Black Parents Aging Podcast

Black Parents Aging Podcast

By Nicola Robinson and Olivia SmithKids & Family
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Black Parents Aging Podcast episodes

  • Episode #10 : Coping with Your Aging Parents' Dementia

    Caring for an aging parent is a complex task. When dementia care is part of the picture, it becomes a lot more difficult. . Cognitive and behavioral changes from dementia can occur unpredictably, and parents may resist care.

    If you are a caregiver for an aging parent with dementia, the first step is to understand the disease and some of the changes it causes. This is why in today's episode, Nicola speaks to Dr. Fayron Epps, a nurse who has found her mission to educate African Americans on dementia and empower their church families who support them. Join Nicola and Dr. Epps as they speak about how to better equip ourselves with the knowledge of dementia, the importance of early detection, and how that helps improve the quality of life of anyone living with dementia.

    Tune in to learn:

    • The difference between Alzheimer's disease and dementia
    • How to tell whether the forgetfulness of your aging parents is due to aging or dementia
    • How to creatively bring up the conversations about this sensitive topic with your parents
    • How to ease our own fear of finding out that a parent has dementia
    • and so much more!

    Connect with Dr. Fayron:

    Facebook: Faith Village Connections

    LinkedIn: Fayron Epps PhD, RN

    Twitter: Fayron Epps,PhD,RN

    Phone #: 678 723 81 88

    Check out the SR Law Group:

    Website: www.srlawgrp.com

    LinkedIn: SR Law Group

    Instagram: @srlawgrp

    Facebook: SR Law Group

    Tweeter: @srlawgrp

    Let's continue the conversation in our Free Facebook group!:

    Black Parents Aging

    Connect with Nicola:

    LinkedIn: Nicola Robinson

    48 min
  • EP #9: Hey Mom and Dad, Let's Get Your Papers in Order

    Your aging parents need help in keeping important documents in order. These documents should be easily accessible if they need to move, have a medical emergency or should they need to file for state, federal, or veterans benefits. Having these documents in order will save you from making mistakes that could cost you time and money.

    In today's episode, Olivia and Nicola share a list of some of the important documents your parents should have and tips on how and why you need to get them in order. Tune in to learn more!

    In a nutshell, you'll learn:

    • How to tactfully find out what financial records exist
    • Why it's important to know where your parents' legal and financial documents are stored
    • and so much more!

    Links Mentioned:

    Treasurydirect.gov

    Check out the SR Law Group:

    Website: www.srlawgrp.com

    LinkedIn: SR Law Group

    Instagram: @srlawgrp

    Facebook: SR Law Group

    Tweeter: @srlawgrp

    Let's continue the conversation in our Free Facebook group!:

    Black Parents Aging

    Connect with Nicola:

    LinkedIn: Nicola Robinson

    Connect with Olivia:

    LinkedIn: Olivia Smith

    27 min
  • EP #8: Is Your Momma Lonely?

    Human beings are meant to be social. Our biological, psychological, and social systems have evolved to thrive in collaborative networks of people. However, as people grow older, their social networks tend to thin leading in many cases to isolation and loneliness which have become a major source of public health concerns.

    In today's episode, Nicola and Olivia address loneliness and social isolation. They review evidence that social isolation affects health and mortality, whether or not the isolation is accompanied by subjective loneliness.

    In a nutshell, you'll learn:

    • The correlation between loneliness and social isolation.
    • The mental and physical consequences of loneliness
    • How to use the 'Name it to Tame It' strategy when approaching the conversation about loneliness and social isolation
    • and so much more!

    Check out the SR Law Group:

    Website: www.srlawgrp.com

    LinkedIn: SR Law Group

    Instagram: @srlawgrp

    Facebook: SR Law Group

    Tweeter: @srlawgrp

    Let's continue the conversation in our Free Facebook group!:

    Black Parents Aging

    Connect with Nicola:

    LinkedIn: Nicola Robinson

    Connect with Olivia:

    LinkedIn: Olivia Smith

    28 min
  • EP #7 - Hoarding

    Most people, especially aging parents, hoard because they have an extreme sentimental attachment to their possessions, or they believe they might need items later. Hoarding can also be a sign that an older person is depressed or showing early symptoms of dementia. Some of the problems associated with hoarding include tripping, falling and breaking a bone; overlooking bills and missing medications that are hidden in the clutter; and suffering from the environmental effects of mold, mildew and dust, and even living among insects and rodents.

