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  • From Survival Mode to Self-Mastery

    We all want success.

    But few talk about what it costs before it ever shows.

    In this episode of BILF Pod, Brendan joins us for a raw and honest conversation about adversity, identity, and the slow evolution of becoming someone stronger than your past. Raised in chaos and shaped by survival, Brendan shares how discipline wasn’t a choice; it was a necessity.

    We talk about solving money before chasing freedom, why ego can be the biggest barrier to growth, and how wisdom is often borrowed from the people willing to tell you the truth. Brendan breaks down the difference between the capital economy and the content economy, explaining how leverage, not cash, is what compounds over time.

    This conversation explores the quiet glow-up no one celebrates: the internal shift from survival mode to self-mastery. The trials that force you to grow. The moments that humble you. And the realization that success isn’t a destination, but an evolution of who you were versus who you’re becoming. 

    If you’re navigating pressure, responsibility, and the feeling that you’re building something without immediate validation, this episode will meet you where you are.

    Because sometimes, the most important transformation is the one no one sees.

    If you haven't already... subscribe to the channel here: 
    https://www.youtube.com/@UCYLvhwzAObRJHngDq0usF6g 
     
    Get Connected:
    Follow Mara Dorne → @maradorne
    Follow Brendan Boyd → @itsbrendanboyd
    Follow the Podcast → @bilfpod


    00:00 – 00:35 | Intro
    00:35 – 04:30 | Harsh Childhood Reality
    04:30 – 11:20 | Family, Drugs, and Early Trauma
    11:20 – 20:10 | Street Life, Violence, and Loss
    20:10 – 30:40 | Consequences, Survival, and Prison Mindset
    30:40 – 39:30 | Turning Point & Personal Awakening
    39:30 – 46:20 | Discipline, Responsibility, and Self-Control
    46:20 – 50:45 | Lessons Learned & Final Message

    #BILFPod #Brendan #MaraDorner #Mara #SuccessMindset #Adversity #Discipline #PersonalGrowth #SelfMastery #LifeLessons #RealConversations #EntrepreneurMindset #MentalStrength #Leverage #ContentEconomy #ModernSuccess #GrowthJourney #Podcast #PodcastLife #PodcastClip #LongFormPodcast #MindsetPodcast #SelfImprovement #Motivation

    51 min
  • “I Had to Find Myself First”: Kelsey Adams on Motherhood & Self-Love

    We all chase a dream.

    But no one talks about what happens when life asks you to carry more than one at the same time.

    Kelsey Addams joins us for a deeply honest conversation about becoming a woman, an artist, and a mother—all at once. From moving to NYC with a lifelong dream of acting to discovering how content creation became a bridge rather than a distraction, Kelsey opens up about the realities behind the journey people don’t see.

    We talk about dating yourself before expecting love from others, how self-love isn’t something you wake up with but something you practice, and why motherhood doesn’t soften you—it reveals you. She shares what it means to build a life piece by piece while raising a child, navigating ambition without guilt, and learning to give yourself grace while still moving forward.

    This episode explores the identity shifts no one prepares you for, how becoming a mom reshaped the way Kelsey sees herself and her purpose, and why you don’t need to have it all figured out to be on the right path.

    If you’re balancing dreams, responsibilities, and the quiet pressure to “have it all together,” this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.

    If you haven't already... subscribe to the channel.

    00:00 – 01:20

    Intro: Authenticity, Energy & First Impressions

    01:20 – 03:30
    How Modeling Started & Breaking Industry Rules

    03:30 – 05:10
    From Music Videos to Creative Expression

    05:10 – 06:40
    Why Quality & Intentional Content Matter

    06:40 – 08:30
    Fashion, Identity & Cultural Influence

    08:30 – 10:20
    Confidence, Motherhood & Self-Respect

    10:20 – 12:00
    Dating Yourself & Emotional Independence

    12:00 – 13:40
    Motherhood as a Mirror for Growth

    13:40 – 15:20
    Creative Evolution: Acting, Hosting & Vision

    15:20 – 16:50
    Trusting the Journey & Letting Go of Control

    16:50 – 18:00
    What’s Next & Closing Reflections


    Get Connected:
    Follow Mara Dorne → @maradorne
    Follow Kelsey Addams → @koolkelsey
    Follow the Podcast → @bilfpod


