proverbs, Pastor Steve Musto unpacks Proverbs Chapter 7 to examine the contrast between Biblical wisdom and worldly distraction. Discover why God created boundaries for intimacy—not to withhold joy, but to protect us—and how the grace and forgiveness found in Jesus Christ offer healing for every past story.

Whether you are single, married, a long-time believer, or still exploring faith, tune in for a fresh, grounded look at relationships, culture, and biblical truth.

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Note: This episode includes discussion on adult themes and sexuality. Listener discretion is advised when tuning in with younger ears.

This week, we unpack the sensitive, essential themes found in Proverbs 7. Moving past taboos and rigid culture conversations, the team explores how Scripture addresses human sexuality, the contrasting voices of wisdom and folly, and the real-world impact of "purity culture."

How can parents and mentors prepare the next generation to navigate today’s rapidly changing cultural landscape? Where do grace and redemption intersect with our past mistakes and current questions? Join the conversation as the team opens up about raising kids, breaking down barriers to honest dialogue, and finding a balanced, grace-filled approach to biblical wisdom.

In this episode, we explore:

• The distinction between personified wisdom and folly in the Book of Proverbs
• Re-evaluating the legacy of purity culture through a biblical lens of grace
• Practical ways to talk openly about faith and relationships with children and youth
• How Christians can engage in respectful, open-handed dialogue when perspectives differ

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True strength isn't about raw power, status, or size—often, God uses the small, ordinary, and overlooked things of the world to accomplish His greatest work.

In this message from the Under Construction series, Pastor Steve Musto explores Proverbs 30:24-28, where Agur highlights four tiny creatures that exhibit incredible wisdom. Paired with a reflection on 1 Corinthians 1:24-29, this sermon reveals how developing wise, Godly habits—rather than relying on human strength—allows us to truly thrive.

Key Takeaways & Highlights:
The Ant (Foresight & Planning): Learning to plan for lean times during seasons of abundance.

The Hyrax / Rock Badger (Safe Refuge): The wisdom of positioning yourself in spiritually safe environments where you are protected.

The Locust (Strength in Community): How operating in unity and surrounding yourself with community multiplies your impact.

The Lizard (Persistence): The power of showing up, staying tenacious, and refusing to give up through discouragement.

The weak don't thrive by simply trying to get stronger; they thrive by living wiser. Tune in to discover which habit God is calling you to build in your life today!

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Welcome to another episode of Beyond the Sermon! In this week's episode, we explore one of the most unique passages in scripture: Proverbs 30:24–28, where we find four tiny creatures that God highlights as examples of profound wisdom.

Beyond these four creatures, the conversation turns to the power of daily habits, navigating the weight of difficult family seasons, and how multigenerational living compares to biblical community.

Join us for an honest conversation on where true strength comes from, how to stay persistent when you want to give up, and what it means to anchor your life in God's safety.

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Our words carry immense power—they can build up or tear down, bring life or inflict lasting pain. But when our speech turns sharp, critical, or destructive, is it really just a "mouth problem," or is it pointing to something deeper happening under the hood?

In this message from the Under Construction sermon series, Pastor Steve Musto explores what the Book of Proverbs teaches about wise speech and how our words reveal the true condition of our hearts. Featuring a powerful personal testimony from Pastor Dan Cravillion on how Christ transforms our speech from the inside out, this sermon unpacks Proverbs 10:11 and Matthew 12:34 to offer practical biblical wisdom for transforming the way we communicate.

Whether you want to heal relationships, strengthen your marriage, or align your speech with God’s wisdom, tune in for insights on lasting heart change!

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Words have the power to breathe life or inflict lasting wounds. In this episode of "Beyond the Sermon", hosts Tami DeLeeuw, Cathy Musto, and Steve Musto dive into Proverbs 10:11 to examine the deep impact our words have on our relationships, our mindsets, and our spiritual walk.

In this episode, the team explores:

The Weight of Words: Why do certain comments—both positive and negative—stay imprinted on our souls for decades?

"Punches That Land": How to process unexpected criticism, identify root hurts, and discern when a comment holds a grain of truth versus when it’s just destructive.

Boundaries & Discernment: What does biblical wisdom look like when dealing with people who consistently speak hurtful or toxic words?

The Power of Consumption: How the media, culture, and environments we surround ourselves with directly shape the language that flows out of us.

