Dive into the often misunderstood world of military life with the Beyond the Yard Podcast, where hosts Geoff, Gage, and Eaz pull back the curtain on the realities of serving in the armed forces. Many civilians have misconceptions about what military life truly entails, and this episode sets the record straight with engaging anecdotes and candid discussions. If you've ever wondered about the truth behind military stereotypes, this episode is a must-listen.

Join Geoff, Gage, and Eaz as they tackle common myths, from the notion of laziness within the ranks to the emotional availability of service members. Gage shares insights on the harsh realities of equipment and environment, challenging the idea that military life is all about glory. Ease adds another layer, highlighting the emotional complexities that come with the job and how public perception often fails to capture the true character of those in uniform.

You'll discover why the concept of "hurry up and wait" is more than just a phrase, but a critical part of military training, and how it shapes the way service members handle pressure. The hosts delve into their personal experiences, revealing the adjustments they faced transitioning from civilian life to military discipline, including the surprising elements of camaraderie and support that often get overlooked.

This conversation is essential for anyone seeking to understand the sacrifices and challenges faced by the military community. Ignorance can lead to misconceptions that further alienate veterans and active-duty personnel from society. By listening, you gain a deeper appreciation for the lives led by these dedicated individuals and the lessons they bring back to civilian life.

Whether you're a veteran, a family member, or simply curious about military culture, this episode is packed with insights that will challenge your perspective. Tune in to hear the real stories and experiences that define military life, and become part of the conversation that bridges the gap between service members and civilians.

Dive into the often misunderstood world of military life with the Beyond the Yard Podcast, where hosts Geoff, Gage, and Eaz pull back the curtain on the realities of serving in the armed forces. Many civilians have misconceptions about what military life truly entails, and this episode sets the record straight with engaging anecdotes and candid discussions. If you've ever wondered about the truth behind military stereotypes, this episode is a must-listen.

Join Geoff, Gage, and Eaz as they tackle common myths, from the notion of laziness within the ranks to the emotional availability of service members. Gage shares insights on the harsh realities of equipment and environment, challenging the idea that military life is all about glory. Ease adds another layer, highlighting the emotional complexities that come with the job and how public perception often fails to capture the true character of those in uniform.

You'll discover why the concept of "hurry up and wait" is more than just a phrase, but a critical part of military training, and how it shapes the way service members handle pressure. The hosts delve into their personal experiences, revealing the adjustments they faced transitioning from civilian life to military discipline, including the surprising elements of camaraderie and support that often get overlooked.

This conversation is essential for anyone seeking to understand the sacrifices and challenges faced by the military community. Ignorance can lead to misconceptions that further alienate veterans and active-duty personnel from society. By listening, you gain a deeper appreciation for the lives led by these dedicated individuals and the lessons they bring back to civilian life.

Whether you're a veteran, a family member, or simply curious about military culture, this episode is packed with insights that will challenge your perspective. Tune in to hear the real stories and experiences that define military life, and become part of the conversation that bridges the gap between service members and civilians.

🚨 EPISODE 2 IS LIVE! 🚨

How fast can you answer military questions without overthinking them?

We put Naval Academy graduates and military officers through a rapid-fire challenge covering everything from:⚓ Worst military haircut😂 Most overused military phrase💪 Which branch is the most dramatic?🎖️ The most dangerous words you can hear in the Navy🤔 Would You Rather: Field Day every day or 0500 PT forever?🔥 And plenty of hot takes that military members will definitely argue about.

Some answers were expected...Some started debates.And a few might get us in trouble.

👇 Drop your answers in the comments:Which branch reminds everyone they served the most?

🎙️ Full Episode 2 available now.

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Have you ever felt the weight of being the "strong one" in your circle—the friend everyone leans on, the parent who’s always there, the leader who never falters? In this candid episode of Beyond the Yard, we dive deep into the emotional toll of being the dependable one. Discover why so many people find themselves in this role and the hidden costs associated with it.

