Black Girl Talking

Here is a little story about why we should be slow to making judgments about people.

Making a New Years Resolutions is the oldest form of virtue signaling. Many people make them because it is the popular thing to do and very few carry them out. Companies know this and use it as a means to be a permanent fixture in our wallets.

There was one time I remember it well, I asked my stepfather if he could teach me how to drive and Mommy Dearest bursted out saying how I was so damn selfish and as such I was confused and didn’t understand why she would say something like that.

White women who date black men that hate black women will parrot whatever talking points they are given. You will be viewed as hostile and they will blame you just like black men.

I have come across more women who wanted to hurt me than see me prosper. These women, at the time, were older than me and having lived their lives were unhappy because of the choices they made. So instead of giving me their pearls of wisdom so I could avoid the pitfalls they encountered, they sought to prevent me from exploring the many possibilities and opportunities that lie ahead.

The perfectionist tendencies may be how you are hard wired, but your parent’s influence or lack therefore reinforce it. As you grow older, people despise you for your success. They envy you not knowing that your unusual ability to be highly efficient and super productive is driven out of a need to please a mother who couldn’t care less.

When your parent is a narcissist, your childhood is gone. Now as an adult, you have to learn how to parent yourself and develop your inner child.

LQS Chit Chat. When Rona-19 hit, I spent my time focusing on the needful; however, there were many areas of my life that needed attention and the greatest threat to accomplishing a deep work was having to face the demons of my past: the memories of my narcissistic mother.

Excerpt taken from Know Thine Lobster https://www.youtube.com/c/LadyQuietStorm/videos

Excerpt taken from The High Value Man Decoded https://www.youtube.com/c/LadyQuietStorm/videos