You thought that the grass was greener on the other side, and you learned that it was turf and now you regret it.  You realize that you were soul mates and no one is measuring up, so you have to go back and get them.  In this episode, Mo and Dree discuss the pros and cons and ensuring that you're not making the same mistake twice.

In this episode we talk about being guarded, and how that impacts relationships.

When it comes to loving relationships we all have certains wants and needs.  The expectatioins that we sometimes set, however, may be too high and unattainable for others, which can leave everyone frustrated.

There are times when we meet a potential mate who may be flat-down on their luck, unemployed, underemployed or have complicated domestic issues.  Although they may be fun, a great listener, and an all-around nice person, it may be difficult to assess how they'll add value to your life, and if this is only a "moment" in their life or a disguised "norm."

Constant hurt, disappointment and "heart pain," will eventually lead to bitterness which is a sure way to prevent moving into a new relationship.  In this episode we're talking about how to spot bitterness in yourself and someone else, and we're also going to give you the ten commandmanents on how to move past bitterness.

Woman are no longer staying home and baking apple pies while wearing pearls.  Whether forced by society to take the lead roles or by choice, sometimes loving an alpha woman can cause difficulities in a relationship.  In this episode we're discussing the benefits and pitfalls of being an alpha female and how men really feel about a woman who may be too strong.

Let's face it.  We now live in a society where "situationships" are encouraged, glorified, and the temptress to those who are in relationships.  However situationships, which include all of the benefits without the commitment, are often dangerous and end in casualty.

The term "rebound dating" can be traced back to the 1830's when Mary Russell Milford wrote, "nothing so easy as catching a heart on the rebound." By the time we reach 35, we have been hurt or disappointed more times by love than we want to remember which often makes us skeptical, scared or sometimes too eager for the next relationship.  Unfortunately, when we do this we do not allow ourselves time to heal properly which will impact how we date, the mate we choose and how we move forward in our marriages.  During this episode, Dree and Mo discuss the dangers of rebounding before healing, how to forgive yourself and reflecting on the times when someone had to forgive us.

Dating, especially after 35 can be difficult for many reasons, including inflexibility, being in different places financially, adapting to "new school" dating, and overall falling into a space of complacency.  During this week's episode, Mo and Dree discuss the benefits and challenges of dating, what makes a man ask for a second date, and why a woman will allow your call to go to voicemail after date number one.