This episode was triggered by a Tiktok from a woman who shares that she doesn’t know what it’s like to be in love, or to be someone's first and how lonely she is. Some of this really resonated with Sam, so we decided to dig deep into the challenges of being a long term single person and the perception of people who don't actively seek romantic partners. Loneliness, narrow minded people and realistic expectations are discussed in this episode. It’s not unrealistic to ask that a man not don ugly footwear or Speed dealer sunnies, is it?