Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends

This is a wild time and uncertain for so many--I share lots of my self care tips for weathering the storms of life. In 2008 I lost my job when the economy tanked. I embarked on a years long journey to become chill about uncertainty. I've been fumbling towards emotional maturity and stability ever since! 

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Find me on Instagram: Instagram.com/bevinsparty

Rick Sorkin's new EP: https://open.spotify.com/album/60fIFsWVT3TQHDmUB9OIKj?si=db16Ciy0SPWWO8ui6VPsYg

How can we maintain connections during a time of social isolation? How can we use this as an opportunity to boss up in our lives? Thoughts on the Corona virus and how I'm finding peace in this wild time.

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Sabine Maxine creates at the intersections of multiple identities--Queer, Black, LatinX, Indigenous, grew up poor and more. She'ts a Virgo boss babe whose latest creation has quickly become the Queer Met Ball--the annual Project Q fundraiser ball. Sabine runs A Tribe Called Queer, Queer Bazaar, Patty Wack Vintage, designs plus size clothing, and has pop-up events. In addition, with Project Q is maintaining a QPOC co-working space. In our conversation we talk about navigating grief, time expenditure as a community organizer, growing up on welfare, getting clean, entrepreneurial adventures and, poignantly, advice to a younger self. "Stop seeking validation and love from outside people."

Sabine on IG: https://www.instagram.com/atribecalledqueer/

https://www.instagram.com/project_q_/

https://www.instagram.com/queer_bazaar/

https://www.instagram.com/pattywackvintage/

https://www.instagram.com/hausofsabine/

A Tribe Called Queer: https://www.atribecalledqueer.com/

Project Q Support: https://www.projectq.me/support

Patty Wack Vintage: https://www.pattywackvintage.com/etsy-vintage-shop

Queer Bazaar: https://airtable.com/shrVKdWNSnlQzfwD4

It's been a year since my big Gay Divorce and I'm checking in. Episodes 1 & 2 of the podcast talk about the details of the split, this episode is about the healing. The Most Valuable Players (MVPs) in keeping me alive this year were a mix of people and healing modalities. I check in about life now and how I'm able to rise above my earthly circumstances (bank account balance mostly) and have a higher level of life satisfaction and peace than ever before.  

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Let's connect on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/

Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db

My friend Magaly (aka Mags) is a smart, thoughtful human from my Atlanta family. One of her girlfriends is my bestie Rachael (Episode 3) and I've had the distinct pleasure of being friends with Mags for a long time and getting to know Mags more one-on-one recently during Mags' time in Seattle. Mags attended the Naval Academy and served in the Navy during Don't Ask Don't Tell. At the time closeted, Mags eventually left that career because of the strain of living a lie. Mags further came out as polyamorous and is creating a beautiful life of their dreams with some pretty spectacular people. 

Magaly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/magalyesq/

Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/

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Vox article about Warren: https://www.vox.com/platform/amp/policy-and-politics/2020/1/15/21054083/elizabeth-warren-2020-democratic-primary

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Ashley Manta coined the term Cannasexual and has made her life and work teaching folks how to mindfully experience pleasure! Her second time on my podcast, she shares how yielding to Imposter Syndrome ruined a big moment for her, how to pick a therapist and how to have more pleasure with new sex partners. This episode is full of tools and tips for living a more pleasure-oriented life and allowing ease to flow.

She is a Certified Body Sex Instructor and we talk all about how that modality helps vulva owners unlock pleasure and more joy in their bodies than they've ever experienced. (More info on that with some visuals in Episode 3 of Goop Lab on Netflix!

Find Ashley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cannasexual/

Ashley's Website: http://www.cannasexual.com/

Ashley's podcast: https://www.elevatedintimacypodcast.com/

Ashley's online courses: https://www.elevatedintimacy.com/

Find Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/

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Tamale is a skydiving comedian setting out on the road in her tour van. With her signature red hair, eyeliner, all black everything, ruffles and sass, Tamale is unforgettable. Tamale shares how every break down comes a break through, finding peace after cheating and heartbreak. Homeless for a period of time, living out of a backpack on a motorcylce, she shares hard-won self compassion. Tamale's simple morning gratitude practice grounds her as she continues to make giant artistic leaps in pursuit of her purpose in this world. I'm soooo excited to share her with you! 

All the pics we referenced on the episode are on an instagram post with the same publishing date if you want to see them!

Tamale on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamalerocks/

Tamale's Patreon Membership: www.Patreon.com/TamaleRocks

Tamale's Website: https://www.tamalerocks.com/

Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/

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In person Reiki Clinic, Distance Sessions, Self Love Workshop: https://linktr.ee/bevin 

My body love journey has a spin-off! As I became accepting of my body, I found myself performing drag as a fat activist and not even knowing what that was. When I found the fat activist movement I took a full 180 into Riots Not Diets and had some pretty extreme, intense views. I also talk about the experience of getting really attracted to other fat bodies and finding it hard to have a mixed size relationship with my last, shorter/smaller partner. 

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Mama Sailene Osman is a co-founder of the Glowing Goddess Getaway, a Cannabis industry legend and author of a new CBD mocktail book. More than that she's someone who truly lives her spirit 24/7. Raised Seventh Day Adventist, she brought her parents unconditional love and hospitality into her life but left behind the dogma and religiosity. We talk about her decades of connection with cannabis, including going to jail for the plant with her delivery drivers. Loving people through entertaining, and the real spirit and connection the Glowing Goddess Getaway creates for a multi-generational sisterhood!

Sailene's book: https://amzn.to/2NTPXwg

Sailene on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theofficialsailene/

Sailene's website: https://www.sailene.com/

Glowing Goddess Getaway 2020 Schedule: https://www.glowinggoddessgetaway.com/calendar

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Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/

I recorded a body autobiography with pivotal moments in my body love journey. Drag King club performance, being bullied in elementary school. The President's Physical Fitness Test. Finding my gender, real life guardian angels. Naked group showers. Loving myself through body changes in weight and texture, anticipated future body love work. 

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Let's party! https://www.fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack

Wild Heart: https://youtu.be/S2rOh6dCwao

Bitch Music: https://bitchmusic.com/

Health Coach Vic: https://victoriaalbina.com/