Depression isn’t a choice or a little case of the blues. It’s a physical illness as serious and life-altering as diabetes, heart disease, or arthritis. An estimated 19 million Americans are currently going through depression, many who are married or involved with a significant other. A depressed spouse can’t just “snap out of it” or “get on with life,” and that can cause serious problems in relationships. On the bright side, up to 80 percent of people report seeing an improvement within four to six weeks of starting treatment. We discuss the pressure depression can put on a relationship and give some tips on getting that "intruder" out of your love life!