Waiting for a positive test. Grieving another loss. Sitting in the silence after praying your heart out.

What do you do when you’re longing for a child and God feels silent?
In this Monday Mindset episode of Birthing in Faith, we’re holding space for the quiet, painful places in the journey to motherhood; especially for women in the trying to conceive (TTC) season or facing the heartbreak of pregnancy loss.

When the prayers feel unanswered and hope starts to fade, you’re not alone. 

In this episode, you’ll hear:

✨ How to respond when God seems silent during your fertility journey
 ✨ Lessons from Hannah and Sarah - what their waiting seasons teach us
 ✨ The difference between God-centered questions and self-centered spirals
✨ Why it’s okay (and biblical!) to lament and cry out to God
✨ The importance of bringing your pain into community, not isolation

If you’ve ever whispered “why me?” through tears, or felt forgotten while others announce baby news, then this episode will meet you in that space with truth, grace, and hope.

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Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

Breastfeeding (or not breastfeeding) is one of the most personal choices you’ll make as a mother and one of the most challenging parts of the postpartum journey for many women.

In this episode of Birthing in Faith, I’m breaking down why a lactation consultant is such an important member of your birth and postpartum team, even if you’re unsure about breastfeeding, planning to formula feed, or somewhere in between.

From navigating latching issues and milk supply struggles to offering judgment-free education and support, lactation consultants are here to empower you through one of the most vulnerable parts of early motherhood.

We’ll talk about:
 ✅ What a lactation consultant actually does (and doesn’t do)
 ✅ The benefits of having one before and after birth
 ✅ How they can support women who choose not to breastfeed
 ✅ How to find the right lactation consultant for you
 ✅ Tips for using insurance to cover lactation support
 ✅ Why this role is about more than milk — it’s about confidence

Whether you’re planning to breastfeed, pump, formula feed, or a combination, this conversation will help you feel prepared and supported in your choices.

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Motherhood changes us and not just physically, it's a whole biological transformation. As our bodies and our brains change, it shifts how we see ourselves, the world, and even our faith. But often, we don’t have language for that change.

In this powerful episode of Birthing in Faith, I’m joined by Yodit Kifle Smith, a mom, writer, minister, and the heart behind MamasPrayTalkCare and Called to the Ones. We're diving  into the concept of matrescence - the gradual unfolding that creates a new version of you in motherhood.

Yodit shares how her personal journey through motherhood led her to discover deeper layers of calling, surrender, and faith. We also talk about how her ministries create safe spaces for mothers to process, pray, and feel seen in the middle of the often-unspoken emotional shifts that come with parenting.

What We Cover in This Episode:

✨ What matrescence means and why it matters
✨ The beauty and complexity of becoming in motherhood
✨ How MamasTalkPrayCare supports mothers in every stage of the journey
✨ The mission of Called to the Ones and how God uses motherhood to refine us
✨ Encouragement for anyone who feels like they’ve “lost” themselves in motherhood

Whether you’re a new mom, deep in the postpartum trenches, or a woman just beginning to explore what motherhood might mean for you... this conversation will remind you that you are still becoming, and you are still called.

Resources & Links:

🔗 Follow Yodit Kifle Smith on Instagram: @yodit
🔗 Learn more about MamasPrayTalkCare
🔗 Discover Called to the Ones

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When you hear the word doula, what comes to mind? A hype woman? A birth guide? Just another person in the room?

The truth is, doulas play a powerful role in the birth space, but there’s still so much misunderstanding about what they do, and how to find the right fit for your birth team. As a labor and delivery nurse, I’ve seen the difference a great doula can make. But I’ve also seen the tension that can happen when doulas and providers aren’t working together.

In this episode of Birthing in Faith, I’m sharing an honest conversation about:
✨ What doulas actually do (and what they don’t)
✨ Why doulas are especially valuable for Black women and families
✨ The red flags to look out for when choosing a doula
✨ How to find the right doula for YOUR vision and values
✨ Why we need a real shift in how doulas are integrated into the birth team

This isn’t about choosing between your provider and a doula, it’s about building a team that respects you, sees you, and knows how to work together to support you fully.