Join Gage, Eaz, Geoff, and Darryl as they explore the complex dynamics that shape our relationships. Why do some individuals naturally become the go-to person in times of need? You’ll uncover:

- The psychological factors that drive people to take on the role of the strong one

- The difference between being a dependable friend and an emotionally isolated one

- How family dynamics influence our responsibilities and relationships

- Strategies to maintain balance while supporting others without losing yourself

- Real-life anecdotes that illustrate the challenges and victories of being the dependable one

As they share personal stories and reflections, the hosts reveal the broader implications of this role in our lives. It’s not just about being there for others; it's about recognizing your own needs and the importance of support in return. This episode is essential for anyone who has ever felt overwhelmed by the expectations of being the strong one.

Tune in for an enlightening discussion that will leave you questioning the nature of support and responsibility—perfect for parents, friends, and anyone navigating the complexities of relationships. You deserve to be supported just as much as you support others.

USNA Class of 2014 grad Kevin Deese shares the untold story of how an HIV diagnosis weeks before graduation nearly ended his Navy career — and how he fought all the way to the Pentagon to change DoD policy forever.

🎙️ ABOUT THIS EPISODE
What would you do if the Navy told you that you couldn't commission — four years into a Naval Academy education, weeks before graduation?
For USNA Class of 2014 graduate Kevin Deese, the answer was simple: fight. For ten years.
In this episode of Beyond the Yard — the podcast for U.S. Naval Academy alumni, midshipmen, and military community members — Kevin sits down with hosts Darryl, Gage Trotter, and Brandon "Eaz" Carter for a raw, unfiltered conversation about resilience, identity, service, and what it truly means to answer the call.

⚓ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

✅ What it was like being a gay midshipman at USNA during Don't Ask, Don't Tell
✅ How Kevin received an HIV diagnosis at Walter Reed just weeks before commissioning — and was told there was nothing he could do
✅ What graduation day looks like when your diploma folio only has one side filled
✅ How he navigated civilian life while never giving up on his Navy commission
✅ The step-by-step legal and bureaucratic battle — from exception-to-policy requests to a federal lawsuit naming him as lead plaintiff
✅ How a phone call the morning after the 2016 election changed everything
✅ Finally commissioning as a U.S. Navy Reserve officer in 2024 — 10 years later
✅ Why he may be the only person to have both graduated from USNA and completed Officer Development School (ODS)
✅ His current run for New York State Assembly (149th District) and why local government matters
✅ The 3 Naval Academy traits that carried him through: resilience, relationship-building, and being the man in the arena

🔗 FOLLOW KEVIN DEESE
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🎙️ ABOUT BEYOND THE YARD
Beyond the Yard is a podcast by Naval Academy graduates, for the entire Navy and military community. We go beyond the ranks, the rates, and the résumés to talk about real life — the wins, the failures, and everything in between. New episodes dropping soon.

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From Naval Academy Plebe to Pro Boxer: Stephanie Simon's Fearless Reinvention

She was told to be an officer. She chose to be a fighter — in every sense of the word.

In this episode of Beyond the Yard, we sit down with Stephanie Simon — USNA Class of 2017, former Marine Corps AAV officer, and now a professional boxer and entertainer building her name in Los Angeles. Steph opens up about her plebe year chaos at the Academy, how a boxing requirement turned into a full-blown career, and the moment she walked away from active duty to chase a dream most people are too afraid to name out loud.

We get into the double standard female officers face that enlisted Marines never see, the "Matrix" moment that made her stop caring what the Marine Corps thought of her, and why she believes fame and money don't fix what's broken inside. Steph breaks down her move to LA, training streamers and musicians alongside pro fighters, her advice on staying true to your identity when everyone around you is "winning," and her very real goal: becoming the biggest name in women's boxing.

Funny, raw, and honest — this is a conversation about rebuilding your identity outside of a uniform, chasing an unconventional dream, and refusing to shrink yourself to make other people comfortable.

Follow Stephanie Simon:
Instagram/TikTok: @StephSimonBoxing | YouTube: StephanieSimon123

#USNA #WomensBoxing #MarineCorps