Better 2gether with Dennis and Loni C.

In this podcast episode, we discuss stonewalling in relationships, a concept identified by renowned relationship researcher John Gottman. Stonewalling occurs when one partner withdraws, shuts down, or avoids communication during conflict. We examine the impact of emotional flooding, the role of the "Four Horsemen," and evidence-based techniques for healthier conflict resolution and stronger relationships.Topics covered:What stonewalling isSigns of emotional withdrawalWhy people shut down during conflictEmotional flooding and stress responsesGottman's Four HorsemenHealthy alternatives to stonewallingTips for improving communication in relationships#Relationships #Communication #JohnGottman #Stonewalling #ConflictResolution #Marriage #MentalHealth #CouplesTherapy #Podcast #relationshipadvice#podcast #couples #marriageadvice #marriageadviceformen #marriageadviceformen#ytviral #ytshorts #ytviral#viral #viralvideos #hottopic Subscribe for biblical marriage advice, relationship coaching, and real conversations that help couples stay and grow together.Looking for pre-marital or post-marital counseling? We’re SYMBIS-trained and Prepare/Enrich certified, here to support and strengthen your relationship.Schedule your **FREE 30-minute consultation** today:https://calendly.com/bettertwo2getherSUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEWYoutube Channel: /  @better2getherwithdennisandloni  🍏 Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-2gether-with-dennis-and-loni-c/id1493411834🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1zzD6SK2z2ShNGq8Mlz5dn?si=947eac039b2a44c5FOLLOW BETTER2GETHER WITH DENNIS AND LONI C📸 Instagram: / better2gether with dennis and loni c📘 Facebook: / Dennis and Loni Crawford

Why do we become defensive when we feel criticized, misunderstood, or hurt? In this episode, we explore Dr. John Gottman’s research on defensiveness and how it impacts communication in marriage, family, and everyday relationships. Through a Christian perspective, we discuss how fear, pride, and insecurity can keep us from truly hearing one another and how God calls us to respond with humility, patience, and grace.Together, we’ll talk about practical ways to lower defensiveness, improve communication, and create healthier conversations rooted in love and respect. We’ll also reflect on biblical principles such as being “quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry,” while learning how confession, forgiveness, and empathy can strengthen relationships.Whether you are married, dating, leading a family, or simply trying to grow emotionally and spiritually, this episode offers encouragement and practical tools to help you communicate with wisdom, peace, and Christ-centered love.If you’re struggling in your marriage or want to strengthen your relationship before problems grow, this episode is for you.👉 Subscribe for biblical marriage advice, relationship coaching, and real conversations that help couples stay and grow together.Looking for pre-marital or post-marital counseling? We’re SYMBIS-trained and Prepare/Enrich certified, here to support and strengthen your relationship.Schedule your **FREE 30-minute consultation** today:https://calendly.com/bettertwo2gether

Contempt in Marriage: The Point of No Return | Gottman’s Four Horsemen Explained #relationshipgoals #marriage #gottman #podcast #contempt What is contempt in a relationship, and how does it destroy marriages? In this episode, we break down how contempt—identified by Dr. John Gottman as the most dangerous of the Four Horsemen—can become the true point of no return.Contempt in marriage goes beyond frustration or anger. It shows up as sarcasm, disrespect, eye-rolling, and emotional disconnect. Over time, these behaviors erode trust, kill intimacy, and create deep resentment that can be hard—if not impossible—to repair.We also explore the full framework of the Four Horsemen: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling—and why contempt is considered the biggest predictor of divorce.In this episode, you’ll learn:What contempt in a relationship really looks likeThe early signs of contempt in marriageWhy contempt is the most toxic communication patternHow emotional disconnection develops over timeCan a relationship recover from contempt?If you’re dealing with marriage problems, communication breakdown, or emotional distance, this conversation offers real insight into what’s happening—and what it means for your relationship.💔 When contempt takes over, love doesn’t just fade… it’s replaced.

