Can you lead a family if you occasionally blow up? Would your partner stick around if you tore a tendon and couldn’t walk? And is “for better or worse” really unconditional… or just marketing?In this jam-packed Better Than Perfect episode John and Nicole tackle the minefield of leadership under stress, gender-split loyalty stats, and whether divorce courts are fundamentally unfair. Expect blunt takes, real injury stories, and a debate guaranteed to split the room 50/50.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Why John says “If I yell, I’ve failed” — the leadership-temper dilemma2:00 – Spartan Race carnage: pushing through pain or proving nothing?6:00 – Living with the injury: daily tasks, ego hits, and hidden resentment10:25 – “In sickness and in health” stats: do men bolt more than women?14:00 – Conditional vs unconditional love: where each partner draws the line18:30 – Non-negotiables in marriage: attraction, effort, and respect24:00 – Leading while wounded: should vulnerability ever show?30:50 – Money, power, and attraction loops no one admits37:58 – Divorce court fairness: stacked deck or mindset myth?41:30 – Action plan: frameworks for crisis leadership & relationship growth47:36 – Rapid-fire takeaways + next week’s teaser👇 Links & Resources• Podcast site: https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly deep dives on love, polarity, and personal growth—where no opinion is off-limits.

In this episode of Better Than Perfect, John and Nicole dive into the controversial topic of fitness in relationships. Should you expect your partner to stay in shape? What if one person lets themselves go? And how does physical health impact attraction, intimacy, and long-term connection?

💥 From lifting together to the deeper psychological reasons couples struggle with fitness, we get brutally honest about what it takes to grow stronger — in body and in love.

⏱️ Timestamps (approximate):

0:00 – Why fitness is a relationship issue

2:15 – The unspoken expectation to stay attractive

5:50 – What happens when one partner gives up

9:30 – Supporting each other without nagging

12:00 – Do couples who train together stay together?

15:45 – John’s journey after surgery & staying competitive

18:20 – Nicole’s take on feminine fitness and body image

22:00 – How resentment grows when effort dies

👇 Links & Resources:

• Podcast Website: https://betterthanperfectpod.com

• Instagram: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast

• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7

• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324

🔔 Subscribe for weekly deep dives on love, sex, polarity, and personal growth in modern relationships.

Welcome to the Better Than Perfect podcast! In this episode, we dive into the hilarious and eye-opening question: Why do men seem dumb and women seem crazy? Discover the real reasons behind these stereotypes—singular focus vs. multitasking madness—and how understanding them can transform your relationship. From prenups to the "Crazy Hot Matrix," we’ve got insights, personal stories, and practical advice for couples, singles, and anyone looking to decode the opposite sex.

⏰ Timestamps00:00 - Introduction: Meet the hosts and get a taste of what’s to come.02:25 - Prenups & Marriage: Are they a smart move or a relationship red flag?08:00 - The Dumb and Crazy Scale: Our daughter’s theory that sparks a big revelation.15:00 - Masculine vs. Feminine Thinking: Singular focus vs. diffuse focus explained.30:00 - Real-Life Stories: How these dynamics play out in our relationship.45:00 - Conclusion: Key takeaways and a call to action.💡 Highlights"Men are dumb because they’re singularly focused, and women are crazy because they think about ten things at once!""If you’re not ready to burn the boats, don’t get married."Unpacking the "Crazy Hot Matrix": Why hotter women might seem crazier (and what it means).Whether you’re married, dating, or just curious, this episode offers a fresh perspective on why men and women tick differently—and how to use that knowledge for a stronger, happier connection.📧 Got a question? Email us at [email protected]—our inbox is lonely!

👍 Love this? Hit subscribe, leave a review, and share with someone who needs to hear it!#Relationships #MarriageAdvice #MenVsWomen #Prenups #BetterThanPerfect