Rehearsing Truth: How to stop replaying old hurts on loop and intentionally fill your mind with God's truth.

Join us for a candid, encouraging conversation on taming the tongue, setting healthy boundaries, and learning to speak words of life!

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What does God think about your Monday-to-Friday job? Whether you are an accountant, mechanic, teacher, stay-at-home parent, or executive, your daily labor carries far more spiritual purpose than simply earning a paycheck or building a resume.

In this message from the Under Construction sermon series, Chase  dives into Proverbs 13:4 to examine our "theology of work" and how our view of labor shapes our daily satisfaction and spiritual growth. This message challenges the cultural myths surrounding work and points us back to God's original blueprint for human flourishing.

Key Takeaways:
The 3 Work Mindsets: Why viewing your job solely as a means to wealth, identity, or legacy eventually leads to burnout or futility.

Made to Cultivate: How being created in the image of God defines our calling to partner with Him in stewarding the world.

Excellence Over Perfectionism: Why God cares about quality craftsmanship in everyday "secular" jobs just as much as full-time ministry.

3 Ways to Reframe Your Work: Practical steps to reframe your daily tasks, work from grace rather than for approval, and honor God through true rest.

Stop dreading Monday morning—tune in to learn how your everyday labor can become a act of worship and purpose!

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Whether you view your job as a pathway to security, a source of personal identity, or a way to build a legacy, human motivations are rarely entirely pure. The team wrestles with the complex relationship between faith and the workplace, exploring how to navigate the common pitfalls of ego, performance-driven mindsets, and the ever-present trap of perfectionism.

In this insightful and bittersweet episode of Beyond the Sermon, the team continues the Under Construction series by shifting the blueprint from compassion to our everyday labor. Drawing from Proverbs 3:27-30, the discussion unpacks the deeply rooted motives behind why we work and how our daily grind impacts our spiritual health.

Key themes explored in this episode:

The Lenses of Labor: Are you working for the paycheck, for personal worth, or to build a legacy?

Image-Bearing in the Marketplace: What it truly means to reflect God's character through our daily tasks.

The Trap of Perfectionism: How the pressure to always "get it right" can subtly shift our trust away from God and onto our own performance.

A Bittersweet Milestone: The team reflects on ministry transitions and shares a heartfelt farewell to Pastor David Baxley in his final episode on the podcast.

Discover how to look at your calendar, your career, and your daily tasks through a heart-check that resets your perspective on worldly success versus kingdom purpose.

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Are we choosing convenience over compassion?

In this message from the Under Construction series, we dive into Proverbs 3:27-30 to confront a challenging truth: when it is in our power to do good, waiting isn’t neutral—it’s a choice. We often scan Scripture looking for loopholes, trying to define exactly who "deserves" our time, money, or grace, but God's Word completely flips our self-justifications on their head.

Through an honest look at our natural instinct to protect ourselves from the costs of loving others, this message challenges us to examine the small, quiet compromises we make every day.

Key themes in this sermon:

The Escalation of Compromise: How small, seemingly insignificant acts of withholding good can slowly erode our integrity and lead to active harm.

Redefining the Neighbor: Moving past our cultural, comfortable boundaries to embrace Jesus’s radical definition of community and proximity.

Overcoming the "Worthiness" Audit: Why managing outcomes and judging who is deserving of our help gets in the way of true, Christ-like compassion.

Ultimately, God doesn’t ask us to determine who is worthy of our compassion; He asks us to remember who showed us compassion first. Tune in to discover what it means to step into the gap and live out a faith that refuses to hold back.

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Dive deeper into the tension of living out true biblical compassion and generosity in this episode of Beyond the Sermon.

Following up on last week’s look at the prayer of Agur in Proverbs 30 regarding financial extremes and contentment, this discussion tackles the challenging commands found in Proverbs 3:27-30. Hosts Cathy Musto, Steve Musto, and Tylor Fisher wrestle with why true compassion feels so incredibly difficult to live out in a modern, consumer-driven culture that constantly values self preservation over community.

We unpack the reality that biblical generosity isn't just about writing a check to clear a guilty conscience.  How do you know when someones need is yours to answer, and how do you move past the paralyzing fear of being taken advantage of? Discover what it looks like to surrender the results of your obedience to God, move past a transactional mindset, and uncover genuine joy through the radical risk of loving others well.

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