This episode with Nilguin van Raad is one of my favourites.Ā
Be sure to check it out and let me know what you think š
A few quotes that stuck with me:
With pure intentions and zero judgement you can say anything
If things need to be said or done, you need to say or do them
Building a relationship can take time, but it can also be done in an instant
People act like the people around them
Rose of Leary
Getting out of the Box - The Arbinger Institute
Cross the line
The Trust EquationConnect with Nilguin van Raad:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/nilguin-van-raad
Full episode on YouTube ā¶ļø
https://youtu.be/HemtS77T9T0
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00:00:26 - First impressions
00:02:40 - Observe what happens
00:03:30 - Analysing root causes
00:05:53 - Trusting your intuition
00:08:32 - Pure intentions
00:09:12 - Leadership and feedback
00:11:12 - Moving without boundaries
00:13:06 - Difficult conversations
00:16:23 - Building relationships in an instant
00:18:58 - Conversation mismatch
00:21:30 - Choosing how to deal with life
00:24:40 - People that are grounded
00:25:51 - Patrick's hardships
00:28:34 - People act like the people around them
00:30:03 - Organisational systems and patterns
00:32:39 - Systemic change and cross the line
00:35:25 - Inclusion and forming a team
00:36:22 - Nilguin's experience with interventions
00:39:47 - The trust equation
00:41:28 - Leadership teams vs. leadership groups
00:44:36 - Goals derive from the strategy
00:46:49 - Rounding off - check out Nilguin van Raad