Welcome to the Better Than Perfect podcast! In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the transformative power of forgiveness. Discover why true forgiveness means letting go of past hurts—not just for others, but for your own peace and growth. We unpack the struggles of holding onto resentment, share personal stories of overcoming pain in our relationship, and reveal the three essential components of a genuine apology. Whether you’re wrestling with bitterness or seeking stronger connections, this episode offers practical wisdom and emotional insights to help you move forward.⏰ Timestamps00:00 - Introduction: A quirky chat about protecting our 5-lb dog from birds of prey.03:00 - What Is Forgiveness?: Exploring the real meaning of forgiving and letting go.10:00 - Why We Cling to Hurt: Why people struggle to release resentment.15:00 - Our Story: How forgiveness saved our relationship at a breaking point.35:00 - The Art of Apology: Learn the three keys to apologizing the right way.55:00 - Final Thoughts: Why forgiveness breaks cycles and sets you free.💡 Highlights"True forgiveness is acting as if it never happened—it’s letting go of the debt.""Holding onto hurt validates your pain, but it doesn’t heal you.""If you don’t forgive, you’ll become the thing you despise."This episode is perfect for anyone looking to heal from past wounds, grow personally, or mend relationships. From funny dog tales to deep life lessons, we blend humor and honesty to show how forgiveness and accountability can change everything.📧 Questions or stories? Email us at [email protected]—we’d love to connect!👍 Inspired? Hit subscribe, leave a review, and share this with someone who needs it!#Forgiveness #Relationships #PersonalGrowth #LettingGo #BetterThanPerfect

In this compelling episode of the Better Than Perfect podcast, hosts dive deep into the Netflix series Adolescence, exploring its portrayal of the dangerous influence of red pill and manosphere ideologies on young boys. Sparked by a Matthew Hussey video and complemented by insights from a Diary of a CEO podcast episode, the discussion unravels the societal shifts contributing to hopelessness and violence among young men. From the feminization of society to the loss of masculine role models, this episode tackles the urgent need for healthy masculine spaces and empathy to combat toxic narratives. Spoiler alert for Adolescence—listen to understand the cultural zeitgeist and how we can foster resilience and hope in the next generation.Timestamps:00:00 - 02:00: Introduction to the Better Than Perfect podcast and the episode’s focus on Adolescence.02:00 - 08:00: Overview of Adolescence—a Netflix show about a 13-year-old boy’s crime and its ties to red pill content (spoilers included).08:00 - 15:00: Discussion on the manosphere’s influence on young boys, drawing parallels to obsessive online behaviors and the dangers of hopelessness.15:00 - 25:00: Exploration of the red pill movement’s origins, its initial intent, and how it has been twisted into a toxic, misogynistic narrative.25:00 - 35:00: Analysis of societal feminization and its impact on men, including the loss of masculine outlets like sports and Boy Scouts.35:00 - 45:00: The role of parenting and the need for positive male role models, especially in single-mother households.45:00 - 55:00: Reflections on historical solutions to male frustration (e.g., wars) and the modern need for empathy and hope.55:00 - 65:00: Critique of double standards in society (e.g., female-only job postings) and the importance of male-only spaces.65:00 - 75:00: Call to action for creating healthy masculine environments and fostering growth mindsets in men and boys.75:00 - End: Wrap-up, encouraging listeners to watch Adolescence, check out the Diary of a CEO episode, and share feedback via email or comments.Watch Adolescence on Netflix and let us know your thoughts in the comments! Email us at [email protected] with questions or feedback, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review.

Are men and women doomed to misunderstand each other forever? In this eye-opening episode of the Better Than Perfect podcast, hosts John and Nicole dive deep into The Queen's Code by  @AlisonArmstrongVideos —a game-changing book that uncovers why men and women think so differently and how to turn conflict into connection. From the surprising truth about men’s singular focus vs. women’s diffused awareness to practical tips like asking for help the right way, this episode is packed with insights to transform your relationship. Discover how to stop emasculating your partner, bring out his inner hero, and build a love that’s better than perfect. Plus, hear real-life examples, heartfelt stories, and a fresh perspective on appreciating the opposite sex. Don’t miss this must-listen discussion—hit play now and unlock the secrets to a happier, healthier relationship! Subscribe for more weekly wisdom. #RelationshipAdvice #TheQueensCode #MenVsWomen #BetterThanPerfect

In this episode, we talk about one of the top books all men should read. The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.

Would you happen if an attractive woman messaged your husband or boyfriend and tried to get him to engage her? Would he do it? The truth is MOST men would fail this kind of loyalty test. But why? Is this acceptable? What can be done about it?

In today's confused world, it's very difficult to be a young man trying to find his way. Especially if you are looking for a modern traditional relationship like we advocate. In this episode, we break down exactly what a man should do to end up happily ever after.

One of the most important, if not the most important parts, of a relationship is the power to heal. When you have a modern traditional relationship dynamic, the result is a deep healing of the masculine and feminine core.Jon and Sabrina Broderick join us again to talk about how their relationship healed and is continuing to heal them.