In the past I would go to a martial arts store – yes, an actual brick and mortar store. And some people at that store sought Black Belt discounts. Some of the conversations that took place were, simply put, bug nuts. Lightsabers and being able to defeat your instructor.  The difference between a martial arts store and JC Penny’s.  Crossing the threshold form Kyu to Dan and how some things change and other things do not change. The school systems we have come to know and how a belt system would simply destroy people’s minds. Escaping being stupid – sometimes – because of a combination of fear and awe.  The question is, “Who’s responsibility is it?”  you, me, or us (yes I am pointing at you, me, and them at the same time.) And the chemical transformation that became baked in generations ago.  The “We’re All In This Together,” section the experience of loss of an instructor and how you may want to view the journey of the loss.