    #KelseyAddams #BILFPodcast #WomenInConversation #MotherhoodJourney #SelfLoveEvolution #ChasingTheDream #FindingMyWay #ModernMotherhood #WomenWhoCreate #ActingJourney #NYCLife #PersonalGrowthStory #ChoosingYourself #BuildingWhileBecoming #WomenSupportingWomen #CreativeLife #LifeUnfiltered #RealConversations #PurposeDrivenLife #GrowthMindset

    19 min
  • From Unhealthy Habits to Helping Thousands | Hunter Stoler’s Story

    We all want to change. But how many of us actually maintain it?


    Hunter Stoler joins us to talk about the transformation no one tells you about, the part that comes after you've already lost the weight. Not the before and after photos, not the 90-day challenge, but the years of keeping it off while actually enjoying your life.
    This episode breaks down what it's really like to go from destroying your body daily to building one that serves you, why losing weight is the easy part and maintenance is where most people fail, how he eats food he loves without restriction or guilt, and what it means to turn your personal transformation into a mission that impacts thousands.
    We talk about diet as a pattern of eating, not punishment; why one workout can pull you back on track when you've fallen off; the role genetics and your parents' habits played in shaping your health; why building muscle matters for everyone regardless of gender; and what happens when you stop treating change as a destination and start treating it as a lifestyle.

    If you've ever lost weight just to gain it back, or if you're tired of fighting against your own habits, this conversation will give you a new way to see your journey.

    If you haven't already... subscribe to the channel here:
    https://www.youtube.com/@UCYLvhwzAObRJHngDq0usF6g 

    00:00 – 00:38 – Intro
    00:38 – 02:27 – Welcome & Gift Explanation
    02:27 – 06:20 – Origins & Reading People
    06:20–08:40—Intuition vs Prediction
    08:40 – 12:00 – Inherited Gift & Self-Identity
    12:00 – 15:01 – Navigating People & Career
    15:01 – 19:18 – Celebrities & Responsibility
    19:18 – 23:10 – Personal Limits & Dating
    23:10 – 24:00 – Protecting Energy
    24:00–29:36—Business Strategy & Projects
    29:36 – 39:58 – Global Vision & Closing
    39:58 – 41:14 – Authenticity & New Coaches' Advice
    41:14 – 42:26 – Social Media & Audience
    42:26 – 44:32 – Health & Lifestyle
    44:32 – 47:50 – Wellness Trends & Meal Plans
    47:50 – 48:00 – Collaborations & Final Advice

    Get Connected:
    Follow Mara Dorne → @maradorne
    Follow Hunter Stoler → @healthwithhunter
    Follow the Podcast → @bilfpod


    49 min
  • Talk to Tash: The Woman Who Sees What Others Can’t

    We've all heard about intuition. But what if yours never turned off?


    Natasha Leath joins us to talk about the gift she's carried since she was 6 years old, the ability to know everything about someone just by looking at them. Not through tarot cards, not through meditation, just by seeing you. And it's never stopped.
    This episode breaks down what it's really like to live with a gift that doesn't come with an off switch, why she had to learn to value her time over her ability, how she sees the paths we think we're choosing versus the ones already laid out for us, and what it means to break limits you didn't even know were holding you back.
    We talk about destiny versus free will, the weight of seeing people's truth without them saying a word, why charging for your time isn't about the gift but about honoring your energy, and what happens when someone who sees beyond the surface tells you your future is bigger than you think.
    If you've ever felt like there's more to this world than what we can touch and see, this conversation will shift something in you.

