Better Leader Growth Podcast

Let’s face it—working in the tech world is like running a marathon, only the finish line keeps moving. You’re constantly chasing the next release, the next milestone, the next big innovation. 

But here's something we often overlook: not all tiredness is created equal. You might think you’re just physically drained, but the truth is, there are many types of fatigue, each with its own causes and effects.

In this episode, we'll dive into the different kinds of fatigue, so you can pinpoint exactly what's wearing you down. Understanding this will help you take the right steps to recharge, stay resilient, and continue leading your team to success.

Marion Bertoli helps leaders in tech leverage their self awareness into an impactful leadership style and lead with confidence.

• For VIP step-by-step support, apply for Marion's VIP Leadership Coaching Breakthrough Program here and she'll be in touch to invite you for a discovery call.
• Or if you're stuck on your leadership communication for feedback, grab a Give Masterful Feedback Session with Marion here.

Ever find yourself wondering, "What do I really want?" It's not uncommon to feel uncertain about our goals, let alone how to achieve them. In a world full of distractions and external pressures, getting crystal clear on what truly matters to us—and why—can be a daunting task. 

But here's the good news: clarity is not just for the lucky few; it's something you can cultivate with the right approach.

In this episode, I'm going to share a process that will help you define your goals, understand what's holding you back, and create a step-by-step plan to achieve them. By the end, you'll be ready to tackle your ambitions with confidence and purpose.

Marion Bertoli helps leaders in tech leverage their self awareness into an impactful leadership style and lead with confidence.

• For VIP step-by-step support, apply for Marion's VIP Leadership Coaching Breakthrough Program here and she'll be in touch to invite you for a discovery call.
• Or if you're stuck on your leadership communication for feedback, grab a Give Masterful Feedback Session with Marion here.

So, let's get personal for a moment.

🗣️ How do you feel about your own voice? Really think about it.

If you're anything like me, there have been times when listening to a recording of yourself made you squirm a bit. But here's the thing: as a leader, your voice isn't just something you use—it’s something that defines you. 

It's not about whether you have the perfect radio voice; it's about how you use what you've got to connect, influence, and lead with confidence.

Your voice is more than just sound waves; it's the gateway to your "sympathy score" and your "confidence score." It’s not just about the words you choose but how those words are delivered. 

Let’s explore why your voice is more important in leadership than you might have realized.

Marion Bertoli helps leaders in tech leverage their self awareness into an impactful leadership style and lead with confidence.

• For VIP step-by-step support, apply for Marion's VIP Leadership Coaching Breakthrough Program here and she'll be in touch to invite you for a discovery call.
• Or if you're stuck on your leadership communication for feedback, grab a Give Masterful Feedback Session with Marion here.

Have you ever hesitated to set boundaries because you were afraid it would make you look "not so nice"?

Maybe you've worried that asserting yourself might make people see you as harsh, unapproachable, or even unlikable. If that sounds familiar, you're not alone.

Many leaders, especially in the fast-paced world of tech, find themselves stuck in the niceness trap—believing that to be liked, they have to be agreeable, accommodating, and, above all, nice. 

But here’s the thing: Being nice doesn't mean being a doormat. In fact, true leadership often requires the opposite. Let's dig into the world of Niceness...

Marion Bertoli helps leaders in tech leverage their self awareness into an impactful leadership style and lead with confidence.

• For VIP step-by-step support, apply for Marion's VIP Leadership Coaching Breakthrough Program here and she'll be in touch to invite you for a discovery call.
• Or if you're stuck on your leadership communication for feedback, grab a Give Masterful Feedback Session with Marion here.

Retrospectives—ever heard of them? In the tech and agile world, they might just be the most underrated tool in your leadership toolkit. 

And yet, they’re often overlooked. Trust me, once you start using retrospectives, you’ll wonder how you ever managed without them. Whether you’re leading a team of developers or just trying to keep your home life in order, retrospectives can help you grow, learn, and, most importantly, avoid repeating the same mistakes over and over again. 

Let’s dive into why retrospectives are so powerful and how you can start using them today.

Marion Bertoli helps leaders in tech leverage their self awareness into an impactful leadership style and lead with confidence.