    In today's episode, Nicola talks about how to approach the hoarding subject if your parents are hoarders. She also shares how you can help your parents get rid of things they no longer need, and why this is extremely important especially if they wish to remain at home as they age.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • How hoarding can be a cause of conflict in the home
    • Why hoarding is a security issue to your aging
    • How to identify if your parents are starting to be hoarders
    • What to do if you identify that your parents are hoarders
    • and so much more!

    Check out the SR Law Group:

    Website: www.srlawgrp.com

    LinkedIn: SR Law Group

    Instagram: @srlawgrp

    Facebook: SR Law Group

    Tweeter: @srlawgrp

    Let's continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!:

    Black Parents Aging

    Connect with Nicola:

    LinkedIn: Nicola Robinson

    23 min
  • EP #6 - Elder Law vs Estate Planning

    Elder Law and Estate Planning are often used interchangeably, with people mistakenly referring to both terms as the exact same thing. While the two often go hand-in-hand, they have a number of distinctions that are worth taking note of. Depending on the specifics of your life, you may need an estate planning attorney, an elder law attorney, or attorneys that specialize in both, such as Olivia and Nicola.

    In today's episode, Olivia and Nicola share more about elder law and estate planning. If you are helping your aging parents, it's important that you work with an attorney who understands your parents' specific needs. Tune in to learn more!

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • The difference between elder law and estate planning
    • Why you should get an elder law or estate planning attorney early
    • What to consider when looking for an elder law attorney
    • and so much more!

    Check out the SR Law Group:

    Website: www.srlawgrp.com

    LinkedIn: SR Law Group

    Instagram: @srlawgrp

    Facebook: SR Law Group

    Let's continue the conversation in our Free Facebook group:

    Black Parents Aging

    Connect with Nicola:

    LinkedIn: Nicola Robinson

    Connect with Olivia:

    LinkedIn: Olivia Smith

    11 min
  • EP #5 - Tech and 60

    We are living in a technology age and it's important our aging parents pay attention to the changes or risk being left behind. The internet has opened up so many doors for people of all ages, making it easier for everyone to shop, work, and learn online. While most younger people find it easy to use today's technology, aging adults are less inclined to share in its use. The benefits that come with embracing technology are massive, hence the need for us to introduce our parents to it

    In today's episode, Olivia shares how technology can improve our parents' lives, how it can be introduced to them, and why we need to ensure they are safe while navigating their way in the online space. If you are looking to buy a gift for your parents this holiday season, you probably should consider getting them a smartphone! Today's episode will tell you why.

    In a nutshell, Olivia shares:

    • How to introduce your parents to technology in order to make life easier and more enjoyable
    • The various examples of technology that will come in handy whenever your aging parents need attention.
    • Safety tips for your loved ones when using technology
    • Some of the free resources that will help your parents navigate the online space
    • and so much more!

    Free Resources Mentioned:

    GCFLearnFree.org

    TechBoomers.com

    Check out the SR Law Group:

    Website: www.srlawgrp.com

    LinkedIn: SR Law Group

    Instagram: @srlawgrp

    Facebook: SR Law Group

    Let's continue the conversation in our Free Facebook group:

    Black Parents Aging

    Connect with Nicola:

    LinkedIn: Nicola Robinson

    Connect with Olivia:

    LinkedIn: Olivia Smith

    17 min
  • EP #4 - An Advance Directive. What is it? Why You and Your Parents Both Need it?

    You want your family to be able to make the right decision should you experience a catastrophic accident or illness that leaves you unconscious or unable to communicate, right? But how do you make your wishes known? How do you communicate your choices in case of emergency treatments that will keep you alive? An Advanced Directive is the answer. By planning in advance, you get the medical care you desire while relieving your loved ones of the burden of making major medical decisions. Advanced Directives reduce the confusion and disagreements that that may come up during moments of grief and crisis.

    In today's episode, Nicola talks in detail about Advanced Directives. She highlights why everyone needs one regardless of age, what to look for when naming your agent, and the nature of decisions that your agent can make. She also tackles some of the frequently asked questions. If you don't have an Advanced Healthcare Directive for yourself or your aging parents, this episode is for you!

    You'll learn:

    • The purpose of a Healthcare Directive and why you should have one.
    • The difference between the Advanced Healthcare Directive and the HIPAA release form.
    • The advantages and disadvantages of a healthcare directive.
    • and so much more!

