Alex had a 56-hour labor, a planned home birth that ended in a hospital transfer, and a son born with an infection in his lungs who was immediately rushed to the NICU. She was at home pumping around the clock, receiving contradictory information from lactation consultants, and ready to quit breastfeeding entirely — until one lactation consultant drove 90 minutes to her house and changed everything. Her husband Ian, a tech builder with zero background in women’s health, watched all of this and thought: I can fix this.
That’s how Milkwise was born.
In this episode of Between Meetings & Motherhood, host Alexa Starks sits down with Alex and Ian — the August cover feature of Mothered Magazine and the first husband and wife co-founder duo on the podcast — building MilkWise (milkwise.care), a comprehensive perinatal care platform that connects new moms with lactation consultants, doulas, pelvic floor specialists, postpartum mental health support, and more — all in one place, insurance handled.
In this episode:
* A 56-hour labor, a NICU baby, and the breastfeeding struggle that sparked a company
* Why 60% of breastfeeding moms quit in the first few weeks — and what’s actually behind that number
* Ian’s honest confession: “I thought you were being dramatic. Just stick him on there.” And how he changed
* How the industrialization of pregnancy eroded the village that used to surround every new mother
* What Milkwise actually does: one platform, longitudinal care, insurance managed, from lactation to postpartum mental health
* Why they shelved the company for a year after their son was born — and why that was the right call
* Building as a married couple: swim lanes, trust, and why Ian stepped into the CEO role while Alex runs marketing and family
* Alex on leaving Silicon Valley Bank to be more present at home — and the fear of being less valued without a title
* Why Ian’s decade as a single dad made him the only husband who truly understood the value of what Alex was doing at home
* The big vision: make the perinatal journey so supported, so loving, and so comprehensive that women want to get pregnant just to go through it
* Long term: a global digital avatar delivering the best of perinatal wisdom to women in every corner of the world for a dollar a month
Alex and Ian are the cover feature of the August issue of Mothered Magazine — read the full interview at motheredmagazine.com.
📲 Find MilkWise: milkwise.care and on Instagram @milkwisecare
🎙️ Between Meetings & Motherhood is hosted by Alexa Starks, founder of Mothered Media and editor-in-chief of Mothered Magazine — a podcast for ambitious moms building businesses and raising families at the same time.
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