    If you haven't already... Subscribe to the channel here:
    https://www.youtube.com/@UCYLvhwzAObRJHngDq0usF6g 

    00:00 – Intro
    00:32 – Welcome & Guest Introduction
    01:16 - How They First Met
    02:07 – Explaining the Gift
    02:27 – Origins of Her Ability
    03:12 – Reading People Through Photos
    04:00 – Childhood Signs (Sleepwalking)
    05:20 – Handling Skeptics & Fakes
    06:20 – Reading Possibilities vs Predicting the Future
    07:30 – Role as an Intuitive Life Strategist
    08:40 – Is the Gift Inherited?
    09:45 – Mental Health & Clarity
    10:48 – Turning 40 & Self-Identity
    12:00 – Navigating People & Energy
    14:05 – Why She Didn’t Quit Her Job
    15:01 – Working With Celebrities
    17:00 – What Celebrities Seek From Her
    18:30 – Handling Responsibility & Sensitivity
    19:18 – Why She Can’t Read Her Own Life
    20:02 – Dating After Divorce
    21:00 – Clients Who Aren’t Ready
    23:10 – Protecting Her Energy
    23:45 – “This Is Not a Gimmick”
    24:00 – Working With CEOs & Companies
    25:00 – Business Strategy Sessions
    26:30 – Helping Companies Identify Issues
    27:40 – Guiding Major Projects
    29:36 – Her Global Vision
    29:55 – Closing Remarks



    Get Connected:
    Follow Mara Dorne → @maradorne
    Follow Natasha Leath → @talktotash922
    Follow the Podcast → @bilfpod

    #BILFPodcast #MaraDorne #NatashaLeath #PsychicAbilities #IntuitionCheck #SpiritualAwakening #SpiritualJourney #Clairvoyant #EmpathLife #SixthSense #EnergyReading #SpiritualGifts #Manifestation #HigherConsciousness #SpiritualCommunity #Intuitive #ThirdEye #SpiritualPodcast #ConsciousLiving #SpiritualHealing #Awakening #DivineFeminine #LawOfAttraction #SpiritualGrowth #MindfulLiving #SpiritualWisdom #PodcastEpisode #DeepConversations #PodcastCommunity #MustListenPodcast #podcastrecommendations

    33 min
  • From Boundaries to Boardrooms: Julia Haart’s Story

    BILFPod x Julia Haart


    For 8 years, Julia lived by rules that didn’t feel like her own. But one moment, one question from her daughter, made her see the world differently. 
    In this episode of BILF, Julia opens up about her awakening journey, the constraints she faced, and the realization that freedom doesn’t mean abandoning your values; it means reclaiming who you are. From questioning strict cultural expectations to discovering her own path, Julia shares the story that changed everything. 
    If you’ve ever felt trapped by “how things are supposed to be,” this conversation will hit home. Get inspired to break invisible ceilings, reclaim your power, and take the first step toward your own awakening. 

    Watch now and see why Julia finally woke up. 

    🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more real stories of courage, growth, and life-changing conversations. 

    🎧 Watch the full episode now—available on all platforms.

    Get Connected:
    Follow Mara Dorne → @maradorne
    Follow Julia Haart → @juliahaart
    Follow the Podcast → @bilfpod

    #BILF #MaraDorne #JuliaHaart #WomenEmpowerment #BreakingRules #LifeChangingMoment #CulturalExpectations #MotherhoodStories #BILFpod #InspirationalStories #FreedomJourney #StepIntoPower #PersonalGrowth #EmpowermentStory #WomenBreakingBarriers #AwakeningMoment #MotivationalConversation #ReclaimYourPower #GirlPower #SelfDiscovery 

    34 min
  • Thanksgiving Edition: We Ignored “Never Work With Your Spouse” — And Built an Empire Together

    BILFPod x Mara & Seth Dorne  🦃✨ 


    Mara & Seth Dorne aren’t just leaders—they’re builders, visionaries, and the power couple behind a movement that’s changing lives. From humble beginnings to building an empire rooted in discipline, purpose, and gratitude, their story is a reminder that legacy isn’t given… it’s created. 

    In this Thanksgiving special, Mara and Seth open up about the pain, risks, and defining moments that shaped their journey. From losing loved ones to taking massive leaps of faith with only $300K in savings to building their first office with their own hands—this episode reveals the heart behind everything they’ve built.

