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Sudden alterations. As in the case of Job, God takes a man whom he hath blessed with choice of blessings, in the midst of a course of obedience and close walking with himself, when he expected to die in his nest, and to see good all his days;—ruins him in a moment; blasts his name, that he who was esteemed a choice saint, shall not be able to deliver himself from the common esteem of a hypocrite; slays his children; takes away his rest, health, and every thing that is desirable to him. This amazes the soul; it knows not what God is doing, nor why he pleads with it in so much bitterness. A man that either is, or may fall into such a condition, will find that he will never be able to walk with God in it, without humbling himself to the law of His providence.

The sermon explores the Book of Ruth verse by verse, contrasting Elimelech's fear-driven departure from Bethlehem with Ruth's steadfast loyalty to her mother-in-law Naomi. It highlights Ruth's self-sacrificial commitment to Naomi's God and people, which leads to her encounter with Boaz, a kinsman-redeemer who provides protection and provision. The narrative demonstrates how divine providence works through human faithfulness to restore Naomi's bitterness into joy and secure Ruth's future. Ultimately, the story reveals how a quiet, daily obedience and love for others is used God's redemptive plan for all his children, culminating in the lineage of King David and Jesus Christ.

In "What Rules Your Heart?", Pastor Byron Chesney examines Colossians 3:12–17 and shows how a believer's union with Christ should change the way he treats others. Christians are called to put off the attitudes of the old life and daily put on mercy, kindness, humility, meekness, patience, forgiveness, and charity. Through biblical teaching and a personal story about responding to a hateful customer, this message emphasizes that difficult people and circumstances reveal what is controlling the heart. Anger, pride, fear, and bitterness produce conflict, but when the peace of God rules within, the character of Christ is displayed through our words and actions. The message challenges every believer to let the Word of Christ dwell richly within and to ask honestly, "What rules my heart?"

In this final lesson of the **"Members of One Another"** Sunday School series, Matt Sikes examines the biblical meaning of **true forgiveness** and how Christians are called to forgive as they have been forgiven by God in Christ. Using Matthew 18 and the parable of the unforgiving servant as the foundation, Matt explains why forgiveness is central to the gospel and how it must be understood alongside repentance, reconciliation, church discipline, and Christian love. He addresses common misunderstandings about forgiveness and emphasizes that biblical forgiveness is more than a feeling—it is a commitment to put away a repentant person's sin and no longer hold it against them. The lesson also explores how believers should respond when someone refuses to repent: not with bitterness, hatred, or revenge, but with love, prayer, kindness, and a genuine desire for reconciliation. Ultimately, Christians are called to be a forgiving people because they themselves have received immeasurable grace and forgiveness through Jesus Christ.

Genesis 50:20 — Someone hurt you years ago. They're not carrying it anymore. So why are you still lugging that bucket around? Sunday School — "Under the Good Shepherd's Care" — Joseph Forgives This family integrated church Sunday school lesson walks kids and parents through Genesis 42, 44, 45, and 50 to teach what biblical forgiveness actually looks like — not a feeling, but a decision to stop carrying weight that was never yours to hold. If you've been searching for how to let go of bitterness or forgive someone who hurt you, this lesson breaks it down in a way even a child can grasp — and apply. Joseph tested his brothers before he ever revealed himself to them. He needed to see whether their hearts had truly changed. And when he finally forgave them, he didn't just say the words — he protected them, provided for them, and refused to get even. That's the whole picture of biblical forgiveness: it releases the offender AND it frees you. The lesson closes with a live object lesson: kids carry a bucket that gets heavier with every labeled rock — "They laughed at me," "My brother hit me," "She left me out," "They lied about me" — until they're told to put it down. Because the truth is simple: if it's not hurting them anymore, it's only hurting you. This lesson walks through Genesis 42, 44, 45, and 50, explaining: - Why Joseph tested his brothers before trusting them again - How guilt, memory, and conscience surface under pressure - Judah's offer to be a substitute for Benjamin - Why Joseph waited to reveal himself until he saw real change - The difference between empty words and true repentance - Why unforgiveness only punishes the one holding the grudge

The sixth commandment calls you to value and protect human life, but it also reaches into your heart—confronting hatred, sinful anger, resentment, and the desire for revenge. God calls you to deal with conflict through forgiveness and reconciliation rather than allowing bitterness to grow. When you recognize how deeply you fall short of this command, you are pointed back to Christ. His righteousness covers your failure, and His grace enables you to increasingly respond to others with patience, mercy, and love.

The sermon explores the book of Ruth as a testament to God's sovereignty and faithfulness during the dark period of the Judges. It highlights three key observations: that a faithful remnant exists even in the darkest times, that hardships often fall upon believers regardless of their piety, and that divine blessing frequently arrives through unexpected and unlikely means. By examining Naomi's journey from bitterness to restoration, the message encourages listeners to trust in God's control amidst personal and corporate trials. The narrative demonstrates that God remains on the throne when human leadership fails, sustaining His people through grace rather than immediate deliverance. Ultimately, the text points to the redemptive lineage of David and Christ as the ultimate proof of God's enduring purpose.

The sermon explores the experience of enduring injustice by examining Psalm 119, where the psalmist faces relentless persecution without cause. It argues that true peace under pressure is found not in circumstances but in trusting God's unchanging righteousness and obeying His Word. The preacher emphasizes that believers must resist the temptations of bitterness and anger by fixing their hope on Jesus Christ, who suffered unjustly to provide salvation and intercession. Ultimately, the message calls listeners to find their identity and relief in the covenant faithfulness of God rather than in worldly fairness.

Joshua 12:7-11 (KJV) And these are the kings of the country which Joshua and the children of Israel smote on this side Jordan on the west, from Baal-gad in the valley of Lebanon even unto the mount Halak, that goeth up to Seir; which Joshua gave unto the tribes of Israel for a possession according to their divisions; 8 In the mountains, and in the valleys, and in the plains, and in the springs, and in the wilderness, and in the south country; the Hittites, the Amorites, and the Canaanites, the Perizzites, the Hivites, and the Jebusites: 9 The king of Jericho, one; the king of Ai, which is beside Beth-el, one; 10 The king of Jerusalem, one; the king of Hebron, one; 11 The king of Jarmuth, one; the king of Lachish, one; Joshua 13:1 (KJV) Now Joshua was old and stricken in years; and the LORD said unto him, Thou art old and stricken in years, and there remaineth yet very much land to be possessed.

Hannah's barrenness and her subsequent earnest prayer to God for a son was driven not merely by personal desire but by a deep concern for the spiritual needs of the nation. Here are lessons for the believer on handling life's bitter experiences, reasons why God does not always answer prayer, and on following up on our promises to serve the Lord.