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On this episode of Better 2 Gether with Dennis and Loni, we dive into the real problems couples face and how Divorce Prevention Coaching provides biblical solutions that actually work.With over 25 years of marriage experience, we share wisdom, transparency, and practical tools to help couples overcome challenges and grow stronger together. We’re not perfect—but we are perfect for each other—and we’re here to help you build a healthier, God-centered relationship.In this episode, we address:Communication breakdown in marriageEmotional disconnection and distanceRepeating the same argumentsTrust issues and broken foundationsLack of intimacy and closenessFeeling stuck or losing hope in your relationshipIf you’re struggling in your marriage or want to strengthen your relationship before problems grow, this episode is for you.

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In this episode, we discuss one of the silent killers in marriage that many couples avoid talking about—issues like poor communication, pride, unforgiveness, and emotional distance that slowly weaken a relationship over time.We also talk about the spiritual side of marriage. God designed marriage to be built on unity and love, but the devil often tries to bring division between couples through misunderstanding, offense, temptation, and unresolved conflict.When couples keep God at the center through prayer, humility, and honest communication, they can recognize these attacks and protect their relationship. Unity becomes possible when both partners choose to stand together instead of allowing division to grow.Join us as we have an honest conversation about faith, marriage, and how to guard your relationship while keeping God at the center. 🎙️🎥 Watch the episode here:https://youtu.be/eZgo7c4-4II📅 New Episodes Every Other Tuesday at 6 PM CST👉 Subscribe to the channel so you never miss a conversation about faith, marriage, relationships, and growing together in God.Connect With Us:Subscribe here: https://youtube.com/@better2getherwithdennisandloni

In this episode, we share our journey through the waiting season of singleness and dating, and how God used that time to prepare us for something greater. Instead of seeing the waiting season as frustrating or discouraging, we began to understand that God was using that time to shape our character, strengthen our faith, and teach us important lessons about love, patience, and purpose.We talk about how trusting God during the waiting season helped us focus on personal growth, healing, and building a strong spiritual foundation before marriage. Through prayer, self-reflection, and learning to rely on God’s timing, we realized that this season was not a delay but a preparation for the relationship and future God has planned.If you are currently single, dating, or feeling like you’re in a waiting season, this episode is meant to encourage you. God often uses the waiting seasons in our lives to prepare us for the blessings ahead.Join us as we discuss faith, relationships, personal growth, and how allowing God to guide the process can transform a waiting season into a powerful preparation season.Your life doesn’t begin when you get married. God is working in your life right now.🎥 Watch the episode here:https://youtu.be/eZgo7c4-4II📅 New Episodes Every Other Tuesday at 6 PM CST👉 Subscribe to the channel so you never miss a conversation about faith, marriage, relationships, and growing together in God.Connect With Us:Subscribe here: https://youtube.com/@better2getherwithdennisandloni#ChristianSingles#GodsTiming#FaithAndRelationships#ChristianDating#Better2getherPodcast#TrustGod#SingleSeason

When Is It My Turn, God? | Special Singles Edition

Have you ever felt like you’re always the bridesmaid and never the bride? Many singles quietly wrestle with the question: “When will it be my turn, God?”

In this Special Singles Edition of Better2gether with Dennis and Loni, we have an honest and encouraging conversation about how to navigate a godly single life while waiting on God’s timing.

Singleness is not a road to loneliness. It is a season of growth, purpose, and preparation. While you are waiting, you are still moving forward, developing spiritually, and becoming the person God created you to be.

In this episode we discuss:

✨ Embracing your single season

✨ Growing spiritually while you wait

✨ Trusting God’s timing for relationships

✨ Living with purpose right now

Your life doesn’t begin when you get married. God is working in your life right now.