    It’s raw, emotional, and packed with the kind of wisdom that comes from surviving storms and growing through them.


    In this episode:

    • Finding blessings through pain and loss

     • How they built their first office from scratch
     • The truth about taking massive risks as a couple
     • Vision vs. risk—how they balance each other
     • Choosing the right partner in business and in life
     • Family, faith, and gratitude as their foundation
     • What legacy really means to them


    This episode is a must-watch for leaders, couples, and anyone building something bigger than themselves. Mara & Seth remind us that the right partner can change your entire path—and that gratitude is the real cornerstone of success.


    🎧 Watch the full episode now—available on all platforms.


    Get Connected:
    Follow Mara Dorne → @maradorne
    Follow Seth Dorne → @sethdorne
    Follow the Podcast → @bilfpod


    #BILFPod #BossIdLikeToFollow #MaraDorne #SethDorne #PowerCouple #ThanksgivingEdition #LeadershipPodcast #EntrepreneurMindset #PurposeToProfit #UnfilteredSuccess #WomenInLeadership #GrowthMindset #LegacyBuilders #BuildYourLife #BILFCommunity 

    32 min
  • They Said She Couldn’t Do It — Then Gypsy Woman Dropped

    BILFPod x Crystal Waters


    Crystal Waters isn’t just a music icon — she’s a visionary artist, songwriter, and trailblazer who helped shape the sound of an entire era. From global hits that defined the 90s to new orchestrated projects with some of the biggest names in music, Crystal continues to evolve while staying true to her voice, her craft, and her story. 🎙✨

    Her journey is one of resilience, reinvention, and raw authenticity. In this episode, Crystal opens up about navigating the music industry as a woman, balancing motherhood with a demanding career, and finding her voice again after feeling lost. She shares the highs, the challenges, and the moments that shaped her into the powerhouse she is today.

    In this episode:
    • How Crystal reinvented her sound and stayed relevant across decades
    • Balancing motherhood, touring, and building a global career
    • The realities of being a woman in the music industry
    • The inspiration behind her newest 90s-orchestrated project
    • Rediscovering her voice and turning vulnerability into strength
    • Dream collaborations and her most unforgettable studio moments

    This episode is a must-watch for creators, artists, and anyone on a journey of self-expression and purpose. Crystal reminds us that true power comes from owning your craft, honoring your story, and rising every time life asks you to evolve.

    🎧 Watch the full episode now—available on all platforms.

    Get Connected:
    Follow Crystal Waters → @crystalwaters
    Follow Mara Dorne → @maradorne
    Follow the Podcast → @bilfpod

    #BILFPod #BossIdLikeToFollow #CrystalWaters #WomenInMusic #HouseMusicLegend #CreativeJourney #MusicIndustryInsights #FemaleArtist #ArtistStory #UnfilteredSuccess #PurposeToProfit #MusicIcon #CareerGrowth #CreativeLeadership #BuildYourLegacy

    36 min
  • One Mistake That’s Costing You Every Career Opportunity – Laura Camacho

    BILFPod x Laura Camacho


    Laura Camacho isn’t just a communication coach—she’s a leadership expert, author, and voice strategist helping professionals turn their words into influence. From coaching Fortune 500 executives to guiding ambitious women toward stronger leadership, Laura’s mission is simple: empower people to speak with confidence, clarity, and courage. 🎙✨

    Her story is about finding your voice, owning your power, and communicating with intention—even in the toughest rooms. In this episode, Laura shares how mastering communication can open doors, build authority, and transform your career from the inside out.

    In this episode:
    • How to speak with confidence and authority
    • Building leadership through effective communication
    • Overcoming imposter syndrome with your voice
    • The art of storytelling that inspires action
    • Turning your message into your greatest professional asset

    This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to lead, influence, and make their message matter. Because real power starts when you find your voice — and use it.

    🎧 Catch the full episode now—streaming on all platforms.