💛 Ready to start building your birth team with clarity and confidence?
This freebie is for you: “The Doula Interview Guide” 

If this episode gave you a new perspective, send it to a friend who’s preparing for birth too. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss these real conversations.

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The Flourish First Method - a course & coaching experience for proactive Millennial women to prepare for pregnancy and motherhood in advance.

If motherhood is in your future, your preparation starts now!

Join the next cohort at www.flourishfirstmethod.com, because a thriving motherhood starts with YOU flourishing first.

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Ever feel like if you don’t take control, everything will fall apart? That “if it’s going to be, it’s up to me” mindset might feel empowering at first, but over time, it leads to exhaustion, stress, resentment and feeling like you’re carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. But I wanna let you know - Jesus didn't die for that!

In this episode, we’re talking about:

✅ Why rest is holy:  not just something you earn after working yourself to the ground
✅ Why we, as Black women, need to rest: who are often expected to be strong no matter what
✅ How to release control: in practical and spiritual ways

Motherhood, birth, and life in general come with too many unknowns, and that's exactly why you CAN'T do it all alone. Let’s talk about what it looks like to move forward in faith without the burnout.

 If this episode speaks to you, subscribe and share it with someone who needs this reminder!

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If motherhood is in your future, your preparation starts now!

Join the next cohort at www.flourishfirstmethod.com, because a thriving motherhood starts with YOU flourishing first.

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What if birth could be more than just a physical event? What if it could be a deeply spiritual, supernatural experience where you feel the Holy Spirit's presence in the room?

In this episode of Birthing in Faith, I sit down with Doula Kirstie Foley of Powerful Peace Doula to unpack the concept of supernatural birth—what it is, how she personally experienced it, and how she helps other women prepare for a Holy Spirit-led birth experience.

✨ What “supernatural birth” really means (let's make it plain)
✨ How she felt God moving during her pregnancy and labor
✨ Why she became a doula and how she supports women to trust in the power of God throughout pregnancy, labor and birth
✨ Her new book and how it can help you invite the Spirit into your birth journey

This conversation is one you don’t want to miss, especially if you’re curious about what it means to surrender your birth experience to God and welcome His presence into the process.

Connect with Kirstie:

www.powerfulpeacedoula.com and on social media @kirstie.doula

📢Do you want more support in your journey to motherhood? Let's talk today, I have birth coaching sessions available to help you feel supported! 💕

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Motherhood—whether you're in the dreaming, waiting, or limping-through-it stage—can bring a lot of emotions. Joy, uncertainty, excitement, and sometimes even doubt. But Psalm 139:13-16 reminds us of something powerful: God knew you before you were even formed, and He was intentional about creating you. The same is true for your child or the children you long for.

In this episode, we're breaking down what it means to be fearfully and wonderfully made and how this truth can ground us in the ups and downs of the motherhood journey. Whether you're preparing for pregnancy, facing infertility, navigating pregnancy loss, or raising your babies, this scripture speaks LIFE.

Here’s what we’re covering:
✨ How Psalm 139 reassures us in our motherhood journey
✨ What it means to trust that God’s design for you—and your baby—is intentional
✨ Encouragement for Black women who feel like we have to hold the world
✨ Why embracing God’s sovereignty brings peace, even in uncertainty

Sis, if this episode resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you! 💜 Send me a DM or email—I’d love to pray with you, encourage you, and support your journey

 📖 Want more faith-based encouragement for your journey? www.confidentcarebirthco.com/resources

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When you find out you're pregnant (or even when you're just thinking about it), one of the most powerful decisions you’ll make is who will provide your medical care during your pregnancy and birth. But let’s be real—distinguishing the differences between an OBGYN and a midwife is NOT common sense. Which one is right for YOU? And does it truly matter? (Guess what... It absolutely does)

In this episode of Birthing in Faith, we’re getting into why choosing the right provider is more than just a box to check—it’s about making sure you feel heard, respected, and fully supported in this life-altering journey.

