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Ever mistaken red flags for carnival banners in a new relationship? This week on BI queeriosity, we dive deep into the intoxicating world of polyamory and New Relationship Energy (NRE). Hear a personal journey navigating intense emotions, escaping love bombing (twice!), and learning the difference between genuine affection and manipulation. Tune in for survival strategies and the crucial role of self-awareness in queer relationships.

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In this week’s episode of Bi Queeriosity, Dee and Ell sit down with kinky guest Buzz to explore queer connections and personal growth. Buzz opens up about her transformative journey from a marriage lacking intimacy to fully embracing the world of BDSM, non-monogamy, and sensory play. Discover how she experienced a sexual awakening and learned to embrace relationship anarchy. Tune in for insights on the importance of community and self-acceptance within the BDSM scene.

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Get ready for a spiritual rollercoaster in this week’s episode of Bi Queeriosity. Dee, a one-time aspiring nun and Ell a former atheist, share their personal, transformative journeys as queer Christians, inviting you to join their laughter-filled, reflective discussions. As part of the Societe Noir’s community, they create safe spaces for female and non-binary POC individuals.

Dive into thought-provoking conversations about the complexities of navigating queerness within Pentecostal circles. Discover the power of community and the challenges faced when ostracised for one's sexuality. Explore contradictions within religious teachings and the struggle against internalised heterosexism. Learn to embrace the intersection of faith and identity with love and acceptance.

Listen as they celebrate diverse expressions of faith, like the black male-presenting pastor leading a queer church and making waves at Pride. Delve into the life-changing experiences that occur when people are encouraged to embrace their full identities. Find inspiration to appreciate and love yourself as a perfect creation.

🌈 Oh, and guess what? Our very own Ell attended a House of Rainbow service! Curious? Check out this welcoming community where spirituality and queerness intertwine: https://www.houseofrainbow.org/

There are amazing resources out there. We've found these particularly helpful:

https://www.samaritans.org/

https://www.theproudtrust.org/young-people/faith-and-religion/lgbt-faith-groups/

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Empowering voices of colour, queer women, and non-binary individuals in the kink community, BIQUEERIOSIY is your guide to navigating BDSM relationships with confidence and consent. Hosted by Dee and Ell of Societe Noir, we delve into the complexities of dom-sub dynamics, explore healthy communication strategies, and offer practical advice for building relationships based on trust and mutual respect. Tune in to discover how to engage in kink responsibly and create a fulfilling experience for all.

We'd like to dedicate this episode to R.E.G x

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Dee and Ell, the co-founders of Societe Noir, dive into the often-awkward world of queer flirting in "Bi Queeriosity Ep 14." They explore the struggles of identifying flirting cues, particularly as women, and the challenges of initiating contact. Dee shares her laser-focused, direct approach, while Ell grapples with body confidence issues and past experiences that have hindered her ability to flirt. They dissect common flirting signals, from eye contact to compliments, and offer practical advice on being intentional, confident, and unafraid of rejection. Get ready for frank discussion and hilarious moments as they uncover the secrets to successful queer flirting!

This podcast was produced by Matt

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As Black bisexual women, ELL and DEE know firsthand the double-edged sword of bi erasure and biphobia. In this episode, they dive deep into their lived experiences, confronting the societal norms and misrepresentations that have challenged their identities, with examples of representation like the television series "The L Word". They tackle common myths surrounding bisexuality (like "it's just the male gaze" or that bisexuality doesn’t exist), discussing the mental health impact of these falsehoods. This powerful conversation also highlights the strength found within community, their acceptance of fluidity in their own lives, and advocates for embracing each unique bisexual journey and celebrates the freedom and power that it brings. Get ready for an insightful and authentic exploration of bisexuality that is designed to help others on the same path of identity to live confidently and true to their identity.

This podcast was produced by Matt

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In this episode, we delve into the world of pegging—breaking down myths, exploring its appeal, and uncovering its role within kink culture and queer-centered spaces. From personal stories of exploration to discussions about consent, communication, and community safety, we tackle the lighter and more complex sides of this adventurous experience.

Join us for an open and thoughtful conversation about embracing new dynamics, navigating stigmas, and celebrating the joy of sexual exploration with curiosity and care.

This episode wraps up Season 1—thank you for joining us on this journey! Produced by Matt.

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🔥Breakup Sex & Relationship Red Flags: A Raw Conversation 🔥

Dive deep into the messy world of breakups, toxic relationships, and post-breakup encounters with Dee and Elle in this brutally honest episode of Bi Queeriousity!

Join our hosts as they candidly discuss:

• The complicated dynamics of breakup sex
• Why people stay in relationships past their expiration date
• Navigating emotional aftermath and healing
• Lessons learned from past romantic entanglements

Produced By Matt

Disclaimer: For entertainment purposes. Not a substitute for professional relationship advice.

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Join hosts Dee and Elle for an intimate conversation about body image, cultural expectations, and the journey to self-love. Growing up in a Caribbean household where "thick" was considered beautiful, Elle shares how these cultural beauty standards impacted her self-esteem. Together with Dee, they explore their personal paths to body confidence as women and non-binary individuals of colour.

The duo kicks off with a refreshing take on health and ageing, introducing the concept of "eating our water" through fruits. Through their community platform Societe Noir, they've created a safe space for others to share their stories of transformation and belonging.

Dee and Elle candidly discuss how their relationships with food and body image have evolved—from navigating Caribbean family dynamics to embracing life changes like childbirth and heartbreak. They open up about finding confidence in intimate settings and reclaiming ownership of their sexuality.

The conversation culminates in a celebration of diverse attraction and self-acceptance, with special appreciation for trans and bisexual men of colour. Dee and Elle remind listeners that authentic attraction comes from someone genuinely appreciating your unique qualities. Join them for this heartfelt, humorous exploration of body positivity and identity celebration.

Show notes:

🔹 NHS - Body Dysmorphic Disorder: https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/body-dysmorphia/

🔹 Beat Eating Disorders: https://www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk/

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⚠️ *Important Health Message*

While we've kept things light-hearted in this episode, sexual health is a serious matter that deserves proper attention and care. If you notice any unusual symptoms or changes in your body, please don't hesitate to get checked out.

Remember:

•⁠ ⁠Many STIs can be asymptomatic (show no symptoms)

•⁠ ⁠Early detection and treatment are key

•⁠ ⁠Regular testing is important for sexually active individuals

•⁠ ⁠Professional healthcare providers are there to help, not judge

*Where to Get Help:*

•⁠ ⁠Visit your local sexual health clinic

•⁠ ⁠Find your nearest testing center

•⁠ ⁠Access NHS sexual health services and information - like SHL.co.uk or visit https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/sexual-health-services/

Taking care of your sexual health is nothing to be embarrassed about - it's an essential part of your overall wellbeing.

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