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When life feels chaotic — marriage struggles, loss, uncertainty — how do you stay Kingdom Calm?In this powerful faith-centered conversation, Dennis Crawford and Loni Crawford share biblical wisdom and practical encouragement for couples navigating difficult seasons. Discover how God’s presence brings peace in chaos, restores hope in hurting marriages, and strengthens your faith when everything feels uncertain.If your marriage feels distant, fragile, or under pressure… this message will remind you that God is still in control.▶ Watch now on Better 2gether with Dennis and Loni C👉 Subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss a new episodehttps://youtube.com/@better2getherwithdennisandloni?si=zhNXJTR8zQi5Ctxy💬 Share this with a couple who needs encouragement today.— — — — —🔎 Topics Covered:• Christian marriage encouragement• How to find peace in difficult times• Faith during trials and uncertainty• Strengthening your marriage through God• Hope for struggling couples• Kingdom mindset in chaos#KingdomMarriage #MarriageHope #Better2gether #FaithOverFear #MarriageSupport #christianmarriageadvice#motivationWe own the rights to the music.🎙 Listen to the podcast version here:▶ Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-2gether-with-dennis-and-loni-c/id1493411834▶ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1zzD6SK2z2ShNGq8Mlz5dn?si=130807e29a384cd5❤️ Support our mission to strengthen marriages:Donate via Venmo @Better2getherMarriageCoachingDonate via $Bettertwo2gether2🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode!#Better2gether #ChristianMarriage #GodlyLoveStory #MarriageMinistry #DennisAndLoniC

elcome to the Christmas Edition of Then and Now with Dennis and Loni C!We’re unwrapping Christmas nostalgia—90s toys, old-school cartoons, classic holiday food, and how everything has changed over the years. Whether you’re here for the memories, the laughs, or the Christmas spirit, this episode is packed with festive fun from start to finish.🎁 Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more seasonal throwbacks!🎄 Merry Christmas and happy holidays from Dennis and Loni C!#90sChristmas #ChristmasThenAndNow #DennisAndLoniC #ChristmasEdition #HolidaySpecial #Christmas2025 #Nostalgia #90sKids #ModernChristmas #HolidayTraditions #ChristmasMemories #FestiveSeason #ThrowbackChristmas🎙 Listen to the podcast version here:▶ Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-2gether-with-dennis-and-loni-c/id1493411834▶ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1zzD6SK2z2ShNGq8Mlz5dn?si=130807e29a384cd5❤️ Support our mission to strengthen marriages:Donate via Venmo @Better2getherMarriageCoachingDonate via $Bettertwo2gether2🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode!#Better2gether #ChristianMarriage #GodlyLoveStory #MarriageMinistryCheck out our merchhttps://sociatap.com/better2getherBooking us for speaking engagements [email protected] Hotline 988At the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, understand that life's challenges can sometimes be difficult. Whether you're facing mental health struggles, emotional distress, alcohol or drug use concerns, or just need someone to talk to, caring counselors are here for you. You are not alone.Call, text or chat at 988

This Thanksgiving, we’re turning our hearts back to the Lord, who is the source of every good gift. In this episode, we explore what it means to be grounded in gratitude through a biblical lens. Scripture reminds us to “give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:18), but how do we live that out when life feels overwhelming or uncertain? Join us as we reflect on the power of a thankful heart, share stories of God’s faithfulness, and uncover how gratitude anchors us in His peace and presence. Whether you’re gathered around a table or spending quiet time in reflection, this episode will help you realign your heart with God’s truth and cultivate a spirit of thankfulness that lasts beyond the holiday season.🎙 Listen to the podcast version here:▶ Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-2gether-with-dennis-and-loni-c/id1493411834▶ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1zzD6SK2z2ShNGq8Mlz5dn?si=130807e29a384cd5❤️ Support our mission to strengthen marriages:Donate via Venmo @Better2getherMarriageCoachingDonate via $Bettertwo2gether2🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode!#Better2gether #ChristianMarriage #GodlyLoveStory #MarriageMinistry