• For VIP step-by-step support, apply for Marion's VIP Leadership Coaching Breakthrough Program here and she'll be in touch to invite you for a discovery call.
• Or if you're stuck on your leadership communication for feedback, grab a Give Masterful Feedback Session with Marion here.

At 26, I thought I had life all figured out. I had plans, dreams, and a bit of arrogance about what the next decade would bring. 

Now, at 36, I realize how much I didn’t know—and how much I’ve learned since then. If I could sit down with my 26-year-old self, this is what I’d tell her. And this is what I believe could serve all Leaders in Tech.

Marion Bertoli helps leaders in tech leverage their self awareness into an impactful leadership style and lead with confidence.

• For VIP step-by-step support, apply for Marion's VIP Leadership Coaching Breakthrough Program here and she'll be in touch to invite you for a discovery call.
• Or if you're stuck on your leadership communication for feedback, grab a Give Masterful Feedback Session with Marion here.

In this article, I’ll share what productive procrastination is all about, why we all fall into its trap now and then, and some tips to break free from it and actually focus on what really matters.

Marion Bertoli helps leaders in tech leverage their self awareness into an impactful leadership style and lead with confidence.

• For VIP step-by-step support, apply for Marion's VIP Leadership Coaching Breakthrough Program here and she'll be in touch to invite you for a discovery call.
• Or if you're stuck on your leadership communication for feedback, grab a Give Masterful Feedback Session with Marion here.

Today, let's dive into why defining and living by your own values is a game-changer for real success and fulfillment—especially if you’re a leader in tech.

💡 What you will learn:
1. The Trap of External Validation
2. Why Defining Your Values is a Game-Changer
3. The Conflict of Competing Values
4. How to Define Your Core Values: A Practical Guide

Marion Bertoli helps leaders in tech leverage their self awareness into an impactful leadership style and lead with confidence.

• For VIP step-by-step support, apply for Marion's VIP Leadership Coaching Breakthrough Program here and she'll be in touch to invite you for a discovery call.
• Or if you're stuck on your leadership communication for feedback, grab a Give Masterful Feedback Session with Marion here.

Ready to smash that mosquito of doubt? 🦟💥

That nagging belief you don’t deserve your success. 😰

Here’s the kicker: It’s NOT a permanent condition. And you can smash Imposter Syndrome thoughts pattern buzzing around in circle…

So, if you’ve ever thought:

- “I got this position by luck.”
- “If anyone finds out how little I know, I’ll be exposed.”
- “I don’t belong here.”

these thoughts are just that—thoughts. Not facts. 
You’re not alone. Even the most successful leaders face these doubts.

In today’s episode of Better Leader Growth, discover how to:

- Recognize and challenge these invasive thoughts.
- Transform your self-doubt into unshakable confidence.
- Break the cycle of hiding and avoiding opportunities with growth mindset.

Marion Bertoli helps leaders in tech leverage their self awareness into an impactful leadership style and lead with confidence.

• For VIP step-by-step support, apply for Marion's VIP Leadership Coaching Breakthrough Program here and she'll be in touch to invite you for a discovery call.
• Or if you're stuck on your leadership communication for feedback, grab a Give Masterful Feedback Session with Marion here.

Perfectionism is a trap. It’s pure inaction in a fancy gift wrap 🎁

Perfectionist, raise your hand if you plead guilty. My hand is high right now, even if not as high as what it used to be.

The Illusion of Perfection:

Perfectionism is an illusion created by your Ego -that little but powerful voice in your head, trying to protect you from criticism and rejection. It’s what you think you can achieve with your skillset without considering realistic timeframes.

Let’s dig deeper into the vices of perfectionism. Find the full transcript of this episode and more resources on betterleadergrowth.io/12

Marion Bertoli helps leaders in tech leverage their self awareness into an impactful leadership style and lead with confidence.

• For VIP step-by-step support, apply for Marion's VIP Leadership Coaching Breakthrough Program here and she'll be in touch to invite you for a discovery call.
• Or if you're stuck on your leadership communication for feedback, grab a Give Masterful Feedback Session with Marion here.