It is possible to be happy & successful after divorce. Lot of Couples that you know are married for a while and you realize maybe you’ve outgrown each other so don’t necessarily look at divorce as a failure. It’s an opportunity to grow but it’s not an easy thing to go through. It’s important that you stay positive and stay focused on your kids and getting them through that. Also, it’s important that you have a support system that surrounds you throughout all of that and you got some results.