    Get Connected:
    Follow Laura Camacho → @speakupwithlaura
    Follow Mara Dorne → @maradorne
    Follow the Podcast → @bilfpod

    #BILFPod #BossIdLikeToFollow #LauraCamacho #WomenInLeadership #CommunicationCoach #PublicSpeaking #LeadershipPodcast #ConfidenceCoach #PurposeToProfit #EntrepreneurMindset #BILFCommunity #UnfilteredSuccess #CareerGrowth #SpeakWithImpact #leadwithconfidence

    49 min
  • Breaking Beats & Barriers: DJ Samantha Michelle on Thriving in a Male-Dominated Industry

    BILFPod x Samantha Michelle


    Samantha Michelle is more than a DJ—she’s a creative force, entrepreneur, and boundary breaker redefining what it means to rise in a male-dominated industry. From late-night sets to global stages, Samantha is proof that authenticity and artistry can outshine any stereotype.

    Her journey is about courage, creation, and carving your own lane—even when only 2% of the industry looks like you. She opens up about the power of resilience, staying grounded in a competitive world, and leading with confidence and kindness.

     In this episode:
    • Thriving as a woman in a male-dominated music industry
    • Turning passion into purpose (and profit)
    • Building confidence through creativity
    • Why “fear kills art”—and how to create fearlessly
    • The balance between hustle, heart, and self-expression

    This episode is a reminder that success isn’t about competing—it’s about creating, believing, and owning your story, beat by beat.

    🎧 Catch the full episode now—streaming on all platforms.

    Get Connected:
    Follow Samantha Michelle → @samanthamusic
    Follow Mara Dorne → @maradorne
    Follow the Podcast → @bilfpod

    #BILFPod #MaraDorne #SamanthaMichelle #WomenInMusic #FemaleDJ #BreakingBarriers #CreativityUnleashed #EntrepreneurMindset #BossIdLikeToFollow #Musicpreneur #UnfilteredSuccess #BILFCommunity #PurposeToProfit #FearlessCreativity #BeatsAndBusiness #DJLife #WomenWhoLead #CreateDontCompete #OnStageEnergy #AuthenticSuccess

    44 min
  • She Did It Scared: How Ebony Tillery Turned Struggle into a 7-Figure Business

    New Episode Alert – BILFPod x Dr. Ebony Tillery


    Dr. Ebony Tillery (@dr.e_thevirtualnp) is more than a family nurse practitioner—she’s an entrepreneur, educator, and founder of The Nursepreneur Academy. From helping nurses overcome burnout to building businesses that empower professionals, Ebony proves that purpose and profit can go hand-in-hand.

    Her story is about courage, resilience, and taking bold action even when the path isn’t clear. Ebony shares her unfiltered insights on entrepreneurship, building generational wealth, and creating a life that aligns with your values.

    In this episode:
    • How to start messy, start scared, but just start
    • Shifting from a salary mindset to building freedom
    • Balancing motherhood with entrepreneurship
    • Helping NPs beat burnout and scale their impact
    • Turning expertise into multiple streams of income

    ✨This episode is a reminder that success isn’t about comfort—it’s about action, alignment, and designing your life on your own terms.

    Catch the full episode now streaming on all platforms.

    Get Connected:
    Follow Dr. Ebony Tillery → @dr.e_thevirtualnp
    Follow Mara Dorne → @maradorne
    Follow the Podcast → @bilfpod

    #BILFPod #MaraDorne #EbonyTillery #Nursepreneur #WomenInBusiness #EntrepreneurMindset #LeadershipPodcast #BossIdLikeToFollow #WorkLifeAlignment #FinancialFreedom #PurposeDrivenSuccess #BILFCommunity #UnfilteredSuccess #Mompreneur #StartMessy #TakeAction #LevelUpYourLife #TheNursepreneurAcademy

    30 min

About BILFPOD

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The BILFPOD (Boss I'd Like To Follow) takes a deep dive into the lives and 'drives' of others. This weekly show, hosted by Mara Dorne, features unfiltered conversations with business leaders, influencers, and BILF's in their own accord. Branded segments such as "BILF Breakdown" "What's in your BILF bag” and many more that will keep you entertained, inspired and bring on allll the feels- LIVE from our studio- in 6 inch heels!