Here’s what we’re talking about:
 ✨ OBGYNs vs. Midwives: What’s the REAL Difference? And why it’s more than just “hospital vs. home birth”
✨ How to Choose the Provider That Aligns With YOUR Birth Values—because it’s not just about qualifications, it’s about what is important to you
✨ Red Flags to Watch for in Any Provider The last thing you need is someone who isn’t 100% down for team YOU

Whether you’re pregnant now, thinking about kids in the future, or just want to be informed, this episode will help you understand the options and have practical ways to determine what's for you

🎁 Want help building your dream birth team? I have a few spots available in my March calendar for my birth coaching session!
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🎧 Listen now and let’s talk about how to take control of your birth experience. Because you deserve a provider who truly supports you—not just one who checks your vitals and keeps it moving!

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The Flourish First Method - a course & coaching experience for proactive Millennial women to prepare for pregnancy and motherhood in advance.

If motherhood is in your future, your preparation starts now!

Join the next cohort at www.flourishfirstmethod.com, because a thriving motherhood starts with YOU flourishing first.

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Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

As we wrap up this incredible first season, I’m excited to share something deeply personal and close to my heart: my birth story. This journey into motherhood has been transformative in ways I couldn’t have imagined, and I’m honored to take you behind the scenes of one of the most defining moments of my life.

In this episode, I’m opening up about:
✨ The emotions and mindset leading up to labor and delivery
✨ What went according to "plan" and what didn’t (because God does His own thing)
✨ The role my support team played in creating a positive experience

Whether you’re preparing for your own journey, reflecting on your birth experiences, or supporting a loved one, this episode is a reminder of the strength and beauty we carry as women—and the importance of feeling supported every step of the way.

Watch the vlog on YouTube here! 

*note: I experienced prodromal labor, which is common but not the typical length of labor. Have you ever heard of or experienced it?

Stay Connected
If my story resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts, experiences, or questions by sending me a DM or tagging me on social media

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Planning for pregnancy, birth, or postpartum? Don’t miss my free resources, "Trying to Conceive 7-Day Prayer Journal " and "The Doula Interview Guide", to help you navigate your journey with confidence and peace of mind. 

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Thank you for joining me this season and for being part of this amazing community.

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The Flourish First Method - a course & coaching experience for proactive Millennial women to prepare for pregnancy and motherhood in advance.

If motherhood is in your future, your preparation starts now!

Join the next cohort at www.flourishfirstmethod.com, because a thriving motherhood starts with YOU flourishing first.

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If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share it with your friends and family! Remember to subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes. Join our community of Black Christian women as we discuss pregnancy, birth, and motherhood through the lens of faith.

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Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

Are you ready to take control of your pregnancy, birth, and postpartum experience? In this episode, we’re talking about the importance of creating your dream birth team—the people who will walk with you, advocate for you, and support you every step of the way.

Too often, we rely solely on doctors or midwives without realizing that building a well-rounded, supportive team can make a world of difference by decreasing the likelihood of falling through the cracks. Let's round everyone up because the right team can turn an overwhelming experience into one that leaves you feeling empowered and cared for.

Here’s what we’re covering in this episode:

• What exactly is a birth team, and why it’s so important for YOU.
• The key players to consider adding to your team
• How to find people who align with your values and birth vision.

Your birth experience matters, and it starts with the team you surround yourself with.

💡 Ready to start building your team? Download my free guide, "The Doula Interview Guide," to get direction for determining which doula option is the best  for you!
https://confidentcarebirthco.com/resources

Ask a question or share your thoughts!

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If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share it with your friends and family! Remember to subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes. Join our community of Black Christian women as we discuss pregnancy, birth, and motherhood through the lens of faith.

Contact Us: For business inquiries or questions, please email [email protected] or visit confidentcarebirthco.com/birthinginfaith

Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.