    Check out the SR Law Group:

    Website: www.srlawgrp.com

    LinkedIn: SR Law Group

    Instagram: @srlawgrp

    Facebook: SR Law Group

    Tweeter: @srlawgrp

    Let's continue the conversation in our Free Facebook group:

    Black Parents Aging

    Connect with Nicola:

    LinkedIn: Nicola Robinson

    Connect with Olivia:

    LinkedIn: Olivia Smith

    37 min
  • EP #3: Open Enrollment for Medicare

    The importance of Medicare boils down to this: your aging loved ones are able to access medical care when they otherwise will probably not be able to. During open enrollment, your parents can switch to a Medicare plan that's more beneficial to them. Your guidance will be highly beneficial during this time. As we are approaching the festive season, this is a perfect time to review your parents' plans, make sure they are getting everything they need, and not leaving money on the table by switching plans.

    In today's episode, you'll learn:

    • What Medicare is and a summary of what each of the parts cover.
    • Reasons why you should switch from one part to the other in order to reap maximum benefits.
    • Areas to pay attention to when choosing a given Medicare part.
    • and so much more!

    Check out the SR Law Group:

    Website: www.srlawgrp.com

    LinkedIn: SR Law Group

    Instagram: @srlawgrp

    Facebook: SR Law Group

    Tweeter: @srlawgrp

    Let's continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!:

    Black Parents Aging

    Connect with Nicola:

    LinkedIn: Nicola Robinson

    12 min
  • EP #2: How to Create a Safe Living Environment for Your Aging Loved Ones

    As our loved ones grow older, it gets to a point where some adjustments need to be made to their living spaces. Not only will their safety be guaranteed, but also their changing needs met. If your aging loved ones intend to stay where they currently are staying for as long as possible, then these adjustments will be necessary to enhance their ability to care for themselves and also prevent any accidents from occurring.

    In today's episode, Olivia discusses the nitty-gritty that one needs to pay attention to. From the floor, to the stairs, to the kitchen, and even the people they interact with! You'd be surprised that some of the things you took lightly can make your aging loved ones' living space unsafe! By adding just a few inexpensive items and removing the unnecessary ones, the home becomes a safe space regardless of the age of its inhabitants.

    In a nutshell, she covers:

    • How to prevent the fall and fire risk in the home of your aging loved one(s).
    • Why you should protect your loved ones from people that may want to take advantage of them.
    • How to communicate and engage with your loved ones to get an idea of what their safety concerns are.
    • and so much more!

    Check out the SR Law Group:

    Website: www.srlawgrp.com

    LinkedIn: SR Law Group

    Instagram: @srlawgrp

    Facebook: SR Law Group

    Tweeter: @srlawgrp

    Let's continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!:

    Black Parents Aging

    Connect with Olivia:

    LinkedIn: Olivia Smith

    25 min
  • EP #1: Having Critical Conversations with Our Aging Loved Ones

    Having "the talk" with aging parents is not always easy. It usually feels like the roles have been reversed, and the elderly may find it a hard pill to swallow. Most of them want to remain in control for as long as they possibly can, and such conversations feel like an intrusion into their privacy. Critical conversations with your aging parents shouldn't be that tough.

    In today's episode, Nicola and Olivia help you understand your parents' needs before a crisis occurs. They share tips that will help you take on the "parental role" without feeling overwhelmed or making your aging parents feel patronized. If you aren't sure whether this is the right time to have that conversation, or have thought about it but don't know where to start from, this episode is for you!

    In a nutshell, you will learn:

    • How early you should introduce the conversation.
    • Tips on how to ease into the conversation to avoid any resistance.
    • How to prioritize on the important stuff without overwhelming your parents.
    • Why you should compromise and still be firm with your message.
    • and so much more!

    Check out the SR Law Group:

    Website: www.srlawgrp.com

    LinkedIn: SR Law Group

    Instagram: @srlawgrp

    Facebook: SR Law Group

    Tweeter: @srlawgrp

    Let's continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!:

    Black Parents Aging

    Connect with Nicola:

    LinkedIn: Nicola Robinson

    Connect with Olivia:

    LinkedIn: Olivia Smith

    20 min

About Black Parents Aging Podcast

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Black Parents Aging is a podcast for busy black women who are navigating the changing parent/child dynamic with their aging parents or grandparents. Now you are the one worrying about your parents. …