We’ve been letting go since our first day of school. But somehow, it never gets easier.

In this episode, I unpack the bittersweet art of letting go—from childhood homes and shifting friendships to those quiet, painful goodbyes we didn’t know would linger.

I share two personal stories: one about moving out of a big house without warning, and another about the ache of being left behind when someone you love starts a new chapter. Through these, we reflect on why we struggle with change, and what it really means to release.

This isn’t a self-help checklist. It’s a soft, honest conversation about identity, attachment, control, and trust. If you’re in a season of transition (or still processing one), I hope this helps you feel less alone.

Sometimes letting go isn’t about forgetting—it’s about making space.

I went back to London to study design at the University of the Arts London—two short courses in Digital Typographic Design and Art Direction. It was a dream I’d been chasing for years. In this episode, I share what it was really like to study at a top design school, the surprising lessons that stuck with me, and how being in a first-world creative space changed my perspective on design.

Not everything lived up to the hype, but some things went deeper than I expected. Let’s talk about first impressions, creative growth, and why the best lessons aren’t always the ones you signed up for.

January’s over—now it’s time to really start the year.

In this episode, I’m sharing 10 thoughtful predictions for 2025—and more importantly, how you can turn them into real opportunities. Whether it’s launching that side hustle, using AI to lighten your workload, slowing down to live more intentionally, or building meaningful connections, this is your personal guide to making the most of what’s coming.

You’re not here to let the year pass you by. You’re here to make it yours.

✨ Which of these feels right for you? Let me know on Instagram or tag me in your stories—I’d love to hear how you’re stepping into 2025.

Wrapping up Season One of Birdhouse Radio feels like a moment to pause, reflect, and say thank you. This episode dives into why I started this podcast, the lessons it’s taught me, and how it’s grown into something more—a space for connection and community.

Join me as we look back on this journey and share a glimpse of what’s ahead in Season Two.

Who says you have to follow the timeline? In this episode, we’re breaking down the idea that starting late means missing out. Whether it’s learning to drive at 35, picking up a new hobby, or going back to school, we’re talking about why timelines are overrated and how every beginning—no matter when it happens—has its own kind of magic. If you’ve ever felt like you’re too old to try something new, this one’s for you.

This week on Birdhouse Radio, we’re having a heart-to-heart about people-pleasing—a habit that often feels like kindness but can quietly take more from us than we realize.

I share my personal journey of untangling this behavior, from the moments I didn’t even know I was doing it, to the wake-up call that forced me to confront it. Together, we’ll reflect on how cultural influences like utang na loob and pakikisama shaped this part of me, and how even good intentions can blur into burnout and resentment.

But it’s not all heavy—we’ll also talk about finding our way back to ourselves. From setting small boundaries (like saying no to that extra serving you really don’t want) to reframing guilt and learning to honor our own needs, this episode is about finding balance without losing our care for others.

Pull up a chair, and let’s explore this together. It’s a story, a reflection, and maybe even a little guide to help us all live a little more honestly.

In this laid-back episode of Birdhouse Radio, we’re talking about what it’s like growing up as an only child. From creative solo adventures to navigating the world with a “main character” mindset, I share some personal stories and unexpected lessons. Whether you’re an only child, raising one, or just curious, this episode is all about the quirks, challenges, and quiet joys of growing up without siblings.

i really hate airline turbulence and i've got quite a bit to say about it.

an unexpected surprise had me thinking about low maintenance friendships and what makes them last

in this episode i said goodbye to the summer heat (at long last), finally reunited with my lost national ID and talked about revisiting old and forgotten dreams