Since the beginning threats of God’s wrath have been used to instill fear in others. Fear allows those in power to control others and further solidify their power. When religion abuses this fear it takes away our ability to explore, search, ask questions, grow, and become what God actually intends for us. Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount encourages his followers to ask God and seek out the good things of life together. Bad parents use fear to control their children and maintain their own power, good parents encourage kids to explore, to ask questions, to take risks so that they can grow into their best versions of themselves. God, Jesus says, is so much better than a good parent. As we celebrate with the youth affirming the promises of their Baptism in the Confirmation Service on Sunday, Pastor Chad reminds us that faith formation at Bethlehem is not about using fear to get kids to adhere to rigid set of rules & expectations or scoring points on a test but rather it is about living out Jesus’ call to seek and ask and knock knowing that with God, the ultimate parent, we can find and receive and enter.